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BrothaBill
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I was a bad guy for a long time during one phase of my life, but managed to by day live a normal life.
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Yasmina said:
Never mind, too much to explain
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Yasmina said:hey i read it...why did you change it??
your life seemed pretty complex...what were you doing at night??
I was hoping that SINCE I am no longer in a negative lifestyle and far removed that I could discuss it with other people who have reformed themselves for the better. But since I havent got much of a response, I fear it may come off as a braggard/boisterism of a bad lifestyle. Not my intent... I dunno, I guess Im just getting shy, it may change by tomorrow.
What about you Yasmina, you seem like one of the funnier, wittier ladies Ive seen since I came back. You had too have been just a lil on the bad side. Tell us about it about some of your bad girl moments!!!!
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Meantime1 said:
Meantime you seem like one of the more together persons on the board. What is the most regrettable experience that youve had? How did you change your life as a response, if any change?
BrothaBill said:
haa ..you are sweet
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the truth is i do not live a double life - never did...i guess one would need to lie a lot to lead a lifestyle like that and i am just too damn blunt for my own good
(which gets me into trouble, but I also gain respect for it!)- however I have had my fair share of action and adventure in my life...nothing as adveturous as yours though 
i am interested to know more about that bad bad boy lifestyle of yours..
where have you been?
sorry about the non responses, everyone must be alseep in the US now
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Yasmina said:haa ..you are sweet
the truth is i do not live a double life - never did...i guess one would need to lie a lot to lead a lifestyle like that and i am just too damn blunt for my own good
i am interested to know more about that bad bad boy lifestyle of yours..
where have you been?
sorry about the non responses, everyone must be alseep in the US now
Right back at ya! You crack me up sometimes, thats a good trait!!!Not really lie, just dont disclose things. edited!!!!
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BrothaBill said:
WELL I WENT through a very bad few months a couple of years ago, everything just went wrong for me, talk about KARMA,
I lost my job, my relationship ended, soo I moved out, from the place i was staying, I also discovered who my friends were,
I was Homeless for 2 months on the streets, It was a very very bad time for me, I remember sleeping in this 24hr internet cafe, with the rest of the homeless people, every shelter i went too was full, and could only put me up for one night at a time, sometimes going for days without food, i felt so alone, people who i thought were my friends, were not there for me, and since my parents lived aboard, i had no one to turn too, I prayed and prayed and applied for so many jobs, until i got a job in the bar, My ex at the time did not know what was happening, but once he did, he helped me with open arms, even putting himself in harms way, risked loosen his new BF, in the process.
Funny they say once u hit rock bottom the only way is up and boy did i work hard to get myself out of the rot, when u are down at your lock, i understand how people can get into depression and dont have the will to fight their way back up.
But i believed so strongly in my heart things would get better for me and this was not the life, i was meant to live and they did, that is why even till this day in my life, i will ALWAYS HAVE TIME FOR OTHERS who have less than me, and especially the homeless, for the embraced me and welcomed me into their world, no questions asked, and i was moved by that,
And now here i am working in, investment banking, a full time job, have my own place etc
Life has a way of really opening your eyes and showing u what compassion is, but most of all what's important
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Sheet man I had no idea, now I feel like a putz complaining about my exgf to ya. Pales in comparison to what you went through. Funny how you discover your true friends in times of rough water.
It takes a strong person to come back and succeed as well as you have from such a low point. I agree some of the nicest people find themselves homeless. WHen younger I used to blame them like they did something wrong. Now I know we are on the razors edge of being there ourselves if things really go bad. Im lucky, I have a good support network with family and all. But still, geez two months Wow! I thought you were born with a silver spoon in yo mouth mate!! Dont really know why Just the SA and then London, investment banking etc...
Oh btw, I cleared my PM box!!
It takes a strong person to come back and succeed as well as you have from such a low point. I agree some of the nicest people find themselves homeless. WHen younger I used to blame them like they did something wrong. Now I know we are on the razors edge of being there ourselves if things really go bad. Im lucky, I have a good support network with family and all. But still, geez two months Wow! I thought you were born with a silver spoon in yo mouth mate!! Dont really know why Just the SA and then London, investment banking etc...
Oh btw, I cleared my PM box!!
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How would you know i never told you and it is not something that i share alot,
A person's heart is and deep as many oceans, you never really know what is going on in their lifes
And u are right some of the nicest people are the ones, who are sometimes down on their luck
when it is sooo cold and it is rainning, i always think of the homeless and what they must be going through in the winter periods, many people see a homeless person and ignore them, most people dont understand that, the shelters avaliable are soo full, they have to turn people away.
A person's heart is and deep as many oceans, you never really know what is going on in their lifes
And u are right some of the nicest people are the ones, who are sometimes down on their luck
when it is sooo cold and it is rainning, i always think of the homeless and what they must be going through in the winter periods, many people see a homeless person and ignore them, most people dont understand that, the shelters avaliable are soo full, they have to turn people away.
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Yes i have.. when i kindof feel into partying and that type of scene.. my family and real friedns never found out..
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BrothaBill
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when it is sooo cold and it is rainning, i always think of the homeless and what they must be going through in the winter periods
Makes me feel bad just reading that. I cant imagine that, just cant. Esapecially the winter storms going on here in the states on the east coast. All the snow storms. On the west coast, the pacific ocean keeps the winters mild for the most part.
Makes me feel bad just reading that. I cant imagine that, just cant. Esapecially the winter storms going on here in the states on the east coast. All the snow storms. On the west coast, the pacific ocean keeps the winters mild for the most part.
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CanadianCutie said:
Any details? We need some details LOL!! Too slow this morn.
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