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Do you believe in love?

EnderJE

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How many times have you read a story from the SWV?

How many times has your heart ached for a special someone?

How many times have you swore it off because the last boy / girl that did this to you was the LAST one?

How many times have you looked at your special someone and feel a certain glow and realize how much they mean to you?

I have sat here and read countless stories from some of you about how many your relationships are and how much you hate your ex or whatever. What about the people that are having a great relationship and love to be around their SO? Where are you people?

Last night, my wife and I went out and had a nice dinner and talked about our last 10 years together. The good times. The bad times. The times we almost broke up. The times where it seemed effortless to be together. Our future plans. Our kids. Our lives.

And for the first time, in a long time, we smiled at each other. The kind of smile that makes you realize how much the other person means to you. The kind of smile that makes you realize how lucky you are that you have each other.

I would like to believe that its not all doom and gloom out there and that there's at least one other person who still believes.
 
EnderJE said:
How many times have you read a story from the SWV?

How many times has your heart ached for a special someone?

How many times have you swore it off because the last boy / girl that did this to you was the LAST one?

How many times have you looked at your special someone and feel a certain glow and realize how much they mean to you?

I have sat here and read countless stories from some of you about how many your relationships are and how much you hate your ex or whatever. What about the people that are having a great relationship and love to be around their SO? Where are you people?

Last night, my wife and I went out and had a nice dinner and talked about our last 10 years together. The good times. The bad times. The times we almost broke up. The times where it seemed effortless to be together. Our future plans. Our kids. Our lives.

And for the first time, in a long time, we smiled at each other. The kind of smile that makes you realize how much the other person means to you. The kind of smile that makes you realize how lucky you are that you have each other.

I would like to believe that its not all doom and gloom out there and that there's at least one other person who still believes.




Awesome...good for you. Sounds like you have a lucky wife :)

I believe in love...very much so. :heart:
 
EnderJE said:
How many times have you read a story from the SWV?
?

How many times has your heart ached for a special someone?

How many times have you swore it off because the last boy / girl that did this to you was the LAST one?
To many times to count so now I am a bit jaded

How many times have you looked at your special someone and feel a certain glow and realize how much they mean to you?
Many times but this is not a good thing..

I have sat here and read countless stories from some of you about how many your relationships are and how much you hate your ex or whatever. What about the people that are having a great relationship and love to be around their SO? Where are you people?

Last night, my wife and I went out and had a nice dinner and talked about our last 10 years together. The good times. The bad times. The times we almost broke up. The times where it seemed effortless to be together. Our future plans. Our kids. Our lives.

And for the first time, in a long time, we smiled at each other. The kind of smile that makes you realize how much the other person means to you. The kind of smile that makes you realize how lucky you are that you have each other.

That is a beautiful story... You are a very lucky man..

I would like to believe that its not all doom and gloom out there and that there's at least one other person who still believes.

I have been in deep love once and I will forever love that person even though that relationship ripped my heart out. Real love never goes away. I will always care for him and because of that we remain friends because I need to know that he is okay and living happily. But I would never again date him even though we have this love for each other it was a horrible relationship and I allowed things that I thought I would never. Love weakens a person and if it makes you bend your morals then you need to get out. I have thought I was in love other times to realize later that it wasn't... I think because of my experiences it will be very difficult for me to completely give myself to anyone again. I now always hold on to a little so I can easily get out if I need to with out heartbreak. This is upsetting because I am a natural romantic but when I give my heart completely I stop using my head and that is always dangerous...
 
EnderJE said:
How many times have you read a story from the SWV?

How many times has your heart ached for a special someone?

How many times have you swore it off because the last boy / girl that did this to you was the LAST one?

How many times have you looked at your special someone and feel a certain glow and realize how much they mean to you?

I have sat here and read countless stories from some of you about how many your relationships are and how much you hate your ex or whatever. What about the people that are having a great relationship and love to be around their SO? Where are you people?

