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ROMAN

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Here it goes: A few weeks ago I meet this blonde gril who is great looking. She has 3 kids and is divorced. We hit it off pretty good. We date for about a week and are just having a good time, no sex yet. Then I see her at the club, we are meeting there when I see this great looking brunett who is just fine! I start talking to her and we hit it off even better. Since then the brunett has stayed at my house for the last 4 nights, until last night I told her I was going out with my "guy" friends. I went to a house party with the blonde because she keeps calling wanting to go out, so I do. I feel really bad about dicthing the brunett, but the blonde is also fine. So, I tak the blonde home with me last night and we finaly have sex. Just hours before I hade the bonlde over, I also had sex with the brunett. To make mattters worse, the brunett and I are getting serious and fast, which is what I want. So, now I have the blonde and the brunett in my life and I am stuck on what to do. The brunett has a bad past, nothing that would affect our future, but still hangs over her head. She has no kids and she is 1 year yonger then me. The blonde has 3 kids and is almost 4 years older then me. My decision is to never get envolved again with the blonde and continue my great relationship with the brunett since she is better for me and wants the same things I want. Am I making the right desesion?
 
Your looking at this all wrong... have your brought the idea of a three way? It might costs you both in the end..(what a pun)...but it would be worth it!!!
 
Quite a mess is right, but thats my life... I work at a night club as a bouncer so I have had relationship problems for a long time. I meet the brunett and decide to quit so I could take this one to the next level, which is something I could not do while working at the club, getting hit on ever 3 seconds does not make any women I am with very happy.

At one time I had 4 girlfriends, sleeping with all of them and they all showed up to the club at once, I was knee deep in trouble, I don't want that again. Retiring the "player" belt and going on to a one women man.
 
ROMAN said:
My decision is to never get envolved again with the blonde and continue my great relationship with the brunett since she is better for me and wants the same things I want.

sounds like your on the right path....
 
You sound like you prefer the brunette. Be direct with the blonde, tell her you've been dating someone else and you want to be a stand up kinda guy... Now that it's getting serious you don't think you should be dating anyone else.

That way she'll see you're trustworthy, and if things with the brunette don't go your way ou can always backtrack to the blonde, tell her you haven't stopped thinking about her, and you broke ith off with the other one. If things get serious between you then, she'll feel she can trust you.

Unless she gets bitter and holds a grudge.
 
Dam Honeynut, well put! Great advice stright from the woman's view. I will give that a shot, I am just bad a saying things like that to anyone...
 
Congrat's on railing multiple broad's
at one time. You must be a glutton for punishment LOL!

I couldn't handle that much bullshit myself.

See if you can keep the brunette for serious things
and try to talk the blond into being just a 'fuck' buddy
for when you are alone or hard-up.

At the very least, if you must tell the blond
that it's over give her a MAJOR railing before you tell her!

Also consider joining B.I.T.C.H.S
See Sexual Mustard for details and registration.
:teleport:
 
Go for the brunette, you will share much more in common with her.

Or you could go for the blonde, and claim her and her kid as dependents and get some better tax deductions.
 
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