Big Bazooka, lately all I wear is my hot pink weight belt, a pager and my class ring to work out in, I feel free and chipper.
Liberator, Its like this, as a natural bodybuilder your first 1-3 years is where your foundation will be built and you will see the greatest size and strength increases, sure you will see them after that period but not in the high speed fashion that you did when you were a novice, of course thats because you have just shown your body some crazy shit and the response is like "fuck yeah". Again, bulking diets are a waste if your going to become a fat ass, that does nothing for you whatsoever except get you fat, the myth that your stronger and putting on muscle is easier or faster is ridiculous, its all in the mind. The only thing you gain on a bulking diet is extra fat. Now the same goes for a dieting down diet as well, when your getting lean your not doing anything for size or strength and basically starving yourself of necessary nutrients that are a must in certain portions(like Saturated fat for example). I say fluctuate between 6-10% bodyfat, dont go higher, dont go lower, only reason to diet down is if your doing a show, I made the decision this morning for example to bump up my fat for a while, not to bulk up but to get to at least 6.5% bodyfat, currently I'm a little to lean and risking injury due to the weight I lift. I woke up this morning to find veins popping out of my knee caps and serratus meaning that I need some fat because that shit looks disgusting.
You asked do I make a goal as far as weight is concerned. Earlier I did this, for example when I was 185 I thought it would be the shit if I could hit 200, when I did I wanted to be 210, then 220, etc etc, thats a good way to approach it but be aware that its going to get harder and harder to get heavier. Never base your gains on just size and strength though, there are other things as well(muscle maturity, shape, definition, denstiy). I know a guy who is a natural champion weighing in at 180-185 and looks like he is 210 because of all the components that make up a physique, he is almost 40, looking insane.
Give the set diet a try, when I say give it a try I mean do it for like 6 months, you wont regret it, you will know exactly what to eat, when to eat it, exact times of the day you will take a shit, its beautiful, also with a set diet you will learn what to add or take away whenever you want to look a little leaner or more fuller, you will see what I'm talking about, its good shit bro. Hope this helps, next time I wont be so brief(I just wrote a fucking novel)peace