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ultragainz
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iam bored...
##spiderbaby##
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I was almost a tough guy tonight after the coffee shop clerk was a little to nice to my g/f. 
Sometimes its just better to think your a tough guy and in control than to beat down a coffee shop clerk.
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Sometimes its just better to think your a tough guy and in control than to beat down a coffee shop clerk.
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Bobber
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Yall have some crazy restraint, if a guy hits on my girl in front of me knowing full and well that she is with me then that means they are disrespecting me and its time to atl east bitch slap his ass. And if she doesnt understand that that was what was happening then its time for a new bitch anyways.
Tryn2BeBig
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word bobber
guys, cmon! i understand the urge to slap someone around when you feel like they are disrespecting you. but, in all honesty, it doesnt really sit well with your girl. ESPECIALLY if your a big guy, becuz than it looks like you think youre better than everyone else cuz youre bigger than them . showing restraint in certain situations shows that you deserve respect and that youre not just the bigger man physically, but also mentally. dont get me wrong, though, there are some very extreme occasions when a man should let the smack down ......but, not over every lil thang!!!!! nahmean????
casavant
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I hear ya, Bobber
You hit the nail on the head concerning the disrespect issue. If someone is blatantly hitting on your girl with the full knowledge that the two of you are together, it's time to put them in check. No, I wouldn't have beaten the shit out of the coffee boy- I would have to be in the situation myself and see the exact dynamics of the interaction in order to make a call on that one.
The ones that really piss me off are the guys that have a hard-on for your girl but masquerade as "just friends". If you tell them to stay the fuck away, you risk being seen as a controlling bastard, which only helps the little fucker. I usually have a rational talk with these guys at first, but make it clear there will be consequences if I find out they're trying to move in. Some people say, "If you were secure with yourself it wouldn't bother you.". But that's not it. Even if it's some goofy little guy that wouldn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of getting anywhere with her, it's the fact that he is disrespecting YOU. And you know what? Some people like to fool themselves into thinking that humans are "civilized", that our capability for rational thought allows us to transcend the animal world, but believe me, we ARE still animals. When it comes down to it, you are still controlled by the more primal parts of your brain. What gets respect in the animal world? Physical dominance, pure and simple. If a guy is really going over the line- really stepping on my toes- he's going to get a little taste of it. I'm not saying I'm even going to do any kind of real damage to him, but he'll get some idea of what I could do. That's usually enough.
You hit the nail on the head concerning the disrespect issue. If someone is blatantly hitting on your girl with the full knowledge that the two of you are together, it's time to put them in check. No, I wouldn't have beaten the shit out of the coffee boy- I would have to be in the situation myself and see the exact dynamics of the interaction in order to make a call on that one.
The ones that really piss me off are the guys that have a hard-on for your girl but masquerade as "just friends". If you tell them to stay the fuck away, you risk being seen as a controlling bastard, which only helps the little fucker. I usually have a rational talk with these guys at first, but make it clear there will be consequences if I find out they're trying to move in. Some people say, "If you were secure with yourself it wouldn't bother you.". But that's not it. Even if it's some goofy little guy that wouldn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of getting anywhere with her, it's the fact that he is disrespecting YOU. And you know what? Some people like to fool themselves into thinking that humans are "civilized", that our capability for rational thought allows us to transcend the animal world, but believe me, we ARE still animals. When it comes down to it, you are still controlled by the more primal parts of your brain. What gets respect in the animal world? Physical dominance, pure and simple. If a guy is really going over the line- really stepping on my toes- he's going to get a little taste of it. I'm not saying I'm even going to do any kind of real damage to him, but he'll get some idea of what I could do. That's usually enough.
Super Sport
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diezel said:
depending on the girl im with, if she is my Girlfriend and not some just some biach then coffee boy gets punked. and its not about weather or not it sits well with the girl, its not even about her, its about some guy straight out disrespecting me..of course i can honestly say that NO one has ever disrespected any girl ive dated or me...theylook sometimes when they think im not looking but i dont mind that..as long as they dont open their mouths and start sayin anything.
