Help me please

[cladshirt]

My divorce will be final the last weekend of this month. I don't want this divorce. I have been depressed for a couple of months now. I don't do anything but stay home and cry. I need somewhere to go the last weekend of March. I feel like my life is over. Someone give me some ideas on where to go and what to do. I just need a get away. I work for an airline so I can pretty much go anywhere. I am not looking for sex for I love my wife with everything I have. I hope one day we will be back together. She seems to be moving on now so I need to get out of here. Help!

 

[decem]

well.. if you're covered in hair.. you should go to mr. muscle's village.. the men there would be sure to show you a good time..

 

[cladshirt]

Re

First off I'm not gay. But I'm just wanting to get away and have some fun to take my mind off this divorce. I have 2 girls and this is more pain than I thought you could possible endure. Thanks for the offer but not what I am into.

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

That sux dude. Never been married, but found the best medicine to forget about one is to get another one.

 

[decem]

um.. i was joking dude..


lighten up.. get out of the house.... get some starbucks and some fresh air...




then take a trip to the phillipines and treat yourself to a top of the line hooker for only $10 twice a day for a week.. that'll cheer you up.

 

[MrMuscle]

well.. if you're covered in hair.. you should go to mr. muscle's village.. the men there would be sure to show you a good time..

dont worry bro. you'll reach puberty at the end too

 

[cladshirt]

Re

I wish it was that easy but another woman will not help me get over 11 years of marriage.

 

[John G]

Hmmm.

It always sucks losing someone you love, or are still in love with. I am in a situation right now with my girlfriend or now I should say ex-girlfriend, back and forth with her for the past 6 months. I love her to death. Its come to a point where I have to face that we just don't click anymore. My case not being half as serious and there aren't any kids involved, but I feel that the only way I could move on right now is if I disappear like go away for a month and just forget and come back with a new mind, refreshed and ready to continue and live my life. Everything I do reminds me of her, everything. Whenever I have time to sit and think, I think about her and what I could do to make things work out. The possibilities are endless. They circle in my mind over and over. "Maybe this, or what if that. What about that time?"

Listen life isn't over. What has happen has happened. It happened for a reason, and you might even be better of this way. I guess my best advice for you is to stay strong. It gets so hard sometimes to let go. It sounds like you love her and want to continue, but she wants to move on for whatever reasons. If you have relatives or friends you are close too, spend some time with them.

Good Luck,
John G.