heartbreak

[fallenangel]

I really liked this girl but she wasn't interested in me and she now fancies my best mate, sometimes i really do feel suicidal just havn't got the guts to go through with it i'm so sick of rejection and at 22 i'm not getting any younger

 

[WODIN]

22! Shit when I was 22 getting serious about anything was not in the plan. You are way too young to be getting all bent out of shape over a girl you might have liked to have been with.

My advice...get some herb, get high, go get laid. If your ulgy buy a hooker!

 

[Raina]

No other person is worth getting that upset over. Ultimately you have to realize that you are in control of your own life and happiness. It's an unrealistic expectation to hope to meet someone who will make you feel happy/complete. Not to say that others can't bring much joy into our lives, but that's not fair to put that kind of pressure on someone else.

It's no fun to be rejected. I can certainly sympathize cookie. Whenever it's happened to me I've figured that there was a reason for it (even if I was bummed out and pissy about it for a bit).

I'm sorry that you're down right now. I hope that you take care of yourself and realize that at some point you'll meet someone and it'll be the right time and place. I guess it's just hard to be patient....but for now do what you want to and try to have a great time. Life's too short to mope around wishing things were different. Oh, and 22 isn't old.

 

[fallenangel]

yeah but even at 22 lots of people i know are getting engaged ect and i don't even have a girlfriend!! as for the hooker idea i already did that one (several times) which just shows how low i've become (nothing against hookers just at my age i shouldn't need them)

 

[paradox]

I really liked this girl but she wasn't interested in me and she now fancies my best mate, sometimes i really do feel suicidal just havn't got the guts to go through with it i'm so sick of rejection and at 22 i'm not getting any younger

If you really do have suicidal thoughts, go talk to your doctor, you may need a anti-depressive medication to help with seratoin uptake in your brain.

 

[fallenangel]

i'm taking antidepressants its staves off insomnia and anxiety and panic attacks but anyone who's never used them is deluding thereselves if they think that antidepressants are a happy pill, they keep me functional but thats all

 

[Raina]

yeah but even at 22 lots of people i know are getting engaged ect and i don't even have a girlfriend!!

I'm 23 and have friends my age or even younger who are married with kids. No thanks. Someday, but no time soon for me. I feel very lucky to have little tying me down right now. I can hop out of town on a whim, move across the country for a year if I feel like it, and generally do as I please. I know that at some point I won't have that kind of freedom so I try to enjoy it. Not to say I don't bitch and whine that life sucks sometimes, but largely I believe we're only as joyful/miserable as we make ourselves.

 

[paradox]

i'm taking antidepressants its staves off insomnia and anxiety and panic attacks but anyone who's never used them is deluding thereselves if they think that antidepressants are a happy pill, they keep me functional but thats all

Have any ever considered talking to a psycologist? They can do a world of good.

 

[fallenangel]

A pyschologist?? i'm in england you see and well i think (but i'm not sure) a doctor has to refer you and most doctors are crap like have some more tablets. An example i've taken paroxetine (paxil, seroxat) in the past and its terrible to come off i ended up breaking tablets into 10mg every other and still had side effects when i came off, my mate was on it as well, his doctor has told him to come off 30mg straight away without cutting the dosage i think he'll be in bed for a week and so does he.


lifes so hard and doesn't seem to get any easier as you get older more responsibilities and more pressure, my high sex drive doesn't help being alone

 

[paradox]

A pyschologist?? i'm in england you see and well i think (but i'm not sure) a doctor has to refer you and most doctors are crap like have some more tablets. An example i've taken paroxetine (paxil, seroxat) in the past and its terrible to come off i ended up breaking tablets into 10mg every other and still had side effects when i came off, my mate was on it as well, his doctor has told him to come off 30mg straight away without cutting the dosage i think he'll be in bed for a week and so does he.
lifes so hard and doesn't seem to get any easier as you get older more responsibilities and more pressure, my high sex drive doesn't help being alone

Tell your doctor you have some personal problems you need to work out & for him or her to refer you to a psycologist or psyciatrist.