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a girl she needs to lose weight? i'm being sincere here, how would you do it without ruining her day? is it even possible? one of the staffers here has been complaining about back pain all week, and i flat out just told her, "if you lost some weight, you would feel 100% better." that's the best i could come up with.
 
My girlfriend has been eating like an overweight pig lately. I need to put a stop to it before it's too late.
 
alien amp pharm said:
My girlfriend has been eating like an overweight pig lately. I need to put a stop to it before it's too late.
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break her jaw. liquid diet. problem solved.
 
alien amp pharm said:
My girlfriend has been eating like an overweight pig lately. I need to put a stop to it before it's too late.
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You actually feed that blow up doll? Wow... Just Wow. :worried:
 
I would have told her that her weight prolly had alot to do with her back pain, and that if she put in an effort to lose a few lbs, she would see a big difference in that and her overall health. But I'm nicer than you ;)
 
HumanTarget said:
enough chikas here for some amateur porn. how's a 1.99 an hour sound?
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Only if the .99 is in all pennies ;)
 
SoKlueles said:
hahaha
omg id give you karma for that but u never pay me back:(
hahahahahaahahahhahahahaha
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I gave you some yesterday or something didn't i? :(
 
everytime i suggest to a chubby girl that she should exercise, they come up with an excuse why they can't. but then, they think it's okay to date a guy with a rock hard physique, while they maintain the UFO status. (Undesirable Fat Object)
 
Its one thing telling someone they have to lose weight and another thing supporting their decision by showing and helping them along the way. Most people don't have a clue how to eat right. Buy her a book on Macrobiotics as her next gift.
 
HumanTarget said:
a girl she needs to lose weight? i'm being sincere here, how would you do it without ruining her day? is it even possible? one of the staffers here has been complaining about back pain all week, and i flat out just told her, "if you lost some weight, you would feel 100% better." that's the best i could come up with.
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Tell her at night and it will not ruin her day!
 
HumanTarget said:
a girl she needs to lose weight? i'm being sincere here, how would you do it without ruining her day? is it even possible? one of the staffers here has been complaining about back pain all week, and i flat out just told her, "if you lost some weight, you would feel 100% better." that's the best i could come up with.
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I think that was quite sensative and caring way of sying it for you! I know you could have been harsher!
 
Talk about that new "female friend" or coworker, how slim she is. Ask your gf is she has any idea how that "female friend" kept that body in such a good shape lol
 
CO B-man said:
I think that was quite sensative and caring way of sying it for you! I know you could have been harsher!
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well, i used to be a trainer at a gym and could tell how intimidated a woman was by coming in and wearing sweat that still couldn't cover up her problem. and i know how hard it is going into an unfamiliar element. a lot of gyms are very "clique-ish" and most of the time, are very unwelcoming. and the biggest factor is that this is a lifestyle change. harder than quitting smoking, imo. it takes so much patience. and for a girl who already has self-confidence issues, it is likely that she will give up rather quickly. i always try and encourage them to be at a place where they can be comfortable. hell, one of the gyms out here my ex and i used to train at was a scum hole. she wouldn't do legs unless i was doing them with her, cuz every dirtbag in the place has to take his break and watch her squat and do hammy curls. so, i can see why some girls never try....
 
HumanTarget said:
well, i used to be a trainer at a gym and could tell how intimidated a woman was by coming in and wearing sweat that still couldn't cover up her problem. and i know how hard it is going into an unfamiliar element. a lot of gyms are very "clique-ish" and most of the time, are very unwelcoming. and the biggest factor is that this is a lifestyle change. harder than quitting smoking, imo. it takes so much patience. and for a girl who already has self-confidence issues, it is likely that she will give up rather quickly. i always try and encourage them to be at a place where they can be comfortable. hell, one of the gyms out here my ex and i used to train at was a scum hole. she wouldn't do legs unless i was doing them with her, cuz every dirtbag in the place has to take his break and watch her squat and do hammy curls. so, i can see why some girls never try....
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Who are you, and what have you done with HT?

I think you have multiple personalities. ;-)
 
HumanTarget said:
well, i used to be a trainer at a gym and could tell how intimidated a woman was by coming in and wearing sweat that still couldn't cover up her problem. and i know how hard it is going into an unfamiliar element. a lot of gyms are very "clique-ish" and most of the time, are very unwelcoming. and the biggest factor is that this is a lifestyle change. harder than quitting smoking, imo. it takes so much patience. and for a girl who already has self-confidence issues, it is likely that she will give up rather quickly. i always try and encourage them to be at a place where they can be comfortable. hell, one of the gyms out here my ex and i used to train at was a scum hole. she wouldn't do legs unless i was doing them with her, cuz every dirtbag in the place has to take his break and watch her squat and do hammy curls. so, i can see why some girls never try....
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There is in fact hope for you! You have a heart! What you say is correct I can tell atthe gym too plus if you are doing cardio they are usually shy and put their towel over the controls so nobody can see they are only doing the easiest level. Which personally I am proud of them for just being their and trying!
 
