Going out alone?

[Bobber]

Anybody ever try going out to the bars alone? I figure since I pretty much know no one here I should try it. Wouldn't it kind of make you talk to everyone? Any experiences?

 

[pdaddy]

Depends on your personality. If you are outgoing you will meet people, if you are shy you will sit alone, just that easy. I've never done it though because I actually have too many friends.

 

[Bobber]

I actually have too many friends.

LOL! I know, I am a dork. I have a total 4 friends here and that is it! 2 live 45 minutes away.

 

[pdaddy]

Start e-dating, I hear you can line up a date every night of the week if you wanted to. If you're going to be a dork, you can at least be a dork that's getting some.

 

[Bobber]

Start e-dating, I hear you can line up a date every night of the week if you wanted to. If you're going to be a dork, you can at least be a dork that's getting some.

Oh yeah...my friends back home would NEVER let me live that down.

 

[pdaddy]

Go out and just put yourself out there, if you send the vibe then it will be picked up.

 

[Bobber]

I am really thinking about it, but I would like to hear some experiences.

 

[pdaddy]

Dude what the fuck are you still doing home?

Slam some tequila, and go get your swerve on son!

 

[Bobber]

Dude what the fuck are you still doing home?

Slam some tequila, and go get your swerve on son!

I am about to leave to some place called Federal Hill...with my two friends that live 45 minutes away. Just wanted to start this thread before I left.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

For what reason(s) do you want to go to the bars?

I found out about half way through college that clubbing/bargoing is a double edged sword. It gives you instant self gratification which disappears just as fast when you leave and wake up with a hangover/some chic you don't give a shit about. I tapered off my drinking when I started realizing this before I even left. Now I only go to catch up with old buddies or special occasions worth going for. IMO there's far more productive things to do. May sound strange to pretty much everyone, but I never really was one who intently followed the pack.

 

[-SD-]

Internet dating bor. Ive been doing that since 1996 and have forgotten more ass than most have got.

 

[Sassy69]

Well I went out to a bar next to my parents' condo tonite. I stopped doing that yrs ago because I seem to always end up assumed to be "the hooker" at the bar. I'm staying in the family condo w/ my cat because its here & I wanted to hit the beach for July 4. So I'm here, don't know anyone for 6 hrs in every direction and wanted to go check it out. Since I got my bartender "license" I may be scoping for jobs for the summer around here too. The bartenders were pretty cool and at least I can always claim I'm visitign for a bodybuilding show - however if they had half a clue, they would realize a BB competitor doesn't slam rum &cokes the nite before a competition.

But anyway - I think this is a different situation than Bobber - I'm just burnign time & heading home on Monday - I'm not cruising for dick - although the bartender was rather hot. Maybe he wanted me to invite him to the midnite showing of Pirates of the Caribbean tonite.... At this point I just want to go to get some popcorn & soak up the rum & cokes.