Anyone else's s/o do this?

[Inhibitor13]

So I sitting on the computer and of course with it being tax season I have papers everywhere... so I am just looking around for something and come across a letter which was addressed to me, wanting me to fill out the paper and mail it back to them a.s.a.p so that they can get all my info put in their system. This is the first time I have seen this but here it is opened and just laying there. The letter was dated dec. 20th...Are you fucking kidding me?! First thing, dont open up shit that isnt yours and 2nd when were you going to tell me about this, next christmas?! GRRR !

 

[vixensghost]

Jesus, your desk must look like the city dump if you can't find visible mail laid on it.

Nope, I leave all his mail in his office in his "In Box".

 

[alien amp pharm]

pwned by nosey S.O.

 

[Inhibitor13]

pretty much, and my desk looks like a dump because of her trying to do our taxes. I loves how she just leaves shit just lying there. Ive never met anyone as messy. Im an organize freak, everything has to be in a certain place or I get annoyed. I guess, she says she knows where everything is at even though all I see is a mess.

 

[musclemom]

I love my husband, dearly, and there are very, very, very few things we disagree about. One of the ways we maintain household tranquility was we realized early on in the relationship that you DO NOT share desks/computers/filing systems/bill paying/business correspondence.

As I'm more organized and have a better memory, I'm responsible for basically everything. Anything that has to be handled by him personally I hand to him and either WAIT for him to hand back, or tell him "YOU take care of this, it has to be replied to by ____." That way, there is no question of who is in charge of what and none of the blame game gets played.

 

[Inhibitor13]

I love my husband, dearly, and there are very, very, very few things we disagree about. One of the ways we maintain household tranquility was we realized early on in the relationship that you DO NOT share desks/computers/filing systems/bill paying/business correspondence.

As I'm more organized and have a better memory, I'm responsible for basically everything. Anything that has to be handled by him personally I hand to him and either WAIT for him to hand back, or tell him "YOU take care of this, it has to be replied to by ____." That way, there is no question of who is in charge of what and none of the blame game gets played.

That sounds like a plan for me to do ! I love her to death though.. she is great, just a little messy with things.

 

[all the whey]

pwned by nosey S.O.

no doubt

She is keeping tabs on his financials.

 

[ceo]

no doubt

She is keeping tabs on his financials.

got her little hands all wrapped tight around his money, doesn't she???????????????

 

[all the whey]

got her little hands all wrapped tight around his money, doesn't she???????????????

NONE of the Brians would let that shit happen!

 

[musclemom]

That sounds like a plan for me to do ! I love her to death though.. she is great, just a little messy with things.

Believe me, I totally understand! And the thing is, he had to be comfortable with it. See, when we first moved in together we kept EVERYTHING separate. He was in a pretty bad (financial) situation by the time he said "HELP," and he was desperate enough to just turn everything over. The two most common things that couples fight about are sex and money, and if a couple cooperates and make a few mature decisions early on there's no reason for that.

Anymore I try to sit him down and show him what's going on, what we've got, when things get paid, etc., and he makes a face, backs up and runs away I've left detailed instructions in case I croak it unexpectedly so he should be pretty alright

The separate desks/separate computers is pretty easy, but if you take over the finances you have to make some agreements up front, like if she's going to operate on an allowance basis or if she has her own account or what.

 

[alien amp pharm]

no doubt

She is keeping tabs on his financials.

One of my buddies came home after work to find a piece of his mail opened.

His GF had slept in while he went to work and got the mail. It was a hand written envelope. Inside was just a letter about rent or some nonsense.

He was pissed and asked her why she opened it. She denied she did. lol.

He also caught her going thru his phone a few months prior.

I ask him why he remains with her. Poor dummy.

 

[Scotsman]

Jesus, your desk must look like the city dump if you can't find visible mail laid on it.

Nope, I leave all his mail in his office in his "In Box".

So where's your "in box"

Since his in the office.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[alien amp pharm]

Scotsman smooth like sandpaper

 

[Scotsman]

Scotsman smooth like sandpaper

At least I talk to girls that don't have an inflation valve.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[alien amp pharm]

I don't talk to my blow-up, I make sweet sweet love to her then cuddle on her breast afterwards while sucking my thumb.

Talking would just be icky and weird.

 

[Scotsman]

I don't talk to my blow-up, I make sweet sweet love to her then cuddle on her breast afterwards while sucking my thumb.

Talking would just be icky and weird.

Do you wipe her down with knitted products?

and yes talking to it would be the weird part.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[alien amp pharm]

and yes talking to it would be the weird part.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[musclemom]

Do you wipe her down with knitted products?

and yes talking to it would be the weird part.

Cheers,
Scotsman

I dunno, I think talking to it would be sort of normal for some guys.

Hell, there are probably men out there who would find being able to get a word in edgewise around a woman figure to be quite stimulating!

Hearing the blow up talk back, now that would be weird

 

[Scotsman]

I dunno, I think talking to it would be sort of normal for some guys.

Hell, there are probably men out there who would find being able to get a word in edgewise around a woman figure to be quite stimulating!

Hearing the blow up talk back, now that would be weird

Probably easier to get an answer from a doll than an oak tree!

Meh, I don't mind other people talking that just means I have to say less.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Phaded]

all chicks do that

 

[fitness-rubber]

all chicks do that

i don't; nor does my s/o for that matter

 

[ceo]

NONE of the Brians would let that shit happen!

That's RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!

The Brians find bitches with their own money, then we make them spend that shit on US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@#EW

THAT'S how WE (Brians) Roll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[BIGBUCK$]

abuse

 

[myway]

Once upon a time, my husband had mail. He also had a big black Dodge Hemi and a few other things.
Then, he got married.
Now, I have that stuff. Whatcha gonna do about it?