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How do you know when LOVE is REAL??

This weekend, Juicedmullet cooked for me and we had a candlelight dinner. He's a good cook. He even weighed out everything....it was really healthy. :) ........I'm in love with my Best Friend.... :p
 
When you get that special feeling, where you'd do anything to bone her.
 
exactly, my x and i really like eachother, well i think im inlove with her, there has not been more than 3 consecutive minutes in a day that have gone by when i dont think about her in the last 4 months since when we first let eachother know how we felt about eachother. but she keeps telling me i dont really mean what i say, maybe i dont really know what love is, she was my first gf, and i had every first ive ever had with her, but ive never had anyone love me back as much as i loved someone else...... when does it go beyone liking someone a lot, and turn into love? i drove over 150miles round trip yesterday because her bf yea, well i dont wanna talk about it because it makes me sick to my stomache and my heart but i drove to get her the morning after pill because she only had 12 hours left before it would do any good and she was fighting with him and depressed, theres nothing i wouldent do for that girl.... i just wish she loved me the same
 
Kastrodamus said:
Your problem is you're too nice.. Stop being nice to her and she'll love you for it.
she'll love me for not being nice to her? uhmmmm i usually like it when girls are nice to me
 
Man, that's deep. When me and the guy I am crazy about get into arguments, it just makes my heart sink to my stomach. I feel like I can't even breathe. I am so in love with him, but neither of us are ready to be together....he's not over his x and I'm not ready to deal with that, though we both know we love each other.....??? If it's real right?
 
I'll know it's real when I don't want her to leave after I get done screwing her.
 
Buffy Beffy said:
Man, that's deep. When me and the guy I am crazy about get into arguments, it just makes my heart sink to my stomach. I feel like I can't even breathe. I am so in love with him, but neither of us are ready to be together....he's not over his x and I'm not ready to deal with that, though we both know we love each other.....??? If it's real right?
was that directed at me?
 
Buffy Beffy said:



Yeah, half way anyway....and at myself I guess???
haha okay makes no sence to me but im in like the exact oppisit situation, shes not over her x, well its her bf now but she wants to break up with him but shes still so attached....
 
tempest2003 said:
i drove over 150miles round trip yesterday because her bf yea, well i dont wanna talk about it because it makes me sick to my stomache and my heart but i drove to get her the morning after pill because she only had 12 hours left before it would do any good and she was fighting with him and depressed, theres nothing i wouldent do for that girl.... i just wish she loved me the same

Ugh. Dude... no.
 
WHENEVER anything you do, and anything you say, and anything you feel is never ENOUGH.......
 
There is no mistaking love. The feeling is as instantaneous and involuntary as breathing. Even if you may be with someone else, the "feeling" will dominate to the point where you will break up or hurt said person to be with the person who made these feelings arise. It is drug-like b/c it will interfere with anything and everything at first. Your job, friends, family will all interfere with it but no matter what, all energy will be focused on this person. It can be the best and worse experience you can have.
 
tempest2003 said:
exactly, my x and i really like eachother, well i think im inlove with her, there has not been more than 3 consecutive minutes in a day that have gone by when i dont think about her in the last 4 months since when we first let eachother know how we felt about eachother. but she keeps telling me i dont really mean what i say, maybe i dont really know what love is, she was my first gf, and i had every first ive ever had with her, but ive never had anyone love me back as much as i loved someone else...... when does it go beyone liking someone a lot, and turn into love? i drove over 150miles round trip yesterday because her bf yea, well i dont wanna talk about it because it makes me sick to my stomache and my heart but i drove to get her the morning after pill because she only had 12 hours left before it would do any good and she was fighting with him and depressed, theres nothing i wouldent do for that girl.... i just wish she loved me the same


Biggest dumb-ass ever.
 
tempest2003 said:
i drove over 150miles round trip yesterday because her bf yea, well i dont wanna talk about it because it makes me sick to my stomache and my heart but i drove to get her the morning after pill because she only had 12 hours left before it would do any good and she was fighting with him and depressed, theres nothing i wouldent do for that girl.... i just wish she loved me the same

Please, for the love of God, wake up and realize she isnt going to be with you in any romantic capacity.
 
She insults me

Berates me

Infuriates me

Loves me.

She abuses

She chooses

She knows what I like.

Baby's me

Curses me

I come back for more.

Tears my sorry soul with her

Fingernails,

And patches me with

Kisses.

She is pain,

But pain is love.



-Steve Keppler
 
Whenever I remove the gag rope from her mouth and she finally gives in and says "Ok, ok I'll have sex with you. Then will you let me go?"
 
You know, what's funny is that love is this thing that you can't quantify, yet it's given a priceless value. We never know if someone really loves us, or how much, or how enduring their love will be. We crave it from other people, but they can give and take it as they choose.

