You get fucked if you have a foreclosure. An NOD is damaging as well. lenders will see a short sale, NOD and a foreclosure as the same thing. Also, if you get out of it or need to go through with it and are able to re-establish credit and have your scores go up, you'd best keep making your payments. One late can take you from mid 600's to low to mid 500's because of the hit for the foreclosure. Buy what you can afford, not what you qualify for.