HT, listen fat ppl know they are fat, no need to reinforce it.
I work with a man who is 497 lbs. I am always on his back when he says he never feels good etc. He knows he's fat, he knows he needs to lose weight (yes he gives me an excuse every time I ask him to walk with me at lunch), but there is nothing I can do to help him except encourage and offer up advice.
You can tell her, you would love to help her lose weight if she ever feels she's ready.

OR

You can put her under your spell and when she is in full awe of you, you can brainwash her into losing weight! Chubby girls will do anything for their men ;-)
 
CO B-man said:
There is in fact hope for you! You have a heart! What you say is correct I can tell atthe gym too plus if you are doing cardio they are usually shy and put their towel over the controls so nobody can see they are only doing the easiest level. Which personally I am proud of them for just being their and trying!
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i'm the big brother at the gym i'm at now. it's right by a high school, so lots of younger guys come in, kinda like the overweight women, but they're real skinny and akward. usually choose the wrong exercises. i always try and make everyone feel welcome.
 
heatherrae said:
Who are you, and what have you done with HT?

I think you have multiple personalities. ;-)
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I was just thinking the same thing! So HT, you do have a heart somewhere in there.
Anyway, when I joined the gym a couple of months ago I have to say that it is very intemidating. VERY! And I am not even that over weight. Lots of rock hard bodies at my gym and a good bit of the weights are in the back where it appears that only the guys go....I want to go in there but haven't mustard the nerve yet. The women's section is such a joke. Only a handfull of equipment. So I tend to stay in the middle ground and my goal is to work my way up to the back.
I got the so called personal trainer and he was in very good shape but he acted like I was wasting his time or something.
1st day....he asked me "okay what do you want to start with?" I told him I want to work on everything and what did he suggest. He walked me to a machine and luckily I had been in a gym before and remembered how to use most the equipment because he didn't look like he was gonna show me. Then he asked me how much weight did I want to do.....Hell, I had no idea because the next question from me was well depends on how many I have to do....lol
I just couldn't even imagine what someone who is very much over weight would go through. When I walk in that gym, I just keep telling myself that I am there for me and only me. Hey, they had to start somewhere also. right? But the difference is that I am motivated to do it. It took me awhile to get here but I had to want it. No matter what anyone else said that wouldn't do it....That person has to want it for them.

after all that rambling that was my point in the last sentence. Sorry.
 
KSHARP01 said:
I was just thinking the same thing! So HT, you do have a heart somewhere in there.
Anyway, when I joined the gym a couple of months ago I have to say that it is very intemidating. VERY! And I am not even that over weight. Lots of rock hard bodies at my gym and a good bit of the weights are in the back where it appears that only the guys go....I want to go in there but haven't mustard the nerve yet. The women's section is such a joke. Only a handfull of equipment. So I tend to stay in the middle ground and my goal is to work my way up to the back.
I got the so called personal trainer and he was in very good shape but he acted like I was wasting his time or something.
1st day....he asked me "okay what do you want to start with?" I told him I want to work on everything and what did he suggest. He walked me to a machine and luckily I had been in a gym before and remembered how to use most the equipment because he didn't look like he was gonna show me. Then he asked me how much weight did I want to do.....Hell, I had no idea because the next question from me was well depends on how many I have to do....lol
I just couldn't even imagine what someone who is very much over weight would go through. When I walk in that gym, I just keep telling myself that I am there for me and only me. Hey, they had to start somewhere also. right? But the difference is that I am motivated to do it. It took me awhile to get here but I had to want it. No matter what anyone else said that wouldn't do it....That person has to want it for them.

after all that rambling that was my point in the last sentence. Sorry.
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always remember, a lot of these "huge" people are very small outside of the gym. and at one point, they were like you.
 
KSHARP01 said:
The women's section is such a joke. Only a handfull of equipment. So I tend to stay in the middle ground and my goal is to work my way up to the back.
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The woman section? What the heck is that? ! You need to change gyms if they have a woman's section!
Working out is not gender specific. I say you walk right into the "mans section" and push some beefy guy over and use his stuff ;-)

The other stuff you said, I agree with. Very intimidating! When I first joined a gym, I think I peed a little in my tights ;-)
 
HumanTarget said:
i'm the big brother at the gym i'm at now. it's right by a high school, so lots of younger guys come in, kinda like the overweight women, but they're real skinny and akward. usually choose the wrong exercises. i always try and make everyone feel welcome.
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You are all right in my book!
 