Last night, my wife and I went out and had a nice dinner and talked about our last 10 years together. The good times. The bad times. The times we almost broke up. The times where it seemed effortless to be together. Our future plans. Our kids. Our lives.

And for the first time, in a long time, we smiled at each other. The kind of smile that makes you realize how much the other person means to you. The kind of smile that makes you realize how lucky you are that you have each other.

I would like to believe that its not all doom and gloom out there and that there's at least one other person who still believes.


WOW THAT IS SOOO NICE, i am very very happy for u both and may be continue to make great strides in your relationship together

A FRIEND OF MINE ASKED ME TODAY WHY I AM ALWAYS SINGLE and only date,and i told him this (i just have not found the one i would like to share my life with, i have guys ask me out but i just have not felt that spark or chemistry )

I have never been truely in love but i do know that life will let it cross my path

I have never been the kind of guy who would go into a relationship because it is there, i would rather save myself the heartace and drama
 
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yup I believe.

There is nothing like it, even in the times that things don't work out, the pain is worth the risk.
 
Kevins_Bacon said:
I believe in bukkake and sodomy. In short, yes.

bwwahahhahahahhahahahahaha


but in all seriousness ender youre a lucky guy and i think thats cool...sounds like you had a great nite
 
I very much believe in love. Yes, there have been ups and downs in my life - and there will be in my future. But overall, I truely believe in love.

I'm with you Ender - I feel the same way about my husband.
 
The Bigdawg said:
yup I believe.

There is nothing like it, even in the times that things don't work out, the pain is worth the risk.


Can i ask a question why did you block your face, in your pic
 
I believe.

I also know.
 
Werd said:
As I stated....

He is grade A "licking my pussy juice off of his face"!





:verygood:


;)
 
Love is almost gone. If you don't have it now find it quick! Society has replaced love with things that are easier to maintain, that's how we meet our needs these days. Replace love with enough other things and who needs to worry about believing in it?
 
I certainly do but I think a lot of people think it's just a feeling...and I don't think that's the case. A lot of times it's part of a choice. When things are hard and you really love someone you can fight to make it work. I think you have to get up every day motivated to do what it takes to try to stay happy and grow as a couple. Easier said than done sometimes but worth it in the long run.
 
Raina said:
I certainly do but I think a lot of people think it's just a feeling...and I don't think that's the case. A lot of times it's part of a choice. When things are hard and you really love someone you can fight to make it work. I think you have to get up every day motivated to do what it takes to try to stay happy and grow as a couple. Easier said than done sometimes but worth it in the long run.


Hmmm WISE WORDS
i do enjoy reading your Comments/Thread
I do agree with u, in todays society soo many people take the easy way out, when they hit tough times, they bail out, that to me tells me sometime about their character, people sometimes dont realise that the people who stay at it and tries to weather the storm, are the people who love you the most, they are willing to go through the drama and headace to come out of it holding hands
 
Courtneybcca said:
I have been in deep love once and I will forever love that person even though that relationship ripped my heart out. Real love never goes away. I will always care for him and because of that we remain friends because I need to know that he is okay and living happily. But I would never again date him even though we have this love for each other it was a horrible relationship and I allowed things that I thought I would never. Love weakens a person and if it makes you bend your morals then you need to get out. I have thought I was in love other times to realize later that it wasn't... I think because of my experiences it will be very difficult for me to completely give myself to anyone again. I now always hold on to a little so I can easily get out if I need to with out heartbreak. This is upsetting because I am a natural romantic but when I give my heart completely I stop using my head and that is always dangerous...

I feel your pain. I had the same experience. I will always have a link to that person, and it will always feel like we have "unfinished business". It's very torturous. The relationship just ended a week ago today, and I'm getting along. Perhaps I will be able to believe in love again, but I have a feeling it won't be for a long time.
 