We have mates leave us because they say, "You don't really love me.", when maybe you did love them the whole time... it's just that you didn't communicate it in the same language of love that they understand. Or they could kind of understand it, but by the time they ran it through their translator, it came out too rough and clumsy and choppy to really seem "pure".

You could feel like you love someone so much you would die for them, but they may leave you for someone you think is a total sleaze ball and you'll be left wondering "Is there love for her (or him) really stronger than mine? No way... no way could it be." But the maddening thing is that there is no way to really know. The only way that really matters is how your lost loved one perceived that love. It only matters in how you can externalize that love. Unfortunately, yet understandably, that's the only way that you're love will ever be measured by anyone but yourself.

I guess that's why they say that so many relationships fail because of a lack of communication.
 
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love is when you accept all her flaws and not love her any less, love is when you care more about her than you do about yourself, love is when you've been sleeping with her for 5yrs and you are still hungry for her like the first time. love is never having to say "I'm sorry" love is never having to worry.
 
casavant said:
You know, what's funny is that love is this thing that you can't quantify, yet it's given a priceless value. We never know if someone really loves us, or how much, or how enduring their love will be. We crave it from other people, but they can give and take it as they choose.

We have mates leave us because they say, "You don't really love me.", when maybe you did love them the whole time... it's just that you didn't communicate it in the same language of love that they understand. Or they could kind of understand it, but by the time they ran it through their translator, it came out too rough and clumsy and choppy to really seem "pure".

You could feel like you love someone so much you would die for them, but they may leave you for someone you think is a total sleaze ball and you'll be left wondering "Is there love for her (or him) really stronger than mine? No way... no way could it be." But the maddening thing is that there is no way to really know. The only way that really matters is how you're lost loved one perceived that love. It only matters in how you can externalize that love. Unfortunately, yet understandably, that's the only way that you're love will ever be measured by anyone but yourself.

I guess that's why they say that so many relationships fail because of a lack of communication.

that was deep brotha, way to show your smarts =)
 
casavant said:
You know, what's funny is that love is this thing that you can't quantify, yet it's given a priceless value. We never know if someone really loves us, or how much, or how enduring their love will be. We crave it from other people, but they can give and take it as they choose.

We have mates leave us because they say, "You don't really love me.", when maybe you did love them the whole time... it's just that you didn't communicate it in the same language of love that they understand. Or they could kind of understand it, but by the time they ran it through their translator, it came out too rough and clumsy and choppy to really seem "pure".

You could feel like you love someone so much you would die for them, but they may leave you for someone you think is a total sleaze ball and you'll be left wondering "Is there love for her (or him) really stronger than mine? No way... no way could it be." But the maddening thing is that there is no way to really know. The only way that really matters is how you're lost loved one perceived that love. It only matters in how you can externalize that love. Unfortunately, yet understandably, that's the only way that you're love will ever be measured by anyone but yourself.

I guess that's why they say that so many relationships fail because of a lack of communication.
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Nice , poetic even but fundamentally untrue , most folks lie , cheat and fuck around just cos they are selfish fucks. There is a litany of evidence on this board for example of guys who loved women only for them to leave them (and I know of a few the other way around 2) , the reason why they were left had little to do with the leaving party's consideration of the magnitude of that love , otherwise they wouldnt stop just to fuck some Bozo , but because of their lack of interest in their partner's love , they just didnt care enough , they didnt give a shit , they just fucked over the person who shoulda meant the most to 'em. Scum I tells ya.
 
Mandinka2 said:
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Nice , poetic even but fundamentally untrue , most folks lie , cheat and fuck around just cos they are selfish fucks. There is a litany of evidence on this board for example of guys who loved women only for them to leave them (and I know of a few the other way around 2) , the reason why they were left had little to do with the leaving party's consideration of the magnitude of that love , otherwise they wouldnt stop just to fuck some Bozo , but because of their lack of interest in their partner's love , they just didnt care enough , they didnt give a shit , they just fucked over the person who shoulda meant the most to 'em. Scum I tells ya.

I agree with you, but I don't think that post makes mine untrue. I was attempting to comment some of the quirky things about our idea of "love". I'm not saying that that is the only reason why people fuck each other over. It was just a handy example to use to get my point across as best I could.
 
casavant said:


I agree with you, but I don't think that post makes mine untrue. I was attempting to comment some of the quirky things about our idea of "love". I'm not saying that that is the only reason why people fuck each other over. It was just a handy example to use to get my point across as best I could.
Sorry man , im sure ur right , u oughta make mod here alongside Frack and AAP. I just cant see it right now - head in a muddle. Karma 2 u.
 
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