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guys I need some help

Alfredo Garcia

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here's my situation:

I was dating my girlfriend for a long time but we broke up 2 weeks ago. we dated almost 12 years but the past year we fought all the time and everything was pretty much miserable constantly for both of us. so we split up but this past week we talked it through and we are both cool with going out with other people and throwing in the towel. we are still going to be friends but only friends at this point.

Thing is that i ahvent been on a date since I was 16 and it was with her. I need some tips on how to be smooth around women again. Don't laugh trust me it sucks to not know what the hell I'm doing. I'm not worried about what to do once I get them talking, but what's the best way to act around them when your talking so a girl to make them attrated to you? I'm a confident guy normally but the past few days when I get around hot single women I get stupid and feel like I'm an amature.

This is really difficult so I could use some help on how to be more cool. I'm not a geek or anything, I work out 3 times a week to stay in shape, I do have ladies look at me from time to time and I have a pretty good job so I'm a damn good catch for the right woman. Any suggestions on how I should start acting? I was trying to think of how I acted when I was a teenager but I think I pretty much acted like nothing ever bothered me. Shit I been out of the game to long. Help me out if you can. Thanx.

don't give me to much hate about me dating her for 12 years. niether of us felt good about getting married at any point and so it was pointless to stay together.
 
well, I can say this:

don't act , just be who you are. you are either smooth or you aren't. I don't think its really something you can learn. be yourself, be friendly, look her in the eyes. If she's into you, you will actually have to try to fuck things up.
 
yah I know this but what do you suggest I work on in terms of getting the confidence back? I never went out alot because I was steady with her so long. is it a matter of practice and going out enough again? It's not a matter of learning something new to be confident, I've just forgotten everything and it seems awkward trying to talk to girls again.

It seems girls like the bad boy attitude and I can definitely be that way if it comes to getting them to talk to me and give me a shot at them getting to know that I'm a good guy, but does that attract the loser women?

Thanx
 
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