GearedChupaCabra
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brickgirl- now thats fucked up
dude
invite the so called friend over for dinner with you and your girl ,and while your girl sits gets dinner ready and you and the " friend " talk in the den you clean your guns and mention that you dont know what happened to her last boyfriend , he must have moved because he hasnt been seen around for awhile
invite the so called friend over for dinner with you and your girl ,and while your girl sits gets dinner ready and you and the " friend " talk in the den you clean your guns and mention that you dont know what happened to her last boyfriend , he must have moved because he hasnt been seen around for awhile
foreverblast2
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damn yall some violent mutha fuckas..
john
john
Bobber
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Funny this thread resurfaced!!! Today, at school, I went to sit with a few buds and shoot the breeze for a bit. There was this guy that I knew I noticed from somewhere before sitting across the table from me and I finally figured out where I had seen him. Over the summer me and my girl where at a jewelry store in the mall and this guy would not take his eyes of her and would occasionally try looking into me.He is bigger than me, frame wise, but I would kick the ever living shit out of him and I could see it in his eyes that he knew it too. My girl absolutely hates fighting so I kept my temper at a simmer and when I was about to say something he made some lame ass comment that kinda chilled me out. Anyways, today once again he kept looking at me and eveytime we made eye contact he would look away. I looked at him and asked " Do you always have a problem staring at people and their girls?" He tried to act like he didn't know what I was talking about at first but then he stated kising my ass about how the only reason he was staring at her was b/c they were in a psych class together. Dont get me wrong guys, I know my gf is attractive and I dont mind the occassional glances, but when its a long ,blunt,deep stare thn it is disrespect in my eyes. I knew he was full of shit b/c my girl has not taken a psych class yet. After he said that I told him the only reason that I didnt fuck his ass up back then was b/c of my girls deep hatred for fighting and that now that she is not here I would be more than happy to stick my foot up his ass. He appologized and did not say a word or look my way again for the remainder of the tie that I wa sitting there.
The moral of the story......if you disrespect a guy by messing with his woman it will catch up to you!
The greatest part about it all is that she will never know I did this and I am still a great guy for keeping my cool!!
The moral of the story......if you disrespect a guy by messing with his woman it will catch up to you!
The greatest part about it all is that she will never know I did this and I am still a great guy for keeping my cool!!
Ercole
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Hm ... what exactly did you think the coffee shop clerk was going to do, bone her right in front of you?
An attitude adjustment can really help here. Say you're out with your girl and another guy smiles and flirts with her. You can either become outraged at being DISRESPECTED -- or you can just realize your chick is hot and take it as a compliment.
I feel pride when other guys notice my girl and how beautiful and attractive she is. Makes me feel good because I know she's mine, not theirs.
Of course if it crosses the line -- phone numbers are exchanged or he gets pushy -- THAT'S disrespectful and not to be tolerated. But a little flirtation can be good for a relationship. It reassures your girl that she's still attractive to other guys, not just you. Allowing her to flirt a little makes it so she doesn't need to cheat to build up her self-esteem. I think in as healthy relationship a little flirtation on both sides should be tolerated -- it's a way of blowing off sexual steam so it won't build up and tempt someone to actually cheat.
Now turn it around -- if a gorgeous babe came up to you in a coffee shop and smiled and flirted a little, would you think your girl was right to blow up and smack her to the floor? Of course not! You'd tell her it means nothing, you don't even know the babe. If you want that freedom, you'd better be prepared to give it to your girl as well. Fair is fair.
A really desirable girl won't stay in prison forever. If you relax and let her flirt a little, it shows her you respect her and trust her not to go over the line.
It's fun to flirt with strangers from time to time! Enjoy it,and let your girl enjoy it, too. It can make yur relationship stronger and mroe trusting in the long run.
My two cents!
An attitude adjustment can really help here. Say you're out with your girl and another guy smiles and flirts with her. You can either become outraged at being DISRESPECTED -- or you can just realize your chick is hot and take it as a compliment.
I feel pride when other guys notice my girl and how beautiful and attractive she is. Makes me feel good because I know she's mine, not theirs.
Of course if it crosses the line -- phone numbers are exchanged or he gets pushy -- THAT'S disrespectful and not to be tolerated. But a little flirtation can be good for a relationship. It reassures your girl that she's still attractive to other guys, not just you. Allowing her to flirt a little makes it so she doesn't need to cheat to build up her self-esteem. I think in as healthy relationship a little flirtation on both sides should be tolerated -- it's a way of blowing off sexual steam so it won't build up and tempt someone to actually cheat.
Now turn it around -- if a gorgeous babe came up to you in a coffee shop and smiled and flirted a little, would you think your girl was right to blow up and smack her to the floor? Of course not! You'd tell her it means nothing, you don't even know the babe. If you want that freedom, you'd better be prepared to give it to your girl as well. Fair is fair.
A really desirable girl won't stay in prison forever. If you relax and let her flirt a little, it shows her you respect her and trust her not to go over the line.
It's fun to flirt with strangers from time to time! Enjoy it,and let your girl enjoy it, too. It can make yur relationship stronger and mroe trusting in the long run.
My two cents!
