No, you didn't miss anything.
And though the ink is not on the paper...hell, he is being such a jackass I don't know WHEN there will even BE a paper for me to sign, but believe me when I tell you - I COULDN'T POSSIBLY BE SOON ENOUGH....in my heart, I left the marriage when my head hit the ground.
It's all good, though. Things can only get better for my girls and me.