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without ever being intimate w/them till your wedding night?
i mean if you really loved each other wouldn't the sex be good regardless?
i mean if you really loved each other wouldn't the sex be good regardless?
Could You Marry Someone
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BrandonXJ
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That's really tough. I actually just broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago, and this was part of the reason. It's not the sex being good/bad that I'm really concerned about, but how could you marry someone, the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, if you haven't ever come as close as possible with them physically and emotionally. It probably seems like a backwards 1950's argument, but I guess that's where we're at these days.
Would I? I don't think so.. but you never know.
Would I? I don't think so.. but you never know.
Buddy_Christ
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tripleblonde said:
you gonna buy the car without test driving it?
tripleblonde
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yeah.....i can honestly say i wouldn't be able to either.....
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jenscats5
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tripleblonde said:
I would say that you don't really know a person until you marry them....people change after marriage sometimes.....
I think if you love them enough to marry them, then you need to make sure that you know what you are getting.....I would not want to marry someone I wasn't compatable with in bed.....I couldn't handle it if say, he wanted to wear my underwear in bed or do very weird things -- however, sometimes you don't find these things out until after marriage, so it's a gamble either way....
My ex hubby started this diatribe about 2 years into our marriage: During sex he would say "What does a wife do for her husband?" and the response he wanted was "Submit" and crap like that.....Uhhhh, no.........not for me....
Buddy_Christ
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jenscats5 said:
guess i can cancel some of the plans i had for coming down to the philly area
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jenscats5
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crak600 said:guess i can cancel some of the plans i had for coming down to the philly area
Why's that???
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jenscats5
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BrandonXJ said:you've got to be kidding. that's hilarious.
Yeah, it was kinda creepy......and not sexy at all....
Then when we were going to marriage counseling, the counselor said I should have sex with my hubby cuz he liked it and do it anyway no matter how I felt......I said then I want to get paid....
Hope his new wife likes him better......weirdo....
Buddy_Christ
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jenscats5 said:
coming down that way tomorrow actually. Will be hitting Lansdale and Willow Grove.
got about enough cash for gas, tolls, and coffee.
Moderate_THIS
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c'mon people, it's 2004. You don't get married these days.
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jenscats5
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gotmilk said:What the........
Can you imagine waiting a getting married to someone who is frigid and only likes the missionary position?
:shudder:
That would suck royally!
heres something to chew on folks...
for the ppl that say marriage is dumb:
if people didnt get married, then how would families start? and how would the world keeping going?
I mean think about. yea you could still have kids if you arent married. but say you split (which could be very likely) and now the kids have to grow up in a crappier situation than they would have if they had the same 2 parents supporting them all along, who loved them and were with them from day they were born.
I think at some point you gotta draw the line, and eventually just promise to be with someone until death do you apart, and try hard to make this marriage work and to keep it functioning.
I think attempting to keep a promise like that is better than not trying at all (in other words not marrying anybody)
for the ppl that say marriage is dumb:
if people didnt get married, then how would families start? and how would the world keeping going?
I mean think about. yea you could still have kids if you arent married. but say you split (which could be very likely) and now the kids have to grow up in a crappier situation than they would have if they had the same 2 parents supporting them all along, who loved them and were with them from day they were born.
I think at some point you gotta draw the line, and eventually just promise to be with someone until death do you apart, and try hard to make this marriage work and to keep it functioning.
I think attempting to keep a promise like that is better than not trying at all (in other words not marrying anybody)
string_bean00
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No way in hell I'm marrying someone without having sex first.
No, you'll never know if they have bad hygiene or not. I don't care how attractive someone is, if they have bad hygiene, it ain't happening.
I have a somewhat funny story to tell. My friend once claimed to have fallen in love with this girl. All he could do was talk about her every day. All of the sudden, he stops talking about her and she's not around anymore. We asked him what happened. He had a real painful look on his face and said, "Man, her pussy stunk." I know that is awful, but at the time it was real funny. Real nice girl too. I think he should have given her another chance.
I have a somewhat funny story to tell. My friend once claimed to have fallen in love with this girl. All he could do was talk about her every day. All of the sudden, he stops talking about her and she's not around anymore. We asked him what happened. He had a real painful look on his face and said, "Man, her pussy stunk." I know that is awful, but at the time it was real funny. Real nice girl too. I think he should have given her another chance.
cutiepie04
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I already live in sin so I guess I couldnt wait until marriage. lol
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Lady Viking
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No.
Dante Alighieri
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tripleblonde said:
If the sex blows, get a mistress. That way, you have one women for good quality loving, and the other to wash/ iron your clothes, clean the dishes and make your meals
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Ulcasterdropout
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I guess I could.
Robert Jan
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I don't think I really support marriage
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