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Have you ever loved somebody so much...

Big Buck

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but you still want to let her go? You go back and forth with her...you're not happy, you know that being on your own, will make you happy...but you're scared to hurt her feelings, becuase you genuinely love this girl, but just don't want to be with there anymore. :bawling:
 
Tough situation. Been there a couple times though not exactly like what you described. I just hope they find another guy.
 
Yep...........Poet's, story teller's and song writers through the ages have soothed heavy hearts with their tales of wow without resolution.
Good luck buddy..

Bouncer
 
Big Buck said:
but you still want to let her go? You go back and forth with her...you're not happy, you know that being on your own, will make you happy...but you're scared to hurt her feelings, becuase you genuinely love this girl, but just don't want to be with there anymore. :bawling:

I was married to that girl.
 
lidten to the old records "i fall to pieces" and "crazy" by the late, great, miss patsy cline. she expresses our feeling and regrets more eloquently than u or i can, buck.
 
HappyScrappy said:

I love her, but I'm not sure this is where I want to be right now.

yeap exactly....:bawling: I need to tell her how I feel, but I don't want to hurt your feelings. Last time I tried to tell her how I feel, she was threatening to commit suicide, go bang other guys if I left, etc, etc.
 
wow.........and i thought MY love like was fucked up!
 
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frorider6 said:
I was married to that girl.

Divorced. We did the back and forth thing a couple of times. She loved me more than anything in the world. I nurtured her and took her from a spoiled little girl to an independent confident woman. But somewhere along the way, my feelings for her changed.

I haven't talked to her in a couple of years and I hope she's doing well. I do know that she almost married someone shortly after we divorced. I felt horrible because I wanted her to be happy but knew it was too soon for her.

I could have stayed with her and made her the happiest woman in the world, but I wouldn't have been happy. I decided I had to start making myself happy first. Hopefully I'll love another woman as much as I loved her in the beginning. And I hope this love lasts.
 
HappyScrappy said:

I wish I were 5-7 years older, then I'd have no qualms settling down...


EXACTLY!!! I'm onlyl 21, and she's 26!! She's been to college, partied, etc, etc. She's ready to settle down!!! I get out of the Marines in 10 months and want to EXPEREINCE college and life, w/o being tied down you know?
 
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frorider6 said:



I decided I had to start making myself happy first.

That's what I need to do, but I don't know how to tell her that.
 
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Big Buck said:


That's what I need to do, but I don't know how to tell her that.

I can't help you. Every situation is different.

Be true to yourself.
 
what is so funny is im the older one...25

and she wants all of that at 20...iv been there though, ain't all that. The constant parties that is...
 
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frorider6 said:


Divorced. We did the back and forth thing a couple of times. She loved me more than anything in the world. I nurtured her and took her from a spoiled little girl to an independent confident woman. But somewhere along the way, my feelings for her changed.

I haven't talked to her in a couple of years and I hope she's doing well. I do know that she almost married someone shortly after we divorced. I felt horrible because I wanted her to be happy but knew it was too soon for her.

I could have stayed with her and made her the happiest woman in the world, but I wouldn't have been happy. I decided I had to start making myself happy first. Hopefully I'll love another woman as much as I loved her in the beginning. And I hope this love lasts.
You talk a good game forrider. Sounds like you are wooing other Elite girls now. I had 5 good pals and things got complicated. Not sure if I have 1 now?:(
 
Big Buck said:


yeap exactly....:bawling: I need to tell her how I feel, but I don't want to hurt your feelings. Last time I tried to tell her how I feel, she was threatening to commit suicide, go bang other guys if I left, etc, etc.

Suicide? Banging other guys? Wow, sounds like she's willing to do ANYTHING to make you stay...as much as you love this girl, those threats are unnecessary and unfair to you. She knows you care about her and she's using that weakness to make threats. Be straight up with her...trust me, it will hurt her more if she found out you stuck around for the mere fact that you "felt bad for her".
 
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Test boy said:
You talk a good game forrider. Sounds like you are wooing other Elite girls now. I had 5 good pals and things got complicated. Not sure if I have 1 now?:(

:FRlol: You think I would have posted that thread about finding a place to crap here at work if there was some chick on this board I wanted to get with?:rolleyes: :FRlol:
 
Buck on a side note...isn't this the same girl that you posted about a while ago talking about how much you want to be with her but she didn't want that from you? yo baby momma?
did the roles do a switcheroo in this or what
 
supersizeme said:
Happy do you still go back to the farm and talk to her every now and then?

lol - I'll let her eat oats out of my hand and stroke her hair. she's gotten so tall - and even though sometimes she spits at me, bessy is still the love of my life.
 
supersizeme said:
Buck on a side note...isn't this the same girl that you posted about a while ago talking about how much you want to be with her but she didn't want that from you? yo baby momma?
did the roles do a switcheroo in this or what

Yeap...pretty much. It's a complicated, and fucked up situation.
 
Big Buck said:
but you still want to let her go? You go back and forth with her...you're not happy, you know that being on your own, will make you happy...but you're scared to hurt her feelings, becuase you genuinely love this girl, but just don't want to be with there anymore. :bawling:

Yes, I had a feeling like that about Gold Coast Hot Dogs... I never thought I could let them go, but I did.

Wow. Bro, best advice I can give you is to be a Man... come talk to some of the men of B.I.T.C.H.S. Dirty, slutty, dim-brained, stoopnagle, bottom-feeding trashbag hos will never, and I mean EVER take advantage of you... A-GAIN!

C
 
Big Buck said:


EXACTLY!!! I'm onlyl 21, and she's 26!! She's been to college, partied, etc, etc. She's ready to settle down!!! I get out of the Marines in 10 months and want to EXPEREINCE college and life, w/o being tied down you know?


Thats a very big issue: stable relationship vs college life. Personally if you really love her and she does too then I would go with option 1.
 
Hey Buck, is this the girl you have the baby with? If so we're in the same boat bro. My girl hardly even lets me see my 3mo. old now.
 
Big Buck said:


EXACTLY!!! I'm onlyl 21, and she's 26!! She's been to college, partied, etc, etc. She's ready to settle down!!! I get out of the Marines in 10 months and want to EXPEREINCE college and life, w/o being tied down you know?

A Baby. :think: Welcome to parenthood. It's hard, at times it sucks. I was 20 years and 20 days old when my baby was born.
Rough, rough, rough. As you know mom and I split about 3 years ago. When you get out of Afghi Land, watch The Family Man.
Seriously, it puts what you are struggling with into perspective.
You don't want the other life Buck. You may now, you may for a few years... but either way, when your Son starts to talk about playing ball with mommy's new "friend", tears will stream your cheeks, and your heart will beat in sorrow. And all that will be left is weekend visitation. :bawling: :bawling:
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Crazier said:


A Baby. :think: Welcome to parenthood. It's hard, at times it sucks. I was 20 years and 20 days old when my baby was born.
Rough, rough, rough. As you know mom and I split about 3 years ago. When you get out of Afghi Land, watch The Family Man.
Seriously, it puts what you are struggling with into perspective.
You don't want the other life Buck. You may now, you may for a few years... but either way, when your Son starts to talk about playing ball with mommy's new "friend", tears will stream your cheeks, and your heart will beat in sorrow. And all that will be left is weekend visitation. :bawling: :bawling:
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I'll see him on more than the weekends, I know that she would let me see him whenever I wanted to.
 
This is 100% EXACTLY what I am going thru.
Im not married 'officially', but its common law. I think I gotta follow Froriders steps.
DAmn it sux, cuz i REALLY dont wanna hurt her, but looks like i have to.
 
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