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Had an absolutely WONDERFUL weekend....
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Werd
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Thanks Wodin. I have an amazing guy! It was the third time my kids and I have been together with him. We are in the process of having our family members meet each other. His family has been treating my kids like they are family. With all the shit my kids have been going through on their dad's side you can't know how this makes me feel. He and his family are bending over backwards to make my children feel loved and accepted. My kids were soooooooooooooooo HAPPY!!!!!
Robert Jan
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sounds very good
GoldenDelicious
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bout time
Werd
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I feel like a stupid fucking schoolgirl! LOL
He was helping me do our laundry (this man pays a maid to do his). He gave up his bed so that my kids could sleep with me (the A/C was out on the third floor) and though his home has many bedrooms his son was also visiting and between me, my kids and the nanny it was a totally full house. I wanted to sleep upstairs with my kids but he wouldn't have it. I grew up without A/C and actually prefer the heat but there was no discussion. He is about 6'6" and not a young man - yet he insisted on sleeping on the chaise lounge in his dressing room off his bedroom. He was only semi-reclined with his legs hanging off at the knees LOL! He even spoke positively about my kids' dad at the table when the kids somehow brought him up. He has 4 children from two previous marriages and said only good things about BOTH his exwives. He continuously bends over backwards to accomodate me AND my children and does it gladly... the way that I had accomodated others my entire life. It is strange. I am still learning how to accept this treatment.
This man is no saint.... (who amongst us is). But he is so kind and gentle and caring and loving. And to see his kids treat my kids like they had known them their whole lives gave me a feeling that I can't put into words. As a matter of fact, my eyes well up with tears at the thought of it.
I have known him nearly 3 years and we have had an odd relationship admittedly - but there is not thing one that is "average" about either of us.
He only cares for what pleases me and what makes ME happy. I have never EVER been treated so well. I am truly blessed - first my kids and my family, now because I had the strength to finally try to let someone in again. With each twist and turn instead of dissapointment and hurt he continuously surprizes me in a GOOD WAY.
I do not lust him at all. But my mind wanders to thoughts of him more and more... and I smile. My kids are with their dad this weekend so it will be the first time we will be together alone as adults in nearly a month. LOL He kept whispering to me, "Boy you had just better rest yourself BUT GOOD I am sooooooooooooooooo going to ravish you!!!"
HEhehehehheheeeeeee
He was helping me do our laundry (this man pays a maid to do his). He gave up his bed so that my kids could sleep with me (the A/C was out on the third floor) and though his home has many bedrooms his son was also visiting and between me, my kids and the nanny it was a totally full house. I wanted to sleep upstairs with my kids but he wouldn't have it. I grew up without A/C and actually prefer the heat but there was no discussion. He is about 6'6" and not a young man - yet he insisted on sleeping on the chaise lounge in his dressing room off his bedroom. He was only semi-reclined with his legs hanging off at the knees LOL! He even spoke positively about my kids' dad at the table when the kids somehow brought him up. He has 4 children from two previous marriages and said only good things about BOTH his exwives. He continuously bends over backwards to accomodate me AND my children and does it gladly... the way that I had accomodated others my entire life. It is strange. I am still learning how to accept this treatment.
This man is no saint.... (who amongst us is). But he is so kind and gentle and caring and loving. And to see his kids treat my kids like they had known them their whole lives gave me a feeling that I can't put into words. As a matter of fact, my eyes well up with tears at the thought of it.
I have known him nearly 3 years and we have had an odd relationship admittedly - but there is not thing one that is "average" about either of us.
He only cares for what pleases me and what makes ME happy. I have never EVER been treated so well. I am truly blessed - first my kids and my family, now because I had the strength to finally try to let someone in again. With each twist and turn instead of dissapointment and hurt he continuously surprizes me in a GOOD WAY.
I do not lust him at all. But my mind wanders to thoughts of him more and more... and I smile. My kids are with their dad this weekend so it will be the first time we will be together alone as adults in nearly a month. LOL He kept whispering to me, "Boy you had just better rest yourself BUT GOOD I am sooooooooooooooooo going to ravish you!!!"
HEhehehehheheeeeeee
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Glad to hear Werd.
I too am in love.....and this time it's not with myself.
I too am in love.....and this time it's not with myself.
Werd
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I am feeling so fucking sickly corny... LOL I want to make myself vomit!
