ever just ask out a stranger?

[madbomber31]

on looks alone? how? why? when? where?

 

[Island Son]

Close. University. There was the most gorgeous girl sitting in the cafeteria by herself on Valentine's day. Think Lana from Smallville - type looks. Courage came up from somewhere, I introduced myself, said something cheesy like "oh, why are you sitting here" think cheesy you get the idea. She was completely nice, we chatted & finished lunch and I went off to class. I was a complete geek back then, figured that was as good as it was gonna get so I said something like "see ya around". Of course, uni being what it was for me I never did.
my whole face feels warm right now just remembering it.
That's my sad story

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

uhhmm...isn't that how things start? During the summer it's non stop. Hook up night after night w/ different girls. Didn't fuck every one of them, but she's definitely coming back with me to the house Mike don't you agree?????

 

[Island Son]

when you do they'll appreciate your.... appreciation

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

I feel depressed. I want to hook up with a girl that way really badly, but I figured that in order to do that you have to look (from her perspective) about as hot as she does to you.

Problem is that my face isnt attractive unless I'm really cut, which isnt happening as I'm trying to get over a binge eating disorder, so cutting up is pretty much out of the question.


*sigh* this is why I get so pissed off when I think about talking to a hot girl i dont know. because you should expect yourself to be hot if you want to get anywhere, and i wont be getting hot for a longggg... time..

Bro I'm your every day normal guy, I don't look hot or anything. Just have to have confidence and be all nice and sweet and stupid shit like that lol j/k. But girls do love for you to be confident. Although I do hate it when I go to talk to a girl and she completely starts looking the other way while I'm talking to her. It's ok cuz then I just look right at them and say, "You're an asshole and you're gonna die with no one loving your plastic ass."
I don't know what came over me to say that, usually that shit doesn't bother me, but I really wanted to fuck this girl. I was drunk, so maybe she was really busted looking...the world may never know....

 

[polarpixie]

I feel depressed. I want to hook up with a girl that way really badly, but I figured that in order to do that you have to look (from her perspective) about as hot as she does to you.

Problem is that my face isnt attractive unless I'm really cut, which isnt happening as I'm trying to get over a binge eating disorder, so cutting up is pretty much out of the question.


*sigh* this is why I get so pissed off when I think about talking to a hot girl i dont know. because you should expect yourself to be hot if you want to get anywhere, and i wont be getting hot for a longggg... time..

lol!! Since when was Justin Timberlake considered cut??? He's a skinny lil stick!!! Cute, but way too skinny!!!

p60, trust me, it ain't all about the the face for girls! If you are just average looking and you are confident, maybe slightly cocky, but don't overdo it, girls will flock to you. I do not recommend you calling some girl you don't even know an asshole tho....if she's not intersted the first time, and you call her an asshole, even if you might've had a slight chance with her if she got to know you, you can be sure she will never be interested if you call her names. Cheer up!

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

lmao!! thats awesome that you said that to a girl! hahahaha.

a lot of guys who are cut just have a lot of more luck with girls. Girls go for the preppy Justin Timberlake look these days it seems.

Yeah the look on her face was even funnier, she didn't even know what the hell to say. Yeah I felt like the shit at that moment lol

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

are you trying to tell me that if I put on a confident act, I can attract a girl that I find really attractive?

I thought it worked like a ranked system. Like the hot girls only dated hot guys, etc, and if you were average it meant you'd be with an average girl.

That seems to be the way it works in high school. Some day I should ask out a hot prep girl and see what she says, hahaha!

Bro let me tell you, if you have to change anything about yourself to attract these girls, personality wise, then fuck them. I don't really go for those type too much, I would never take them home to mom if you catch my drift. They're mostly all hoes.

 

[polarpixie]

are you trying to tell me that if I put on a confident act, I can attract a girl that I find really attractive?

I thought it worked like a ranked system. Like the hot girls only dated hot guys, etc, and if you were average it meant you'd be with an average girl.

That seems to be the way it works in high school. Some day I should ask out a hot prep girl and see what she says, hahaha!

