Had a friend tell me.....

[Lord_Suston]

I rarely post new threads but i am now put in a delicate situation which i am uncomfortable about. Basically my friend 'Kathy' told me yesterday she wants to sleep with me, which makes this worst is she said this in front of her Ex, and he is one of my good friends. I have already decided not to sleep with her since I have a great girlfriend, but how should I deal with this situation???? My friend 'Fred" is pissed and thinks I maybe the reason he and her broke up, since she talked to me a lot the week they broke up....and then she tells me she has wanted me fort a while and she knows I have a gf....
I usually don't care what others thinnk but I actually like them very much since they are real chill and down to earth people....

WTF

 

[danielson]

she sounds like a bitch

sorry, i now she;s your firned but she sounds like a real ice queen if she would do that in front of your other frined knowing hed istantly resent you

did she break up with him or he with her. he still like her?






either way id be upfront with your girlfrined incase she tries to lie and say she has already slept with you or something. stuff likethis has a nasty way of biting u in the ass

id also ex-communicate her, for a while at least, and consider if i wanted her as a friend. i would REALLY try and plead with your friend that you reopsect him and would never do anything to hurt him intentionally, and you cant say any more than that, so its up to him as who he believes, a woman who just proved herself to be an UTTER bitch or his bud?

he'll see tyhe light eventually

 

[Lord_Suston]

she was drunk

I did tell my girlfriend this morning cause i know how this shit bitesd people in the ass when they hide this kinda stuff... I can't ex commnuicate her since she is in my group for my final project.... Hopefully he will understand, but she broke up with him after 2 years, cause as she said she wants a man with motivation and she to always bring me into their fights either to help or as an example......
Fuck this sucks

 

[McLurch]

Dude drama sucks. I cant believe she said that in front of her ex. I would not do her. Just more drama. Dont get yourself into any alone situations with her if you know what I mean. Just trust yourself. I got into a situation like that last year. I was sleeping at my friends house and his sister came in the room and started making out with me. I thwarted her attempts at ramming her tounge down my throat, got up and drove home. at the time she was going with my best friend. My gf said that she knew she liked me for a long time. I had no clue. Just dont ever put yourself in a situation where that kind of shit could happen.

 

[Lord_Suston]

yo McLurch

funny thing my girlfriend said the same thing, kinda of fucked up huh? I asked her how she knew and she says she acts the same around me as my girl did before we went out.... I usually don't put myself in a position alone with a girl out of respect to my girl, but more importantly I don't believe in cheating, so why bother puttin yourself in that postion has always baffled me, so i don't....

 

[McLurch]

.... I usually don't put myself in a position alone with a girl out of respect to my girl, but more importantly I don't believe in cheating

Dude tru that. I hate when people cheat and most people dont even think its wrong. I dont my girl to cheat on me so I dont cheat myself. You truley are a gentleman.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

she sounds like she has no class. i would never talk to her again. wow, a female with no class, i never heard of that before.

you could say to her, "listen, I am gentlman, and I have a gf and I am not interested in sleeping with my friend's ex-gf and I can't believe you said such a thing in the 1st place." then spit on her face and call her a skank dirty ho. j/k about the last part.

 

[danielson]

well.....she was drunk......

if she makes a properly worded apology to you and your friend for saying that (not just a 'yeah sorry' thing') then id think about forgiving her

she OBVIOUSLY carries some sort of feeling for him otherwise she wouldnt say stuff like that......man, why cant women be 100% sure about stuff before they do it

i dont think she;s the type that will work with you in silience on your project, she'll probably make a big fuss. i'd tell her calmly what she did was totally unnacceptable and both/all parties need an apology and clarification u had nothingto do with their break up. if she refuses, just get on with the project and hope she wants to get her grade