anybody have a jealous boy/girl friend?

[drummerbuilder]

wow man, i'm really tired of dealing with this, let me tell you....
went to my tenth high school reunion last night and took my girlfriend of three years
i haven't seen 98% of those people since high school, and more than a few of them were pretty surprised to see what i had morphed into (thanks to about 15 cycles, he he)
anyway, my girl freaked out just like she does every other time that we're around any other women who show the least bit of personal interest in me
this girl really has no reason to be like this, but its been a problem for practically the entire time i've been with her
i like to go out, meet people, talk to them, but i don't know if i should be at the point where i just say enough is enough....
she clearly can't handle not getting ALL of my attention, which seems to be a problem that just won't seem to get better
i know you can't change anybody, so i don't even consider that
avenue, but i guess my question is if anybody else has had this issue crop up in a relationship and how long it went on before you either made a conscious decision to just deal with it forever or finally can the girl!
under normal circumstances, i'd be done with the girl, but i really love her and she really is the type of woman that i would someday marry (no time soon though!)
we're great friends, have a good time when we're together, its just when there's other GIRLS around when the trouble happens
thing is, i'm in a band, and there's always girls around...

 

[Night Fly]

we're great friends, have a good time when we're together, its just when there's other GIRLS around when the trouble happens
thing is, i'm in a band, and there's always girls around...

Then you are always going to have trouble.

Girls like that don't change...just like guys like that don't change.

 

[Hannibal]

jealous girlfriend?? uh nope...that would require a girlfriend first...so no jealousy for me to deal with...wonder if that is a good thing or a bad thing?

 

[Test boy]

Rather than get jealous when a girlfriend is very flirty, I simply space them out. Doubt you would rather deal with that.

Seems to be tough to find perfect people.

 

[Hannibal]

Rather than get jealous when a girlfriend is very flirty, I simply space them out. Doubt you would rather deal with that.

Seems to be tough to find perfect people.

Yeah but if you have to worry about her flirting then she isnt really yours to begin with. So I myself am not jealous at all. And when I'm with a woman and she is getting hit on...I take it as a compliment cuz she is going home with me. If something happens that she decides to act on that flirtation then she wasnt the one for me anyway. Jealousy is such a waste of time.

 

[bodacious]

P. S. your e greeting didn't make it to my box

Do you really count the last year of your relationship?
Three years? If you had only met me first. What about us?
You were dating a girl that was very confident and had zero jealousy issues. Of course, the girl had to deal with your friendship with your current girlfriend. But I think she was very considerate of your friendship. (Third person, you love that)
As YOU taught me, sometimes you have to give up something to get something else. No one is perfect.
She must feel unsure of your commitment to her. I know that you are commited to her. You gave up a wonderful friendship for her.
Maybe she will always be jealous of others, until you put that ring on her finger. So,if you want to marry her someday, get engaged.
See how she changes her attitude. You don't have to marry her today, but what are you waiting for if she's the one?
Unless your waiting, or holding out for something better. She can probably sense that. What if you become famous? Is she going on the road with you? No!!! You need a confident chick to make that life work. I have someone in mind. Maybe the jealousy makes you feel wanted and secure? It's a trade off. But be careful with the green eyed monster.

Well, I hope she can learn to me more mature about your relationships with other women. Or allow you to even have them.
You have heard of the Lorena Bobbit story.
Check out Vanilla Sky.
Love ya. Miss Ya.

 

[Kahn]

Yup, then I married her. No crazy shit though. Just knows what I'm worth.(about 1/4 of what she is)

 

[theoak01]

i get jealous because im still suprised im with such a beautiful girl and im scared that if someone better then me comes along shes gone,but that is a problem with my insecurity not trust in her

oh well my best advice is to get her self image up

 

[KAYNE]

PEOPLE WHO SAY PEOPLE CANT CHANGE ARE THE VERY ONES WHO THOSE SAME PEOPLE ARE REFERRING TO. PEOPLE CAN, AND DO, CHANGE. YOU HAVE TO. ITS LIFE.


YOU THINK YOU HAVE PROBLEMS. TRY HAVING A GIRLFRIEND THAT THINKS YOU ARE FUCKING EVERY GIRL YOU KNOW OR MEET OR SPEAK TO BUT SHE IS AN ATTENTION WHORE. SHE NEEDS THE ATTENTION FROM EVERY DICKLICK IN THE AREA. BUT I'M THE ONE SLEEPING WITH EVERYONE!!! HAHA


KAYNE

 

[porn4life]

jealousy is not always a bad thing. this girl of yours gets pissed off when other girls are arond. big deal. she's just protecting her pissing area. as long as the jealousy doens't get out of control it will just keep her loyal. when other girls hit on you it just reminds her about how much you are really worth. and she's not going to lose you to those two bit high school reunion whores!!!
just take it as a compliment. i like it when my girlfriend gets jealous. it reminds me how much she cares....aaaahhhh
just don't give up the porn..
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