Does anyone here subconsciously date people you know ultimately wont work out?

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Do you find yourself dating people you know wont work in the end because ultimately you dont want to fall hard for anyone and have to really commit (as in marriage)?

 

[Swiftme]

all the time

 

[awittyusername]

Yes!!! But, it is conscious not subconscious.

I always did when I was young bc I really never wanted a girlfriend. But, as the yrs went on I did it for more reasons.

I only had 3 serious long term girlfreinds. All of them seemed to be perfect. (nice family, pretty, nice morals, etc) And, everyone thought they where perfect and too nice for me. However, all 3 were lying manipulative , evil woman. 2 of them cheated on me. All 3 of them guilted me into giving them $ for cars places to live etc. (never said thanks, just expected it) although all were perceived as innocent, they all had very weird sexual desires. (peeing, choking, etc.) And, 2 of them gave me VD. After convincing me I didn't have to wear a condom, bc they wernt seeing anyone and had been tested.

So, in my later yrs I dated strippers, sleazy girls, and main had only one night stands. Because, at least they were honest and you new where you both stood.

However, now I just stay at home and what alot of porn. (and just started Posting)

 

[AAP]

I never date anyone who works out (seriously)