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How often do you see your significant other

flex123

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I'm guessing you people who are married see each other just about everyday...

I'm asking the people in just a dating relationship. How often do you see your partner?
 
umm....we live very close to each other so practically everyday
 
2-3 times a week,its all I can stand,shes a good person,just gets on my nerves sometimes with childish shit she pulls
 
I wish I could only see her once a week at the most but she keeps showing up at my work and other places she shouldn't.

I'd say 5-10 times a week.
 
For those of you who are saying that you see her too much, I take it you're not going to marry that girl?
 
not for quite some time,but if I lived with her it wouldnt be so bad,when you see a person everyday and you dont live together and they come over you spend all your time with them,if I lived with her I could go off and do my own thing and she hers
 
I see and want to see my girl just about everyday...but it's a fairly new relationship and I guess thats how they usually go.

I hope it continues but I'm kinda a jealous person in relationships with certain girls...so who knows, I might ruin this relationship with my temper.
 
TheOak01 said:
not for quite some time,but if I lived with her it wouldnt be so bad,when you see a person everyday and you dont live together and they come over you spend all your time with them,if I lived with her I could go off and do my own thing and she hers

Oh I get it, you want to move in with her so you can get away from her.
 
The longest we've been apart in at least a year and a half has been from 6am til 10:15pm....and that was because I had class til 10. lol We're almost always together and get really bummed out on the days I have late class.
 
not really to get away its just that seeing someone day in and day out spending every minute together can be stressful,but if it was routine where she had things to do and I could do my stuff it wouldnt be such a strain as we would have away time, I guess im just very independant and couldnt be smothered
 
We live together, so everyday. :) But with our schedules, we actually don't spend that much time together. :( By the time we get home at night, we have a couple hours before bedtime.

Althought sometimes that is what makes things work - not too much together time!
 
Twice a week maybe. The whole thing is fucked to high hell though. I've never called her my girlfriend (only for lack of a better word) though she seems to think she is. She's screwing shit up for me at the bar too.
 
Average once every 10 days. That's enough.

EnderJE said:
Then why bother staying if you already know now that you're not going to marry?
That's a pretty weird question. Why bother marrying if you know you're going to die?
 
supersizeme said:
usually just the weekends and occasionally on a wednesday or thursday night.

This was quite pssobly the mos in-deptha dn wll though out post I've ever read here. I saved it to my hard-drive without a second thought.
 
Nathan said:


This was quite pssobly the mos in-deptha dn wll though out post I've ever read here. I saved it to my hard-drive without a second thought.

That was quite possibly the most grammatically correct post I've ever read here. I saved it to my hard-drive without a second thought.
 
I have no significant other and I'm begginning to think that I never will.
 
biteme said:
I have no significant other and I'm begginning to think that I never will.

biteme, youre just too hot for your own good. i think your hotness is holding you back in relationships. women are intimidated by your gorgeous body and all you want is someone to love you for you.
 
Smurfy said:


biteme, youre just too hot for your own good. i think your hotness is holding you back in relationships. women are intimidated by your gorgeous body and all you want is someone to love you for you.

oh, and BTW, that was my 1500th post. pretty significant i think
 
Smurfy said:


biteme, youre just too hot for your own good. i think your hotness is holding you back in relationships. women are intimidated by your gorgeous body and all you want is someone to love you for you.

That was such a nice thing to say. That's what my friend tells me. I'm just like you. Not enough time to develop a relationship. When I'm not working, working out, taking care of my child, doing chores, I hang out on EF, because I don't have the energy or motivation to go out and I just don't believe that I'm going to meet someone that I want to get serious with at a bar or a club.
 
Smurfy said:


oh, and BTW, that was my 1500th post. pretty significant i think

Hmmm. Could that be a sign? I've been looking for a sign.
 
During the first 9-10 months when she lived here...every single day.

Since then...she came to visit for 12 days...and I haven't seen her since November 11th.

I'll see her again Feb. 10th or 11th.

B True
 
biteme said:


That was such a nice thing to say. That's what my friend tells me. I'm just like you. Not enough time to develop a relationship. When I'm not working, working out, taking care of my child, doing chores, I hang out on EF, because I don't have the energy or motivation to go out and I just don't believe that I'm going to meet someone that I want to get serious with at a bar or a club.

believe me i feel you on this. there isnt enough days in the week to really be able to give to someone else.
 
Smurfy said:


believe me i feel you on this. there isnt enough days in the week to really be able to give to someone else.

Sometimes...no matter how much you try not to...you learn that with the right person you never seem to give much...but it always perfectly enough.

B True
 
b fold the truth said:


Sometimes...no matter how much you try not to...you learn that with the right person you never seem to give much...but it always perfectly enough.

