Anyone NOT want kids?

[jennifer BFL chick]

not sure if I do.......

Maybe if I meet the right guy, and I my feelings change about having them, I will.......

I don't want to wait too long. You hear about women who focus on their careers and wait until they meet the perfect guy and are in the "perfect" situation, but then, find out its too late.

There's part of me that wouldn't mind being childless....... this is odd, especially for a female (in Utah I might add!)

 

[Boss101]

My reason for not wanting kids is I don't want to get married. To have kids you can't be selfish which I am so I don't want them.

 

[bwood]

god owes me for too much...

flipper babies...

he'd give me flipper babies...

the cost of the tanks and the
blowhole salve would kill me...

 

[Big Buck]

You can have mine j/k. My son just had his 1st B-day last Thursday....he had fun and got messy w/ the cake!!! He had it on his face, hair, in his ears....LOL

 

[GenetiKing]

Yeah, I'll take a couple kids.

Wanna have mine, Jen?

 

[Aryan_Soldat]

I used to WANT kids, but then when I acted on my impulses, they went crying to their parents and the police. Now I stick to mentally retarded chix. They are as naiive as kids, but its not against the law to get a little strange from em. Shiiiit.

AS

 

[Who is John Galt?]

 

[Robert Jan]

well i guess what i think of this right now doesn`t much matter as im only 16 but well i could see myself being and happy and proud of a kid and love the kid but i couldn`t see myself being there for the kid ALWAYS. sure if i had one i would but i cant imagine the impact on my time planning...

the responsibility, the time, the money, the attention, its a lot to pay. i fucking hate creches. i think they are spoiling the upcoming generation. if you can afford to raise a kid time wise dont get one. I know i wont.

I think that IF i had kids it should be some later in life say 40-45 yr old. before that, well better things to do more to explore.

my parents are 62 and 52, they are the oldest of all the parents of kids in my year and when i ask them about it they react like "don`t those peeps have jack shit better to do when they are young?"

 

[Mysterio]

I got to have boy.....a thought of another little me makes me want to smile.

 

[Jimsbbc]

I want to have kids at some point. I would have to meet someone really special to start a family with though.

 

[Norman Bates]

I don´t want kids, they are too much responsibility.

But when i was 8 i didn´t want a girlfriend , that changed when i was like 14.
Guess my biological clock keeps on ticking, so who knows what i´ll want when i´m older.

 

[the nature boy]

I'm 28 *sigh* almost 29 and I dont' want kids anytime soon. When I want them I don't know.

But I do know when I get old and tired and can no longer take care of myself I'm gonna be damn sure I have some children to take care of my old ass. That's what family's for.

 

[casavant]

I'm not sure if I ever want them. Not for a looong time, at the very least.

 

[epimetheus]

I don't want kids. Not sure I am cut out to be a father. I really think I would screw it up and send out another psycho out in this world. We certainly don't need more of those.

 

[pigginsly]

Some of you probably got some illegitimate pups running around...
J/k...
KIds are adorable as long as they are not mine...
For now...

 

[fistfullofsteel]

would you marry somebody with a kid/kids?

as for a child/children of my own, doesn't look like it's going to happen.

 

[Lao Tzu]

I don't want kids. I know its wrong to say what i'm about to say, but so what. Kids are annoying little shits. Between ages 0-6 they are cute little humans you can play with. age 7-10 they become self centered jackasses, and 11-18 they become shallow ungrateful assholes. Then after they leave, go to college, and become real humans (age 25 or so) do they probably become desirable again.

Of course i've never had kids, but that is what i assume it will be like. If i could skip years 1-25 i would have kids.

Aryan - its illegal to screw retarded people. sorry about the mix up

 

[big4life]

While I love kids, I doubt that I will ever have any for many reasons, one being that MS runs in my family. Plus there is nobody in my life at the moment.

 

[smallmovesal]

when the time is right i'll have kids.. that'll be in the next 5-10 years i hope.

 

[Austin316]

I want kids, but not until Im married, and am settled in a good career and have other expenses (house, cars, etc) covered

kids = $$$$ lol, I have non now, preferably by the time Im 30 I will have one

 

[Mickey Knox]

Hmm, good question. Im not quite sure if I want kids. I like to go places and have fun. With kids its really hard to get out and do what you want. Like a previous poster said, you cant be selfish and have kids. So it looks like I will be waiting for a long time before I actually do.