Probably! I'm not telling you you're gonna be able to get every single hot girl or anything like that, but I bet you'll get at least one cute girl's attention if you're confident. Now, I'm not telling you to change your personality or anything like that. Nononono....I'm sure you've heard this many times before, but confident means you like yourself as you are, and it will show.

BUT...if you're still in HS...this might not work as well until you get out to college....

 

[polarpixie]

why wont it work as well until I get into college?
this sucks! i still have half a year of high school left.

what if you dint like yourself as you are..
can you just act like you do?

I have high standards, so I may never like myself, lol

LOL! It's a secret.

You can try to act like you do (have self confidence). That's a good start, and something for you to start working on now so you can get all the hot babes in collge.

 

[Sebass67]

Don't worry bro. College is the shit. People that the deserve respect get it and all the cocky little bastards are revealed for what they are.

 

[6(SIC)6]

I act confident and talk to all sorts of hot girls, its all about confidence...

 

[casavant]

No.

 

[XbdawggX]

are you trying to tell me that if I put on a confident act, I can attract a girl that I find really attractive?

I thought it worked like a ranked system. Like the hot girls only dated hot guys, etc, and if you were average it meant you'd be with an average girl.

That seems to be the way it works in high school. Some day I should ask out a hot prep girl and see what she says, hahaha!

You can do what my friend did back in highschool... He was just an average guy, definitely not popular. Every time he'd walk by the hot girls (who had NO clue who he was), he'd say, "Hey, <insert her name here>" and act like he knew them.

It probably won't get you any hot chicks, but I think it's funny as crap.

 

[Taps]

Ok, I have like zero confidence, and I don't consider myself particularly attractive, but I just say fuck it. Hot girls have to date someone, why not me?

That being said, I don't think I've ever asked a girl out based on looks alone.

P60, unfortunetly at your age most girls are generally dimwitts. You'll learn that the worst that can happen isn't them just saying "no" -- they can be downright brutal at times. Belive me tho, after getting shot down hard just once it changes your whole approach. You'll realize that it's really not that big a deal...in fact, you'll probably laugh about it with your buddies.

Honestly, I can say that some of rejections I've experienced (and there have been quite a few) are absoulutly hailarious. Girls can be so creative at times...lol.

Anyway, as you get older you'll figure things out.

 

[Pimp C2]

You can do what my friend did back in highschool... He was just an average guy, definitely not popular. Every time he'd walk by the hot girls (who had NO clue who he was), he'd say, "Hey, <insert her name here>" and act like he knew them.

It probably won't get you any hot chicks, but I think it's funny as crap.

LOL thats pretty cool, I wouldnt have been able to do that and keep a straight face.

P60, I can just about guarantee you things will look up after H.S. I think the year after I graduated was the best I've had yet and I didn't even go to college then.

 

[cure]

Another thing that's strange is that i've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I always found girls to be a little intimidated by me since i tend be bright and confident yet ever since i've been going with my girl alot more women approach me compared to in the past. For some reason life works in mysterious ways.

 

[madbomber31]

cure, i learned that is how the whore world works... when you are single you (men) must put off some sort of funky pheremone that says "FUCK ME PLEASE??? I'm DESPERATE"... yet, that repells women...

but when with someone men must have some sort of candy smell that girls just want to lick... it's funny and sad at the same time.

 

[smoknjilly]

be patient...when you get to college its a whole new, better ball game!!

fyi...the hottest girls don't neccesarily go for "the hottest guys"

 

[Bullit]

are you trying to tell me that if I put on a confident act, I can attract a girl that I find really attractive?

I thought it worked like a ranked system. Like the hot girls only dated hot guys, etc, and if you were average it meant you'd be with an average girl.

I totally believe that there is a 'ranking' of sorts. The SMOKIN' hot babes are almost always with the hot guys, and vice versa.
Im average, and I hit on the averge chicks. Ive talked to some HOT chicks, they were nice, but I could tell they were uninterested.
But confidence truly is the key... well, that and being able to hold a convo. And, of course, making a girl laugh is always good. Last chick I picked up (a week ago) was pretty hot, and it worked cuz of my confidence (lol....thanks to about 5 doubles).