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krishna
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Known eachother for about 3 months. Been a spark since day one. Have fun and connect everytime we all go out. Only the past couple weeks have we been moving towards really hooking up. She's got some walls, and she's taking it slow. She's really starting to let me in though. Probably too soon for that kind of a gift?
radarstoy
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krishna said:
No, you break-up and she's got a dog..Now wait that might be a good trade. j/k Yea a cute little dog would be nice providing that's the breed she wants. Make sure you include a years worth of puppy chow, money for puppy shots, grooming etc. Maybe you should rethink such an expensive gift on a new relationship.
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jackangel
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seems too much, yeah. especially if she wants to take it slow...it's possible that an expensive gift like that might...give her pause. but there's still room for a nice gift worth several hundo that is either unique or has a special significance to her (i.e. that says to her that you know and care enough to find something just right and thoughtful, blah blah blah).
furthermore, if you've $1200 to spend on this girl...you should have a few bills to get me a phat sack of some green. i could buy it myself, but i feel that we're good friends by now and i want it to come from you.
furthermore, if you've $1200 to spend on this girl...you should have a few bills to get me a phat sack of some green. i could buy it myself, but i feel that we're good friends by now and i want it to come from you.
krishna
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That's the dog she wants and she plans on saving up for one on her own. She has been wanting to take it slow, but like I said, she's really starting to open up. I think the slow part is quickly fading. Maybe I should wait a little while and see how it progresses? I still got time before christmas. Trust me though, she would love it if I surprised her with one of those little runts.
chewyxrage
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That's pretty big. That's like a simulation of being married and having kids.
You planning on marrying her? This could give her....ehem....expectations?
I'd buy her something sweet for a couple hundred and see how it goes.
Shit, 3-6 months later if it's going great, gift her the extra $500-$800 to get the dog if it's right.
I've noticed shared animals can bring people together significantly.
You planning on marrying her? This could give her....ehem....expectations?
I'd buy her something sweet for a couple hundred and see how it goes.
Shit, 3-6 months later if it's going great, gift her the extra $500-$800 to get the dog if it's right.
I've noticed shared animals can bring people together significantly.
chewyxrage
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Well you must be somewhat wealthy, I know I couldn't afford to drop over a few hundred on a gift realistically.
Keep in mind you buy the dog and then you have $1,000 in vet bills over the first year....
Keep in mind you buy the dog and then you have $1,000 in vet bills over the first year....
KillahBee
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krishna said:
Yeah, I wouldn't. I totally get why you would want to, but I would also take it slow. Many a man has ruined a good potential relationship by doing too much too soon.
Let me ask you this - do you think she is asking the same questions re: should I get him a $1200 dog?
Good luck with her though, sounds liek a good deal you have
bran987
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too much for 3 months, you shouldn't be spending more than a couple hundred.
write a contingency contract. You feel you should spend $200 this year on xmas and $1,000 next year if you're still together. You will buy her a dog next year if she has sex with you at least 5x/week for 50 weeks out of the next year. at that point you'll buy her the dog, if the breaks the contract or your heart, deal's off. sign it in blood and wrap it up in a box the size of a dog, and throw in a box a little speaker that makes whimpering noises.
write a contingency contract. You feel you should spend $200 this year on xmas and $1,000 next year if you're still together. You will buy her a dog next year if she has sex with you at least 5x/week for 50 weeks out of the next year. at that point you'll buy her the dog, if the breaks the contract or your heart, deal's off. sign it in blood and wrap it up in a box the size of a dog, and throw in a box a little speaker that makes whimpering noises.