 

[pushing_fe]

Yes I want a kid really bad! I'm almost 28 and would like to have one in the very near future. I want to be able to be really active with them, but the way things look right now I don't have any chance of having one soon.

 

[Drifter]

No kids for me and now that I'm 30 I've come to the conclusion that I will never want any.

Some people should not have kids.

 

[p0ink]

i would have no idea whatsoever how to feed them since i only know how to eat for myself. eat anything and everything. those bastards would be fat shits by age 5 if i was in charge of feeding them.

 

[Raina]

I would love more than anything to have children at some point. And someday I hope I have them when I'm in a loving stable relationship with someone who respects and cares about me and who I would know to be a person of integrity who would make an amazing dad. I get all teary eyed just thinking about it.

 

[Swoleyoley]

they will totaly change your prespective on life

 

[crimson coal]

I use to want them in my late twenties but got caught up in the skydiving lifestyle and wasn't ready to give up my freedom. I am now 38 and saw a teenager giving his mom a bunch of crap and decided I didn't like kids at that age. Then a few days later I was stuck somewhere with a bunch of people including a bratty little child and decided I didn't like kids at that age either. I have a good life now and enjoy it so I guess I am happy with the way things are now.

 

[Mysterio]

While I love kids, I doubt that I will ever have any for many reasons, one being that MS runs in my family. Plus there is nobody in my life at the moment.

Hang in there man...believe me your time will come my friend.

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

I am 31 now, seems like that window is shutting. Of course have to find woman first, and as you see I am at home on a Fri. night soo.

I would be a great dad. I helped my mom raise my nephew for 2 1/2 years. It was awesome, a boy is a must. He is so kewl, I miss him very much now that I have moved, and he wakes up at night sometimes crying for me, which is sad. And that brings along one of the reasons I never got married or had kids, Women. Everyone I know in high school got married had a couple then got divorced. I would not want to have to deal with that, could not. Plus I put getting back into school, landing a good job and all before thinking about it.

Kids are great, but you have to really give them all your attention or they may wind up as I did. You can mold and develop them to be great children, or ignore them, treat them like crap and get delinquents. That is the problem with the youth today, their parents typically don't give enough attention and let them run wild

 

[Mysterio]

I'm I like the only that really wants a kid here?

 

[wyst]

I'm 34 going on 35, and I don't want kids yet. I think the old biological clock must broken, or maybe I slept through the alarm, lol.

Wyst

 

[polarpixie]

I can't wait to have kids. But there is no way I'm capable of handling one right now in my frazzled life. Not to mention I am also single. lol.

 

[Mysterio]

Kids are good people!

 

[HumorMe]

they will totaly change your prespective on life

Oh so true! Kids are great!

For those that do not want kids, all I can say is I am sorry for you.

Who else will come up to you after you have a had a horrible day and put their arms around you and hug you(hug, squeeze and a kiss, as my youngest daughter always does) and think that you are the world? To them, you ARE their world! There is nothing in this world I would trade for the genuine feeling and love my kids express towards me. For those times when everything seems to be against you, kids can make it go away, even if it is for a fleeting minute or an hour. Sure, they grow up and wind up breaking your heart several times but the unconditional love for a child is something that cannot be explained unless you have kids yourself.

For those that do not have kids and do not want kids........I am sorry for you.

 

[Lady Viking]

I don´t want kids either.

 

[naturally anabolic]

"Remember, the best part of having kids is making them" - Rodney Dangerfield

 

[plornive]

I don't like most kids. I can't relate to most of them on any level.

 

[Boach]

I eventually do. My only fear is to provide for them. I even have the names picked out thanks to my previous relationship. I'm crossing my fingers for a little girl first, but a boy will be great too.

My one true wish is that whatever i have, he or she will be attractive. I know it sounds shallow but the little one's life will be so much easier with that advantage.

 

[Pamela]

I will not have kids.
That part has already been taken care of..

I am so glad too, cause I think the world today is
not a good place to bring up kids.


But the people who want them I really admire!

 

[Swoleyoley]

Oh so true! Kids are great!

