Burning_Inside
Elite Mentor
Hey i don't know nothing about no cheatin' married guys so I am keeping it to women only.
I know a female that i met online years back. She went to the marines, and was always complaining how lonely she was. Then i kinda lost track of her, and one day her brother IM'd me asking who i was and saying she is getting married and he has her computer... So i didn't hear from her for a while, then she got back to me. So yeah she was so lonely that she got married, to a guy that even had a kid. She is now living with him and the kid.
The thing is, while he was away (hes in the marines also) she was big time flirtatious on the net to me (still is i guess) and sending me nudes of herself. I asked her what she'd think if he installed some spyware on the comp and found out what she was doing and saying to me, and others I imagine too. She just said that he sould be happy that she's not acting out on any of it, but if anything worse came of it, then..... "o well".
This is reason #97862438 why I will never get married. You just never never know in this day and age. And it's not worth the hassle of worrying.
Any married guys here ever install spyware in their comp and check up on their wives? I know a lot of people would be like "well she's not doing anything physical, so who cares". But the thing is, she may not be doing anything physical, but that, for the most part, just means she has no outlet to make it physical. It doesn't mean they don't have the intent of acting out. To me, it would be a huge disrespect, and all trust would be down the toilet.
I know a female that i met online years back. She went to the marines, and was always complaining how lonely she was. Then i kinda lost track of her, and one day her brother IM'd me asking who i was and saying she is getting married and he has her computer... So i didn't hear from her for a while, then she got back to me. So yeah she was so lonely that she got married, to a guy that even had a kid. She is now living with him and the kid.
The thing is, while he was away (hes in the marines also) she was big time flirtatious on the net to me (still is i guess) and sending me nudes of herself. I asked her what she'd think if he installed some spyware on the comp and found out what she was doing and saying to me, and others I imagine too. She just said that he sould be happy that she's not acting out on any of it, but if anything worse came of it, then..... "o well".
This is reason #97862438 why I will never get married. You just never never know in this day and age. And it's not worth the hassle of worrying.
Any married guys here ever install spyware in their comp and check up on their wives? I know a lot of people would be like "well she's not doing anything physical, so who cares". But the thing is, she may not be doing anything physical, but that, for the most part, just means she has no outlet to make it physical. It doesn't mean they don't have the intent of acting out. To me, it would be a huge disrespect, and all trust would be down the toilet.

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