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Do people know the "REAL" you

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So often in life we are judged by factors that do not make up our true persona. As BBuilders these stereotypes both positive and negative are even more enhanced. Most of the time I love the attention that my body brings, people tend to give you more respect because of your dedication to be at the peek of physical condition. But I have also found that more often then not few people in this world know the true me. When I was younger I was hurt often so I have in some way created this persona as a shield. Few people in this world are aware of the caring, loving sole that lives inside that personality I have chosen for myself.

So I ask you this do people truly know the real you, or have you like me chosen to create a shield persona in an effort to protect yourself from the possibility of pain that humans can inflict upon you. Just recently I had opened up my entire life to one individual and in the end I was left destroyed as some of my most imitate fears were used against me. This has left me in a way jaded and more fearful to expose the goodness that shines inside me.
 
MOST PEOPLE DONT KNOW THE REAL ME. USUALLY THEY ARE VERY SUPRISED WHEN THEY DO GET TO KNOW ME. MOST THINK I AM A CERTAIN WAY BUT WHEN THEY GET TO KNOW ME THEY REALIZE THAT I'M TOTALLY DIFFERENT. I'M USUALLY CLOSED OFF AS FAR AS MY PERSONAL BUSINESS GOES (TO MOST). ONLY A FEW PEOPLE ACTUALLY KNOW THE REAL ME.



KAYNE
 
Nope not many do, many know me well enogh but I keep a lot of myself shielded, some do know me, those people I trust very much and trust they won't hurt me
 
Nope, not too many people get to know me. I guess that giant wall that I've built over the years works well! People usually tell me that before they got to know me they thought that I was a major @sshole. Go figure that, me, an @sshole??? Neeeeever! Yeah right.
 
I think a lot of people who meet me probably have first impressions, just from appearances, that are completely off. Anyone who talks to me pretty much knows the real me. Like I've said before, I have enough drama in my life without spending half my time pretending I'm someone I'm not.

I'm very open about myself in general but there are VERY few people that I'm completely open with-- about EVERYTHING. I can only think nof one person in my life right now who really knows everything that's going on.
 
pretty much the same with me. im very guarded.....in dont think there is one person im TOTALLY open with, the last person i did that with kinda didnt respect it and potentially screwed my lie for a year, maybe even longer :(
 
Do People know the real me?


Yes indeed, I'm open with everyone, very respectful, you give it you get it, got nothing to hide.
This couple came up to me the other day in the gym, said "we have been doing this and that but our bodies are not responding, our diet is this our training is that, what are we doing wrong" I calmly say "do you guys smoke herb at all", they say "no, should we", I say , it may help you in thinking properly about your diet, training and getting your body down to a science. Well, I sold them a sack yesterday, they called me later on and said "we have devised this diet and changed this on our training and we feel good about it", they said "all we needed was to focus", thanked me then said goodbye. Whats the moral? I dont know but I thought it was a good thing that they got some herb for themselves. peace
 
Ok, how to put this. Well, people know the real PURE, except that I don't really get into personal things with most of my friends. I've been dating the same girl for about a year (next month) and I still don't tell her when something is wrong ect...I know it gets to her because she feels useless, but I've been put through a lot and I don't allow myself to be left open for more pain. I'm open about everything else and it's all genuine, I just don't leave myself open.
 
Cornholio said:
Havoc - send me some hydro.....

What dan marino said. LOL!!!


I'm just who I am. If I call you a dick head hear, you can bet your ass I would call you a dick head in person too!
 
WODIN said:


What dan marino said. LOL!!!


I'm just who I am. If I call you a dick head hear, you can bet your ass I would call you a dick head in person too!


hey shitforbrains, I think you mean "here" and "dickhead" and "I love you"

penis
 
Lord Suston is my REAL PERSONA!!!!!
not many people know the real me, even my gf is always finding out new stuf about me. It drives her mad cause we'll be out and someone will come up and be Like "Lord_Suston remember that time we did this and that ect..." and she gets upset cause she wants to know everythig about me. personally i think she is sent from the government to capture me.... My true friend maybe one or two know a lot but not all even my own brothers are amazed at what i have done, since they know me well, but not all..... I don't think anyone really will ever....
 
I'm very quite in person, so some people say that it is hard to get to know me. I guess that, in itself is a defensive shield.
 
i wish people could see the real me and treat me with respect and kindness. feelings.....nothing more than feelings...
 
HighIntensity said:
Just recently I had opened up my entire life to one individual and in the end I was left destroyed as some of my most imitate fears were used against me. This has left me in a way jaded and more fearful to expose the goodness that shines inside me.

I know what you mean.... that exact same thing happened to me about a little over a year ago... I still have yet to be in another relationship, no matter how trivial it is. I am afraid that if I open up again, I invite the same hurt back into my life. So, I just come off as very shy, I guess.
 
NO people dont know the real me! they cant see past the fact that i wanna be all i can be in life, and that is too much for them to bear
 
The "real" me......

hum.......

Not sure what that is....

I'm always just me.

But, most people see my goofy side, but those that know me well, see my sensitive side
 
The "Real Me"...

My favorite line is "I am always good and if not I pretend..."

People see only what I allow them to see, they do not see the things in life that cause me pain, or cause me to have sleepless nights. I do not tell others the things that I worry about, or scare me. And I also do not tell them the dreams and goals I have for my future.

The part of me they do see, is a person who is very laid back and easy going, very accepting of others, with a smile on my face and a positive outlook on life. I guess, I believe that people all have there own "battles" to fight...I certainly do not like to burden them with mine...

~toga
 
well, except for the hardcore pictures of yourself you keep sending me spatts... :verygood:

online people.. unless you chat with me on aim or phone or whatnot i'm gonna say you don't know me at all... and my sense of humour is vastly underappreciated on the net. ;)
 
toga22 said:
The "Real Me"...

My favorite line is "I am always good and if not I pretend..."

People see only what I allow them to see, they do not see the things in life that cause me pain, or cause me to have sleepless nights. I do not tell others the things that I worry about, or scare me. And I also do not tell them the dreams and goals I have for my future.

The part of me they do see, is a person who is very laid back and easy going, very accepting of others, with a smile on my face and a positive outlook on life. I guess, I believe that people all have there own "battles" to fight...I certainly do not like to burden them with mine...

~toga


you can burden me anytime ;)
 
I only show my true self (dreams, emotions, etc) to people who are worth it....everyone else just gets my goofy wiseass side
 
PinK233 said:
I only show my true self (dreams, emotions, etc) to people who are worth it....everyone else just gets my goofy wiseass side

I CAN RELATE. I ONLY OPEN UP TO CERTAIN PEOPLE (VERY FEW) BUT I'M BY NO MEANS FAKE. I JUST DONT LET PEOPLE IN VERY OFTEN. AS I SAID, PEOPLE ARE VERY SUPRISED AT WHAT THEY FIND ONCE I DO.


SORT OF LIKE ME AT SCHOOL. WHEN I WALK INTO A CLASS WITH MY SCRUBS, TSHIRT, BEENIE CAP (ABERCROMIE HEMP HAT), AND OAKLEYS, THEY LOOK AT ME LIKE WTF IS HE DOING IN THIS HARD ASS CLASS? HE IS GOING TO FAIL. BUT WHEN I ACE A TEST OR PULL AN A IN A CLASS THAT ONLY TWO OR THREE PEOPLE PULL A'S IN, THEY ARE DUMBFOUNDED.


KAYNE
 
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