For those that do not want kids, all I can say is I am sorry for you.

Who else will come up to you after you have a had a horrible day and put their arms around you and hug you(hug, squeeze and a kiss, as my youngest daughter always does) and think that you are the world? To them, you ARE their world! There is nothing in this world I would trade for the genuine feeling and love my kids express towards me. For those times when everything seems to be against you, kids can make it go away, even if it is for a fleeting minute or an hour. Sure, they grow up and wind up breaking your heart several times but the unconditional love for a child is something that cannot be explained unless you have kids yourself.

For those that do not have kids and do not want kids........I am sorry for you.

I couldn't agree more..even though mine was taken away by there psycho ass mother...those where the good ole days

 

[Longhorn85]

I think the world today is
not a good place to bring up kids.

I think that is a pessimistic outlook. Many of today's kids will help make this world a better place to live! I'm glad Bill Gates' and Martin Luther King, Jr's mothers didn't have that same approach.

I have a bunch of kids, and for me it is an absolute blessing. My wife and I laugh and get frustrated about something they do EVERY DAY, but we always go to bed at night thanking God for them.

My life's dream: One of my kids is doing something successful, (maybe in big time sports, but not necessarily), pan to the audience, and there are the proud parents, smiling for the camera...

 

[Sapphire]

I can't wait to have kids. But there is no way I'm capable of handling one right now in my frazzled life. Not to mention I am also single. lol.

I'm with polarpixie.....I LOVE kids, but I'd be a complete disaster at this point and time in my life. Hopefully somewhere down the road things will change

~Sapphire

 

[fistfullofsteel]

if you ladies need help making a baby then let me know. i will suck it up and do it for the team.

 

[HumorMe]

if you ladies need help making a baby then let me know. i will suck it up and do it for the team.

Bless your heart ffos! What a guy!!! Always willing to help out!

Damn, you are one in a million!

 

[Mysterio]

God said that the children are the light of the world.

 

[Lao Tzu]

God said that the children are the light of the world.

He also said you could sell your kids into slavery (exodus 21:7).


god i'm an asshole

 

[Mysterio]

Love the little children.......Aryan, don't read this!

 

[Sapphire]

if you ladies need help making a baby then let me know. i will suck it up and do it for the team.

Look at that...things are changing already

 

[Taps]

One of my co-workers left her 1 week old baby in my office for 15 mins while she was in a meeting. I had a long (and fairly one-sided) conversation with him about how lucky he was -- no school, no work, total leisure 24/7. He just kinda looked at me cross eyed and dozed off. Humph.

Anyway, I was thinking the whole time that this kid had his whole life in front of him, and his parents are basically morons. I mean, they're nice folks, but they should never have had kids. So how much therapy is he gonna need 20 years down the road?

My point is that being responsable for another human life is a pretty big deal. lol I know I couldn't do it today...heck, even in 10 years I don't know if I'd be up to it. If I ever have kids, I want to be 100% sure that I know what I'm getting into and that I'm prepared for it.

 

[Longhorn85]

He also said you could sell your kids into slavery (exodus 21:7). [/SIZE]

I love it when people quote stuff out of context to try and prove a point. Servitude was a way of life in 1446 BC, which is the time period you refer to, and the laws were man's not God's. The regulation of Hebrew behavior handed to Moses from God applied to young women who were given to men to work for them or eventually marry one of their sons. If the master didn't provide food, shelter and the opportunity to marry, they were free to go.

The fact is God became fed up with the Hebrews and their laws and declared that the only requirement for salvation was belief and acceptance of Jesus, who said about children: "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these", (Matt 19:14).

 

[Mysterio]

I know eveyone wants a kid deep inside.....why not admit it!

 

[magdelana]

I never liked children so much until about 3 years ago. I am 33 now and maybe would like to have a child. Also however i am lesbisch and am not sure of how i would like to do this. I feel like if i did it i would want to do it the natural way (penis in me? OMG!). I think it is the way it should be.

 

[Mysterio]

It is the way!

 

[doc_pup]

I'd love to have children, probably 2 boys and two girls...it'll be quite a while though, as i'm only 20 and have many things to do first, not to mention i need to find a decent woman who will be a good mother to my children.