Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I met this chick about a month in a half ago at a party and we hit it off really well. We started seeing each other shortly thereafter and went on a few dates. She seemed to really like me and I was quite smitten with her. Well about a week ago the phone calls started to become less and less so I called her the other night to see what she was up to and if she wanted to go do something. She said yes. So I went over and picked her up and we went out for a few drinks. I noticed a change in her attitude. She seemed to be more standoffish. She just lost her job and is going through a divorce and said she wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment. She was in the process of getting divorced when I met her but she was still employed. She gave me the dreaded lets be friends speech. What the fuck I don't understand is how can she go from being totally into me to just wanting to be friends. I told her I thought maybe I was getting the wrong signals from her. She said that wasn't it she just has to much going on in her life right now for anything serious. I agreed to the friends part and said maybe in the future we could try again she said it was possible. My question is should I even waste my time on this, I am willing to be friends because I like her and I said it was no problem or should I just move on?
Fucking women!
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distanced
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does sound like she has alot on her plate right now.
this would be prime time for some type of a mid-life crisis, so maybe it's best that you give her a few months to see how she is going to deal with all of this. She'll certainly be needing some friends around at this time though.
this would be prime time for some type of a mid-life crisis, so maybe it's best that you give her a few months to see how she is going to deal with all of this. She'll certainly be needing some friends around at this time though.
sermon_of_mockery
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don't waste your time,.Move on to someone who has time,and wants you.
Testosterone boy
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Being unemployed is prolly the reason. I met the girl of my dreams right after I put in two weeks notice. I dropped it because of lack of employment. Of course I regret that quite often but it seemed right at the moment.
Themachine01
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I just like how he used the word "smitten"
don't waste your time, but keep the option open for future opportunities.
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distanced said:
yep, bitch does have a lot going on. depends on how much you like her if you should stick around and be a friend or not. If you just want to furiously push and pull your penis in and out of her than you might want to find a new cumdumpster.
After only a month its not that wierd for feelings to change.
I just went out with a girl who, at first, I was really attracted to. After a couple weeks I realised that she was super cool but I just wasn't feelin her romantically.
Sometimes there is that initial relationship 'rush' that dies out once you have spent more time with the person.
I just went out with a girl who, at first, I was really attracted to. After a couple weeks I realised that she was super cool but I just wasn't feelin her romantically.
Sometimes there is that initial relationship 'rush' that dies out once you have spent more time with the person.
Themachine01
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Bullit said:
very very true, I met this brazilian chick that was definately the hottest chick Ive ever hooked up with and seemed cool as shit at first. After getting to know her for a couple weeks certain things about her just turned me off.
Themachine01
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I forgot to mention that I was very 'smitten' with her 
stupid stupid fuckingas dcunt! all fuckig women are fucked up i havne not met one fucking bitch yet that wasnt fucked up and give a me big fucking headiache!!!! just ask her politelly if you could pull cock out of pants and jack off on her! only takes 2 minutes you feel better and forgetr her!
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MFMan said:
First of all... never use the word smitten again.
Listen to The C-man... I know more about women, than most women do... so any advice you get from me is worth its weight in gold.
You shouldn't waste time on her. The mere fact she is going through a divorce shows that she wasn't smart enough to hold her marriage together... no wait wait.. .I didn't mean that... it came out wrong... what I ment to say... the mere fact that she is going through a divorce should be an "indicator" that there is some "bad mojo" going on... and you should RUN the OTHER way.
As for women all the sudden changing their minds ... going from being ALL about you to not having any interest and just wanting to be with you as friends... well... I can sum that up. Women, seldom know what they want for dinner... let alone any serious decisions that they want to make with the rest of their lives... honestly... they have no control over this... granted, some men are like this... I like to call them "losers"... and I have met some women with heads on their shoulders and an ability to use what is between their ears...
So all in all... forget this ho... she's got more issues than SI and she can save that divorce drama for her momma... uggg... do you really want to sit there and listen to her about how she is going through a bad divorce day in and day out??? Go get an 18 year old who hasn't had time to develop a chip on her shoulder.
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C-cide needs his own talk show. I'd watch.
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