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Bobber

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I met this chick a couple months back through a friend and I ended up really disliking her. She is very beautiful and has an amazing body but we just didn't mesh, or so I thought. After a few times of her comming up to my work with her friend and my birthday party with me showing her not even the smallest bit of attention, she decided to pull me out of my party and have a talk with me at the pool.

Now through my friend I know this girl hardly ever goes out and that she is the real good girl type. By the pool she proceeds to tell me that what I though of her was wrong and that she did not mean the things she said in the way I took them and that she thought I was extremely attractive and a "mack." So she was able to smooth everything over and I decided to take her out to dinner the next night.

As I am leaving to go pick her up my room mate gives me a hard time abbout the outing cause I always said how I would nevber date her, so that kind of set the mode for the rest of the night. I got to her place and we played with her dog for a while and she was complimenting me and me to her back.We leave and go to dinner and start to talk and we learn that we are polar opposites. Me the party animal, out every night and her, the isolate". Through out dinner she keeps telling me how she can't figure me out and that I am too hard to learn but how she thinks I am very cute and she would like to squueze me in dirty ways. We kept saying we would be friends one minute but then the next we would be on a date, it was kind of weird. The last minute or two of dinner were just complete silence with just one long stare and smiles the entire time.

In the car home she kept rubbing my hands and my cheeks and complimenting away. I was very flattered because she is a classically beautiful girl. We get back to her place and she starts playing with her dog again so I get bored and decide to go back home to party with my friends. She asks to walk me to my car but it was late and I parked far so I was not going to let her walk back to her place unattended. We exchange kisses pretty much all over the face but when I went in for the lips she pulled back.

I was dumbfounded and just really couldn't understand her not kisssing me. She told me it was because she knows about me and all my "girls and that she has seen me fight, and be arrested. I was like so what....you are the one that wanted to go out with me, you knew about all that. She then went on to say she doesn't kiss on the first date.

With the things being said and the actions taken I don't understand why I couldn't just get a kiss on the lips. She told me that kissing was a very intinate thing to her but I am a kissing slut. The rejection was the first one in a very long time and took a nice little toll on the ego yet I find myself even more attracted too her now. I haven't had a good girl in a very long time and find her game to be very different and exciting. Yall think anything will come of this?
 
i read it bro, good luck with that one man...

here is what i would do.

Just start off by being friends with her, dont be very pushy, just make it like you want to be casual friends, make her think that you dont want her like that. Do not talk about how many girls u are getting/pulling. Just try to make her a little jelous, maybe make something up about some girl that wants to go out with you and you arent sure what to do. ?? try that maybe

good luck, peace
 
that's why she didnt kiss you... notice how you now find her more attractive? or you're atleast more attracted to her now, after she wouldnt kiss you on the lips... you always want what you cant have, just that little bit more... had she kissed you on the lips, you wouldnt be thinking about her constantly, like you are now... but because she didnt, you are now posting your questions and probably thinking about her all the time... she knows her shit, dude.

good luck.
 
Fuck I read the whole post and nothing happened. When you were out at the pool I was waiting for you to say that the sweet little angel started blowing you like a $3 whore or when you went to your car I thought she would have lifted up her skirt and let you take her ass for the ride.
 
i only date good girls. It gets better, trust me.
 
Boss101 said:
Fuck I read the whole post and nothing happened. When you were out at the pool I was waiting for you to say that the sweet little angel started blowing you like a $3 whore or when you went to your car I thought she would have lifted up her skirt and let you take her ass for the ride.

too bad, this is what shoulda happened
 
How many hints do you need?

Reassure her that this is between you two. Sounds like she is freaking out a bit about others finding out.
 
Bro, she does`nt kiss on the first date. OK, but if you`re diggin her and go out again, you`re there.

You never know, Something can blossom. You`ve been with all the other "whores", try this one and see if it works with a "good" girl.
Maybe she`s marriage material. good luck
 
The whole "don't kiss on the first date" is just her game. It sounds like she was initially attracted to your "bad boy" image, so keep it going and don't fall for too many of her games. Sounds like she is in the bag.

Marriage material? Keeper? He hardly knows the girl. Sounds like she is very curious about you Bobber.
 
if you got a good girl. keep her. for real. its really special to get to share stuff with someone like that if its either of your first times to do stuff or if you can wait a while (6mo or so) to do anything physical besides kiss. at that point you both will be so inflamed with lust that it will be the best action that youve ever had. i dated a good girl for a year and a half and every one of my friends got mad at me bc she is friggin good lookin and liked me so much, but ultimately she respected me more and was putty in my hand when i waited til she almost couldnt stand it to kiss her the first time. I can honestly say, though we never had sex that everything we did was out of love and that was by far better than anything i did with anyone spur of the moment.
 
look, shes a good girl but there is still a balance of power. Trust me when I say, you need to make her want it. The only way you're going to really get her to want it is to make her feel like she has no control over the relationship. If you give into her too much, she'll lose the "bad boy" image she originally fell for you over.
 
So basically yall are saying treat her like shit??? She got out of a long term about a year ago and says that she has had nothing but assholes wanting to date her that have all ended up cheating on her. Her friend, well our mutual friend, knows me very well and has filled her in on who I am pretty much to a T but to my surprise threw in there that underneath it all I have a lot of potential for being a "keeper".

Yesterday we talked a few times and she called me at 3 in the morning just to say hi, wanting to lay out today but was scared because of the way I look and how critical I am to get in a bathing suit in front of me. I don't understand it cause she has an AWESOME body, thin but with big boobs and cooshy butt.

This is the second girl this summer that I have actually waited around for to call me and it kinda scares me.
 
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