B True

You are so very wise when it comes to this stuff.
 
Smurfy said:


You are so very wise when it comes to this stuff.

I've been burned VERY bad before. I spent MANY months trying to find reason why things happened analyzing both what she did as well as what I did wrong (and right). I still search for all of those answers.

Besides being extremely OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) I've also fell head over heels for a woman that is amazing. I've sat here many nights lately trying to think of everything that I could sell so that I could buy her a ring. Knowing that the ring that I could afford to buy her would be a drop in the bucket compared to what her ex-fiance bought her...depresses me. Then I realize that all she really wants is ME and everything about me to be in her life forever.

Simple things make the biggest difference. Paying the most attention to the simplest things will have the greatest impact on the people you are closest to.

B True
 
B True-- I'd rather have a little ring and a big commitment than a big rock and a so-so relationship. If the ring thing really bothered you there would always be the option to get another one later on.
 
OXANDRIN said:
chicks hate me for the most part
:FRlol: I've seen you in action.

You say I'm a Jealous person with girls....You bug and shit on girls when they dont bow down and want you right away.

HAHA...

I've heard you tell chicks that: Their name was fuckign dumb and retarded. Another girl that her boyfriend should spend less money on jewlery for her and invest in a nosejob for her.

and these were just two girls in one class..I wonder what other shit you've said outside when I didnt witness it.

Either way...You're awasome and you make me laugh bro.
 
Raina said:
B True-- I'd rather have a little ring and a big commitment than a big rock and a so-so relationship. If the ring thing really bothered you there would always be the option to get another one later on.

Trust me...she already has a big commitment from me. She has everything in and about me...already.

My point about the ring...is that I don't have to get her anything super nice. They don't get rings for engagement anyway...they get the ring on the day that they marry. I guess if you think about it, the engagement ring is kinda a strange thing anyway...

It just took me a while to realize that she didn't care about a ring...just as long as she had me.

B True
 
btrue... set up a paypal, we hook u up w/ a fatty ring bro! EF inscription.
 
ZKaudio said:
btrue... set up a paypal, we hook u up w/ a fatty ring bro! EF inscription.

lolol...I can see it now...bling bling.

B True
 
ZKaudio said:
uberbling... i'll get u yellow/pink/green diamonds bor... all the rage

She love me a lot...but maybe not that much...lol.

B True
 
b fold the truth said:


Knowing that the ring that I could afford to buy her would be a drop in the bucket compared to what her ex-fiance bought her...depresses me. Then I realize that all she really wants is ME and everything about me to be in her life forever.

B Fold....

A ring is just a trinket...a shiny trinket...yes, but it is all material just the same.

When I was young and poor, and very much in love I got a marriage proposal with a ring out of a quarter machine...and it meant more to me than any 1 carat diamond or fancy bobble could ever mean.

And for the other question, I don't get to see my significant other as often as I would like. Busy lives and a few delicate situations prevent that as of now. And my stubborness too..just not ready to have a live in boyfriend again.
 
toga22 said:


B Fold....

A ring is just a trinket...a shiny trinket...yes, but it is all material just the same.

When I was young and poor, and very much in love I got a marriage proposal with a ring out of a quarter machine...and it meant more to me than any 1 carat diamond or fancy bobble could ever mean.


You know...she would probably love that kind of ring just as much as anything that I could ever buy her. Warms my heart to hear a woman say that though:)

B True
 
Raina said:
The longest we've been apart in at least a year and a half has been from 6am til 10:15pm....and that was because I had class til 10. lol We're almost always together and get really bummed out on the days I have late class.
Usually when couples are so extremely attached they cant go without each other for even a very reasonable time, they are very insecure and need reassurance all the time:ryanh:
 
Why would you ever want to be with the same person day in day out, even if you "feel" like it.... youll end up having sayd all you have to say and it will die off...

when are you happiest together... when you have new experiences and thoughts to share- when is that- when you havent seen each other for at least say a week.

if thats not enough sex for you, you can always have about 3 of these relationships at a time :)
 
Robert Jan said:

Usually when couples are so extremely attached they cant go without each other for even a very reasonable time, they are very insecure and need reassurance all the time:ryanh:

And one could just as easily say that when couples are not attached and can easily go without each other for long periods of time, they are shutting out others in their life, afraid of commitment, and afraid of love.

B True
 
I don't feel like he's a "crutch" or anything to make me feel good about myself. It's not anyone elses job to make me happy. Sure other people can make me feel delighted etc but it's not his responsibility to make me feel secure about myself. That's an awful lot to ask of someone.

I feel lucky to llive with my best friend. We both have our own interests and hobbies. We both hang out with other people. We just love being together even if we're not doing the same things.
 
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