DUH she forgot you idiot!!!
Freak Show said:
This bitch (YES SHE IS NOW OFFICIALLY A BITCH) and I were supposed to go out tonight after she gets off work at 9pm. I'm sittin here at 10pm and finally I call. No one's there. I leave a message, nothing pissy. She calls back 10 minutes later and says something like, "I just got back from grocery shoppin. God, I'm so tired. You know I'm goin campin tomorrow and I haven't gotten anything prepared yet. Would you mind a rain check?" You can take your rain check, cover it in broken glass, set it aflame, and jam it up your ASS!!!!! What the fuck am I supposed to do now????????????
Cmon don't be silly,
FS - she obviously forgot!!! She just forgot!!! Didn't you ever forget one thing in your whole life??? It doesn't mean she doesn't care, you twit.
If she did it deliberately she'd have been awkward and evasive about it. She wasn't, was she? So
obviously she forgot.
Call her before you go camping and just ask her, "Sweetheart, did you forget we were sposed to go out last night?"
See what she replies. Then you will know for sure if she did it deliberately or she just forgot.
If you are lucky she will be filled with remorse and strongly desirous of making it up to you
And then overall you will have benefitted in the relationship because remorse is a powerful thing getting people do do all kinds of stuff they wouldn't have thought of before...
good luck but try not to overreact next time and try to calmly consider the most simplest explanation like - she just forgot!!!
Heck i'd forget my car keys if i didn't
need them to drive...
- as it is i can never remember when i put those - darn things...
it is cute how much you care about her so channel that love into resolving this so either you are fine again or you know for sure she doesn't care about you and you can make a clean break...but don't just assume stuff about her. you'll really wish you'd bothered to find out if you go through all this and then one day you hear this is her story - you suddenly lost interest one night - she remembers talking to you after grocery shopping and for some reason you were - weird...so even tho she thought you were very cute you were not longer interested (shrugs)
wouldn't that be a STUPID thing to happen to the two of ya
so go fix it like a REAL man *grin*
well assuming you are a man LOL
love
helen