Your are experiencing all the INITIAL common side effects. That's usually the case with Retin-A, you get worse before you get better. Many people experience that.
It's a long-term treatment, which is why they say after about 3 MONTHS is when you will start noticing things. Just have faith and stick it out. You should start to get better and things should improve.
Only apply it ONCE a day, preferably at night. Stay out of the sun as well and do NOT use other harsh products on your face. Are you using anything else to clean your face?
There are 3 concentrations if I'm not mistaken.... 0.01% (weakest), 0.025% (middle strength), and 0.05% (strongest). Which one are you using?
Also, MANY people report that the GEL form works A LOT better than the cream. I have been using the 0.025% GEL form for about 6 months now. Doing good I like it a lot!