I had a couple of guys hitting on my girl and my best friends girl at the club one night , I wanted to put a beatin on somebody , well my buds girl says "watch this" she walks over all sexy like and bends down to talk to one of them , then the guy gets up looks at me like he can read my mind says something to his buddy he looks at me like I was pointing a gun at them then they both get out as fast as possible.
The girl comes back over smiling so I asked what did you tell those guys she says
" ya see that big guy over their stairing at you" "he asked me to come over here and see which one ove you was single cause he's gonna take the other one home and fuck him"
I think that made me feel better than if I were to hit one of them , and I diden't have to go to jail with assed up hands.
The girl comes back over smiling so I asked what did you tell those guys she says
" ya see that big guy over their stairing at you" "he asked me to come over here and see which one ove you was single cause he's gonna take the other one home and fuck him"
I think that made me feel better than if I were to hit one of them , and I diden't have to go to jail with assed up hands.
FrankRizzo
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You mean this ISN'T true???
theoak01
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some guy who wants my girl but has no chance keeps hitting on her infront of me,he knows we are hooked up and im bigger then him and could easily beat his ass,,anyway he poked her tit and it took all i was worth not to beat the fucking shit out of him,but he has been warned to stay the fuck away ,if he even looks at her the wrong way its all on,my girl says he has no chance and that she wants to be with me but im a insecure guy so what can ya do
slin shady
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diezel said:ESPECIALLY if your a big guy, becuz than it looks like you think youre better than everyone else cuz youre bigger than them .
Well ,, that does make you better doesn't it??
CYCLEON
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karma to ercole - the only one who doesnt sound like he is 16 years old with his mommy and daddy to take care of him - you puppies get older you might understand what im saying.
The Canadian Oak - if the fellow is laying hands on her, that could very well escalate the situation - groping is a no-no. If that happens again after a warning, depending on the severity - you could be possibly be legally justifed in defending her from assault perhaps - so then you beat his ass
The Canadian Oak - if the fellow is laying hands on her, that could very well escalate the situation - groping is a no-no. If that happens again after a warning, depending on the severity - you could be possibly be legally justifed in defending her from assault perhaps - so then you beat his ass
wow.....well.... all i gotta say on this "coffe clerk gettin beat up" issue is this:
if you're with someone guy/girl.... and the thought of someone else flirting with them or hitting on them infuriates you that much, it's not always about feelin disrespected by that other person. sometimes jealousy like that is fueled by the lack of trust you have in the person you're with. dunno, i understand that a lil bit of jealousy is healthy... but if you get all raged up from it.....thats not too good. the way i see it, if i was with a really hot guy, and someone was hittin on him.... I'D be flattered.... becuz my man is so hot that he gets hit on that much.... but he comes home with me and noone else.... so its an ego boost for me and him. and it would work the other way around, too...... he would see guys hit on me and be a lil jealous, but ultimately he woul feel proud that guys find me attractive but he KNOWS my heart and body are his only!!!!!!!!
too much jealousy will cuz the other person to do something that REALLY gives you a reason to be pissed.
if you're with someone guy/girl.... and the thought of someone else flirting with them or hitting on them infuriates you that much, it's not always about feelin disrespected by that other person. sometimes jealousy like that is fueled by the lack of trust you have in the person you're with. dunno, i understand that a lil bit of jealousy is healthy... but if you get all raged up from it.....thats not too good. the way i see it, if i was with a really hot guy, and someone was hittin on him.... I'D be flattered.... becuz my man is so hot that he gets hit on that much.... but he comes home with me and noone else.... so its an ego boost for me and him. and it would work the other way around, too...... he would see guys hit on me and be a lil jealous, but ultimately he woul feel proud that guys find me attractive but he KNOWS my heart and body are his only!!!!!!!!
too much jealousy will cuz the other person to do something that REALLY gives you a reason to be pissed.
casavant
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Sheeyit
I think I can handle someone else looking at my girl- she's been a dancer for the year and a half we've been together. That was not the issue I was trying to address.
The whole cliched little "if you were secure with yourself it wouldn't matter, you sound like a 16 year old, bla bla bla" is fucking laughable to me. I've never flet like destroying a dude for looking. It's if he takes it farther, under certain circumstances, etc., etc.
I make no apologies for my previous postings.
I think I can handle someone else looking at my girl- she's been a dancer for the year and a half we've been together. That was not the issue I was trying to address.
The whole cliched little "if you were secure with yourself it wouldn't matter, you sound like a 16 year old, bla bla bla" is fucking laughable to me. I've never flet like destroying a dude for looking. It's if he takes it farther, under certain circumstances, etc., etc.
I make no apologies for my previous postings.