Ultimately I think being aware that people aren't perfect and relationships aren't always perfect winds up with people being happier. I think people fall in love and get caught up in the excitement of the emotions but when all hell breaks loose they just run away from it because it's not going well. Such is life. Sometimes you have to decide what's worth working at and what's not. Also, it takes 2 to tango. One person can't put in all the effort and expect things to work out.
 
marshallmadman said:
I feel your pain. I had the same experience. I will always have a link to that person, and it will always feel like we have "unfinished business". It's very torturous. The relationship just ended a week ago today, and I'm getting along. Perhaps I will be able to believe in love again, but I have a feeling it won't be for a long time.

Well we broke up over 2 and half years ago.. So if it is the same you will always have that feeling... He was probably my mate in another life but during this one it just wasn't right..
 
marshallmadman said:
I feel your pain. I had the same experience. I will always have a link to that person, and it will always feel like we have "unfinished business". It's very torturous. The relationship just ended a week ago today, and I'm getting along. Perhaps I will be able to believe in love again, but I have a feeling it won't be for a long time.


Sorry to hear about your relationship ending
I was dating someone, for a few wks and that ended on friday, it sadden me because i was finally begining to Trust and let my guard down, I am greatful i did not develop too quickly deep feelings,
But Hey as long as the SUN KEEPS RISING, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A KNEW DAY, FOR US ALL

THE FUTURE BELONGS TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN THE BEAUTY OF THEIR DREAMS

Meantime1
 
Raina said:
I certainly do but I think a lot of people think it's just a feeling...and I don't think that's the case. A lot of times it's part of a choice. When things are hard and you really love someone you can fight to make it work. I think you have to get up every day motivated to do what it takes to try to stay happy and grow as a couple. Easier said than done sometimes but worth it in the long run.

I agree completely. You have to work to make relationships work. Sometimes the passion involved in loving someone makes the work all the harder.
 
Raina said:
Ultimately I think being aware that people aren't perfect and relationships aren't always perfect winds up with people being happier. I think people fall in love and get caught up in the excitement of the emotions but when all hell breaks loose they just run away from it because it's not going well. Such is life. Sometimes you have to decide what's worth working at and what's not. Also, it takes 2 to tango. One person can't put in all the effort and expect things to work out.


ONCE AGAIN WISE WORDS
 
Raina said:
Ultimately I think being aware that people aren't perfect and relationships aren't always perfect winds up with people being happier. I think people fall in love and get caught up in the excitement of the emotions but when all hell breaks loose they just run away from it because it's not going well. Such is life. Sometimes you have to decide what's worth working at and what's not. Also, it takes 2 to tango. One person can't put in all the effort and expect things to work out.

This is so true. I think people sometimes forget things/people aren't always perfect.
 
lucidblue said:
This is so true. I think people sometimes forget things/people aren't always perfect.

yes they do. Its sad when people quit or bail out right away.

A relationship takes lots of hard work. An old couple I saw once on a show said it best when asked how their loved survived the years. They said they lasted as both never fell out of love at the same time over the decades and when one person did, the other worked that much harder to right the ship. They were so cool, in their late 70's if I remember and acting like two people who just feel in love.
 
The Bigdawg said:
yes they do. Its sad when people quit or bail out right away.

A relationship takes lots of hard work. An old couple I saw once on a show said it best when asked how their loved survived the years. They said they lasted as both never fell out of love at the same time over the decades and when one person did, the other worked that much harder to right the ship. They were so cool, in their late 70's if I remember and acting like two people who just feel in love.

Awww, that story brought tears to my eyes. :)
 
This was a Huey Lewis soung.