I am feeling so absolutely positive about our lives. I just keep smiling when I think of him.
I asked him if I made him happy. He looked straight into my eyes and said (as he always does) , "You make me happy spiritually, mentally, emotionally, intellectually - I am in awe of your beauty.... you are THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME!" "I love you, your kids - everything about you and everything that comes from you." .... more important than his words are his actions - they BIGTIME back his words.
I am all fucking gushy and sickly sweet. LOL
I am feeling so absolutely positive about our lives. I just keep smiling when I think of him.
I asked him if I made him happy. He looked straight into my eyes and said (as he always does) , "You make me happy spiritually, mentally, emotionally, intellectually - I am in awe of your beauty.... you are THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME!" "I love you, your kids - everything about you and everything that comes from you." .... more important than his words are his actions - they BIGTIME back his words.
I am all fucking gushy and sickly sweet. LOL
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Werd
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Code said:
LOL I've known this man for about 3 years, have been seriously involved since about June. Wanted to keep this to m'self till I was sure. My ex keeps me up to my eyeballs in drama - working on finishing that mess soon.
I would never ever have allowed this man to meet my children if there was a hint that he was like all the other ASSHOLES I'd squandered my affection on. He loves everything about me - especially because of the sort of mother I am, how I am incapable of lying, how I would never ever wantonly hurt another and how I have spent my entire life putting the needs of others ahead of my own.
Hope life is treating you and your baby kindly mon ami.
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If there's one thing I love about you, is that you're an eternal optimist.
K for you.
K for you.
Werd said:LOL I've known this man for about 3 years, have been seriously involved since about June. Wanted to keep this to m'self till I was sure. My ex keeps me up to my eyeballs in drama - working on finishing that mess soon.
I would never ever have allowed this man to meet my children if there was a hint that he was like all the other ASSHOLES I'd squandered my affection on. He loves everything about me - especially because of the sort of mother I am, how I am incapable of lying, how I would never ever wantonly hurt another and how I have spent my entire life putting the needs of others ahead of my own.
Hope life is treating you and your baby kindly mon ami.
Werd
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Ffactor said:
When I look at him, I only see my fav pic of him taken when he was in his late 30's/early 40's. My ex and last 2 bf's were very VERY attractive men - all 3 of them bodybuilders. My ex was only 5'9" but the other two men were 6'3" and 6'4". I really REALLY have a thing for extremely tall men with large frames. I have always been attracted to older men but I will confess my current beau is by far the oldest. My sis predicted 3 years ago that we would end up together. I told her she was fucking nuts! But as far as I am concerned this is a done deal. Unless something totally unforseen jumps out of the closet, case closed.
He totally satisfies my every whim and need, is very VERY skilled lover and my goodness but he can be kinky! LOL
Beastboy - Yes this occured in the US but there will be no reason why I will not be able to travel to anywhere in the world if I so wish it.
Ylifter - FUCK YOU! LOL
Code - what can I say? How can I not be optimistic where the lives of my children are concerned?
I swear I am walking around thinking that I am the luckiest woman alive. (yea, I know - *GAG* heheheheheheeeee)
Werd
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Dial_tone said:
Tee-hee
It's me mon ami. I am just so fucking happy.... I am not manic. I still have my feet firmly on the ground - gotta go meet my lawyer and file the papers to go to court in the next several days to hopefully begin the end to all the bullshit w/my ex. But seeing my kids the way they were this weekend brought me hope... I can finally see a happy future for us. There is so much I could say, but I dont. I just sit back with my thoughts and smile.
I haven't had hope, I mean REAL HOPE in like forever and a day.
And I am still fucking dirt poor, have no idea how I will pay our bills, am still ill and have no clue when the next time it will get worse will be, but I am not terrified for the first time since this bullshit w/my ex began that my kids will be damned to repeat the cycle of abuse and have no happy life.... My beau hasnt done anything for me except shown me REAL LOVE.
My kids and my sis's family have been there for me all along, they paved the way. Now finally after I had truly been at the bottom with nothing, only the promise I made to my kids to find a way to make it better someday I still dont know how I am going to accomplish that, but I dont feel utterly alone in the world - I feel loved....
I can't explain it any other way.
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sublime's gonna be mad, I know he had a thing for you werd. 
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