KSHARP01 said:
I was just thinking the same thing! So HT, you do have a heart somewhere in there.
Anyway, when I joined the gym a couple of months ago I have to say that it is very intemidating. VERY! And I am not even that over weight. Lots of rock hard bodies at my gym and a good bit of the weights are in the back where it appears that only the guys go....I want to go in there but haven't mustard the nerve yet. The women's section is such a joke. Only a handfull of equipment. So I tend to stay in the middle ground and my goal is to work my way up to the back.
I got the so called personal trainer and he was in very good shape but he acted like I was wasting his time or something.
1st day....he asked me "okay what do you want to start with?" I told him I want to work on everything and what did he suggest. He walked me to a machine and luckily I had been in a gym before and remembered how to use most the equipment because he didn't look like he was gonna show me. Then he asked me how much weight did I want to do.....Hell, I had no idea because the next question from me was well depends on how many I have to do....lol
I just couldn't even imagine what someone who is very much over weight would go through. When I walk in that gym, I just keep telling myself that I am there for me and only me. Hey, they had to start somewhere also. right? But the difference is that I am motivated to do it. It took me awhile to get here but I had to want it. No matter what anyone else said that wouldn't do it....That person has to want it for them.

after all that rambling that was my point in the last sentence. Sorry.
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Good point. Keep your motivation. Take pics to show yourself your progress that adds to your motivation too.
 
blueta2 said:
The woman section? What the heck is that? ! You need to change gyms if they have a woman's section!
Working out is not gender specific. I say you walk right into the "mans section" and push some beefy guy over and use his stuff ;-)

The other stuff you said, I agree with. Very intimidating! When I first joined a gym, I think I peed a little in my tights ;-)
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YES, you heard me right......a women's section! It sucks as bad as it sounds! I really won't go in there...no many do. They need to break that damn wall away and open it all up!
 
heatherrae said:
Who are you, and what have you done with HT?

I think you have multiple personalities. ;-)
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no Darling, on very rare occassions, i wake up in a good mood and don't want to shoot myself. today is one of them. i told you i work for a non-profit for peanuts. literally, one bag of salted peanuts a day. where i could be working in a topless bar making twice as much.
 
HumanTarget said:
always remember, a lot of these "huge" people are very small outside of the gym. and at one point, they were like you.
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Thanks for that...really. And I am trying to keep that in mind. I have said before my son keeps pushing me. Great motivator! My little star. :heart:
I am determined to get my body back to the way it was, I don't want to have nothing jiggly.....My new addiction.

If I sound all mushy today, more than usual....I have had a bad night and morning.....please just excuse me.
 
KSHARP01 said:
Thanks for that...really. And I am trying to keep that in mind. I have said before my son keeps pushing me. Great motivator! My little star. :heart:
I am determined to get my body back to the way it was, I don't want to have nothing jiggly.....My new addiction.

If I sound all mushy today, more than usual....I have had a bad night and morning.....please just excuse me.
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K, if you are determined, you will do it. It takes motivation but once you see results, that's when the real addiction starts. Don't get discouraged if you don't see results right away, it will come, I promise!
 
blueta2 said:
K, if you are determined, you will do it. It takes motivation but once you see results, that's when the real addiction starts. Don't get discouraged if you don't see results right away, it will come, I promise!
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Thx....that is why I am glad I found ef...so many encouraging words of motivation and experience from so many nice people. My new home away from home...lol :kiss:
 
KSHARP01 said:
Thanks for that...really. And I am trying to keep that in mind. I have said before my son keeps pushing me. Great motivator! My little star. :heart:
I am determined to get my body back to the way it was, I don't want to have nothing jiggly.....My new addiction.

If I sound all mushy today, more than usual....I have had a bad night and morning.....please just excuse me.
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you're lucky. a lot of kids wouldn't wanna be near their moms after a certain age, let alone help them train. you must be a good parent. if you were my mom, i'd breast feed till i was 17-18.
 
HumanTarget said:
you're lucky. a lot of kids wouldn't wanna be near their moms after a certain age, let alone help them train. you must be a good parent. if you were my mom, i'd breast feed till i was 17-18.
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Well, every mom likes to think so. It was sweet that he put very nice coments under myspace..saying I was the best mom and loved me....all that good shit we like to hear. He is almost 14 so yes that is a shocker to me also!!
 
KSHARP01 said:
Well, every mom likes to think so. It was sweet that he put very nice coments under myspace..saying I was the best mom and loved me....all that good shit we like to hear. He is almost 14 so yes that is a shocker to me also!!
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you make me wish i was adopted.
 
HumanTarget said:
you make me wish i was adopted.
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awww I think your being nice :qt:
You must be having a really good day today. But my mom was adopted.....and that isn't good either. I am friends with my son until I have to be mom. I can be a softy when it comes to him..my only child. BUT he also knows where I stand firm and draw the line. School is where I give him no slack! He is actually on lock down right now for grades but doesn't get mad at me, he will even tell people that it is his own fault. Actually admitted to me that having a girlfriend was a big part of the problem. How many kids will let you sit there and read there messages on myspace with no worries while there mom is sitting right there? I would not have another one for nothing...I couldn't be so lucky twice.
 
I agree that she knows she's fat.

I think you did an excellent thing by notifying her that you think its disgusting.

Motivators are harsh sometimes.
 
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