BTW, I don't really understand the question :confused:
 
Ender....with a love like that you are all set for the future..being able ot laugh, love , dream and even fight fair will help you make the long haul!! What a man!!
 
courtneybcca said:
I have been in deep love once and I will forever love that person even though that relationship ripped my heart out. Real love never goes away. I will always care for him and because of that we remain friends because I need to know that he is okay and living happily. But I would never again date him even though we have this love for each other it was a horrible relationship and I allowed things that I thought I would never. Love weakens a person and if it makes you bend your morals then you need to get out. I have thought I was in love other times to realize later that it wasn't... I think because of my experiences it will be very difficult for me to completely give myself to anyone again. I now always hold on to a little so I can easily get out if I need to with out heartbreak. This is upsetting because I am a natural romantic but when I give my heart completely I stop using my head and that is always dangerous...

omg you can't be serious.
 
Love doesn't make you bend your morals.. i think your idea of what love is, could be a bit twisted. The type of relationship u describe sounds like poison.. if it interfers with your life and causes u distress that is not Love.. it's called depedence and if you think this way you will never truly know what love is..

Speaking to anyone after this type of break up will only cause you further heart ache. We are not responsible for anyones happiness.. except our own..

Originally Posted by courtneybcca
I have been in deep love once and I will forever love that person even though that relationship ripped my heart out. Real love never goes away. I will always care for him and because of that we remain friends because I need to know that he is okay and living happily. But I would never again date him even though we have this love for each other it was a horrible relationship and I allowed things that I thought I would never. Love weakens a person and if it makes you bend your morals then you need to get out. I have thought I was in love other times to realize later that it wasn't... I think because of my experiences it will be very difficult for me to completely give myself to anyone again. I now always hold on to a little so I can easily get out if I need to with out heartbreak. This is upsetting because I am a natural romantic but when I give my heart completely I stop using my head and that is always dangerous...
 
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Love is complex and it just happens without you realizing it!
Love is strange...
 
CanadianCutie said:
Love doesn't make you bend your morals.. i think your idea of what love is, could be a bit twisted. The type of relationship u describe sounds like poison.. if it interfers with your life and causes u distress that is not Love.. it's called depedence and if you think this way you will never truly know what love is..

Speaking to anyone after this type of break up will only cause you further heart ache. We are not responsible for anyones happiness.. except our own..

Originally Posted by courtneybcca
I have been in deep love once and I will forever love that person even though that relationship ripped my heart out. Real love never goes away. I will always care for him and because of that we remain friends because I need to know that he is okay and living happily. But I would never again date him even though we have this love for each other it was a horrible relationship and I allowed things that I thought I would never. Love weakens a person and if it makes you bend your morals then you need to get out. I have thought I was in love other times to realize later that it wasn't... I think because of my experiences it will be very difficult for me to completely give myself to anyone again. I now always hold on to a little so I can easily get out if I need to with out heartbreak. This is upsetting because I am a natural romantic but when I give my heart completely I stop using my head and that is always dangerous...



AND THIS IS COMING FROM A GIRL who says she is not a romantic
hahahah, well said and i do agree with you
 
I'm not romantic in the same way most people are.

U said it before.. probably takes alot for me to fall for someone, but when they do they have my heart.. it's happened once.. and although it ended.. wouldn't trade it for anything.

I'm affectionate.. but not really romantic..I also beleive that many people have false ideas about what love is.

I confess myself.. i really didn't know that i was in love until it was almost over.. :p

Meantime1 said:
AND THIS IS COMING FROM A GIRL who says she is not a romantic
hahahah, well said and i do agree with you
 
I believe in love. I also believe in leprechauns and pots of gold, but one has no bearing on the other.
 
My world is run by leprechauns.. because the Easterbunny and Santa Claus already had a gig:P

Forge said:
I believe in love. I also believe in leprechauns and pots of gold, but one has no bearing on the other.
 
If it's true.. then i don't have an issue saying it over and over again!

From Zero said:
Practice saying that, cupcake. It's gonna happen a lot.
 
I believe.

But in fairness I should point out that I also believed that the Giants had a chance to make the playoffs this year
 
Of course, but it's best when the feeling is mutual.
 
I believe in love, and it's a very special feeling. :heart:





I also believe in short term lust, and it's also a very special feeling. :busy: :horny: ;)
 
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