An observation about us guys

[Boach]

Since I started coming to Elite Fitness for the chat discussion board, it is never hard to find another poor slob complaining about woman troubles. It seems that every time I look, another person is declaring war against the opposite sex.

Now, I've had my share of bad experiences when it comes to females, but I have to reaffirm one thing; As men, we are only half complete, guys. Women are that missing puzzle peice that completes that empty part of our lives. Alone, we are irritable, fiercly competitive over insignifigant things, materialistic, sex driven, aggressive, carniverous, and blunt. A girl soothes, calms, uplifts, and adds value to our lives. As a guy, our social value (coolness) is judged by our ability to attract the opposite sex. It is my firm belief that this is so because everyone knows that after all the crummy things that woman do to us, in the end, we need them like we need air.

They are our mothers, our sisters, our daughters and yes, our one true weakness. Remember, they're human--just like us. We all do things that we aren't proud of. You may have to sift through thousands of women who don't work out for whatever reason, but remember, it only takes that one time to meet "the one." Instead of dwelling on all this negativity, why not learn from the experience, brush yourself off, and refocus on looking for that special "her" once again. You might pass her by while dwelling on the wrongs you've endured from others.

Sorry guys, just feeling philosophical and YES, I'm single.

 

[J-DAM]

Is this your attempt at picking up EF chicks using the "sensitive and understanding" method?

 

[PinK233]

Awwww boachy how sweet!

 

[Boach]

Is this your attempt at picking up EF chicks using the "sensitive and understanding" method?

No. Let me clarify:

Attention Elite Women!!! Please stay away from me. Although, I enjoy women, I prefer to carry out relationships that are on a face to face basis. If you need a PC to pick up women, then you are beyond my help. I also take offense at the very suggestion that this is some attempt to attract the attention of faceless strangers. Just felt like venting some frustration of all the anti-girl threads. Just cuz my ex sucks, doesn't mean all girls do.

 

[Boach]

Awwww boachy how sweet!

LOL...that doesn't help my arguement. How you doin, babes?!

 

[polarpixie]

No. Let me clarify:

Attention Elite Women!!! Please stay away from me. Although, I enjoy women, I prefer to carry out relationships that are on a face to face basis. If you need a PC to pick up women, then you are beyond my help. I also take offense at the very suggestion that this is some attempt to attract the attention of faceless strangers. Just felt like venting some frustration of all the anti-girl threads. Just cuz my ex sucks, doesn't mean all girls do.

lol, well your rant/vent will not help keep us EF women away either!!!! I will now be your #2 fan.

 

[polarpixie]

Is this your attempt at picking up EF chicks using the "sensitive and understanding" method?

Apparently not, but it is working!!! I think I'm in love!!! I think this means I will be single forever too.

 

[Boach]

Hey, I said I won't flirt online, but you're welcome to swing by Jersey and I can work my mojo in person. Shall we say dinner and drinks at 9pm?

 

[2 ton hoss]

Since I started coming to Elite Fitness for the chat discussion board, it is never hard to find another poor slob complaining about woman troubles. It seems that every time I look, another person is declaring war against the opposite sex.

Now, I've had my share of bad experiences when it comes to females, but I have to reaffirm one thing; As men, we are only half complete, guys. Women are that missing puzzle peice that completes that empty part of our lives. Alone, we are irritable, fiercly competitive over insignifigant things, materialistic, sex driven, aggressive, carniverous, and blunt. A girl soothes, calms, uplifts, and adds value to our lives. As a guy, our social value (coolness) is judged by our ability to attract the opposite sex. It is my firm belief that this is so because everyone knows that after all the crummy things that woman do to us, in the end, we need them like we need air.

They are our mothers, our sisters, our daughters and yes, our one true weakness. Remember, they're human--just like us. We all do things that we aren't proud of. You may have to sift through thousands of women who don't work out for whatever reason, but remember, it only takes that one time to meet "the one." Instead of dwelling on all this negativity, why not learn from the experience, brush yourself off, and refocus on looking for that special "her" once again. You might pass her by while dwelling on the wrongs you've endured from others.

Sorry guys, just feeling philosophical and YES, I'm single.

THEN I AM NOT A MAN.

I MUST BE SOME SORT OF ANDROID.

WOMEN ARE JUST OTHER PEOPLE FOR ME. I DO NOT DESIRE A RELATIONSHIP. I DO NOT WANT A WOMAN IN MY LIFE. IF SOMEONE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED I WILL NOT TURN IT DOWN, NOR WILL I ACTIVELY SEEK IT OUT.

WHEN I WAS IN MY 20'S I USED TO PURSUE WOMEN ALL THE TIME. HAD THE GIRLFRIENDS, PLAYED THE SCENE, ETC. WHAT A FUCKING WASTE OF TIME. FOR WHAT? TO WHAT END? WHY WASTE ALL THAT TIME WITH WOMEN WHO ARE NOT "THE ONE" WAITING FOR ONE WHO IS? IS THE END RESULT WORTH IT? I DO NOT THINK SO.

SO NOW, SCREW WOMEN. IF THEY WANT TO BE FRIENDS, THAT'S COOL. IF THEY WANT MORE, I AM LEAVING FASTER THAN YOU CAN SAY "GONE".

HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED THAT A LOVE STORY IS SO MUCH LESS INTERESTING THAN ANY OTHER TYPE?

MY LIFE IS GREAT WITHOUT WOMEN AND WITHOUT LOVE, MUCH BETTER THAN IT WAS WITH WOMEN AND WITH LOVE.

 

[Austin316]

Let the residant campus model nice guy (or so Im told lmao) say that Boach and I do not agree on hardly jack squat when it comes to the whole dating/love game

Im "unhealthy" I guess

 

[Pamela]

As men, we are only half complete, guys. Women are that missing puzzle peice that completes that empty part of our lives. to our lives. Iin the end, we need them like we need air.

Remember, they're human--just like us. We all do things that we aren't proud of.

Boach you are a very smart man...

Just remember that us women feel the same too..

 

[polarpixie]

Re: Re: An observation about us guys

THEN I AM NOT A MAN.

I MUST BE SOME SORT OF ANDROID.

WOMEN ARE JUST OTHER PEOPLE FOR ME. I DO NOT DESIRE A RELATIONSHIP. I DO NOT WANT A WOMAN IN MY LIFE. IF SOMEONE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED I WILL NOT TURN IT DOWN, NOR WILL I ACTIVELY SEEK IT OUT.

WHEN I WAS IN MY 20'S I USED TO PURSUE WOMEN ALL THE TIME. HAD THE GIRLFRIENDS, PLAYED THE SCENE, ETC. WHAT A FUCKING WASTE OF TIME. FOR WHAT? TO WHAT END? WHY WASTE ALL THAT TIME WITH WOMEN WHO ARE NOT "THE ONE" WAITING FOR ONE WHO IS? IS THE END RESULT WORTH IT? I DO NOT THINK SO.

SO NOW, SCREW WOMEN. IF THEY WANT TO BE FRIENDS, THAT'S COOL. IF THEY WANT MORE, I AM LEAVING FASTER THAN YOU CAN SAY "GONE".

HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED THAT A LOVE STORY IS SO MUCH LESS INTERESTING THAN ANY OTHER TYPE?

MY LIFE IS GREAT WITHOUT WOMEN AND WITHOUT LOVE, MUCH BETTER THAN IT WAS WITH WOMEN AND WITH LOVE.

It is all in your perspective and what is important to you. If you are happier outside of a love relationship then I am glad for you. however, rather than truely happier and better off alone, from the tone of your post, I get the feeling you have been really hurt before and you now harbor bitter feelings to anyone(women) who may be able to hurt you again. If I'm wrong, then more power to you.

 

[2 ton hoss]

Re: Re: Re: An observation about us guys

It is all in your perspective and what is important to you. If you are happier outside of a love relationship then I am glad for you. however, rather than truely happier and better off alone, from the tone of your post, I get the feeling you have been really hurt before and you now harbor bitter feelings to anyone(women) who may be able to hurt you again. If I'm wrong, then more power to you.

NO, I'VE JUST CONSIDERED BOTH COURSES OF ACTION AND TAKEN THE ONE I CURRENTLY THINK MOST APPROPRIATE.

I HAVE ACTUALLY HAD GOOD LUCK WITH RELATIONSHIPS. I HAVE NEVER HAD A "MEAN" BREAKUP (I.E. HUGE ARGUMENTS, OR CHEATING, OR STUFF LIKE THAT). IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN PRETTY AMIABLE. HOWEVER, AS I GREW OLDER I REALIZED I DID NOT LIKE THE WHOLE DATING SCENE. SURE, I HAD FUN WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS, BUT NOT ENOUGH TO JUSTIFY THE EXPENSE (IN TERMS OF TIME). TO TELL THE TRUTH I DO NOT EVEN LIKE THE EMOTION OF LOVE, SIMPLY BECAUSE I VERY MUCH DISLIKE DEPENDING ON PEOPLE. A SHRINK MIGHT CALL THIS AN ILLNESS. WHO KNOWS. I HATE TO DEPEND ON PEOPLE (HATE CARING ABOUT SOMEONE, HATE HAVING DEBTS, HATE HAVING TO TAKE SOMETHING FROM SOMEONE, ETC).

AND THE ODD THING IS I HAVE NEVER REALLY BEEN HURT BY A PERSON I CARED ABOUT, OR DEPENDED ON. IT IS MORE OF, IF I CARE ABOUT SOMEONE OR OWE SOMEONE SOMETHING, IT RESTRICTS MY FREEDOM. AND I LIKE MY FREEDOM...

 

[Taps]

Nice post. A little idealistic, but nice.

I refuse to accept the idea that I might actually "need" another person, but I'll say that it would be nice to have a girlfriend for the summer. The constant sex would be a nice change anyway.

 

[Boach]

Re: Re: Re: Re: An observation about us guys

NO, I'VE JUST CONSIDERED BOTH COURSES OF ACTION AND TAKEN THE ONE I CURRENTLY THINK MOST APPROPRIATE.

I HAVE ACTUALLY HAD GOOD LUCK WITH RELATIONSHIPS. I HAVE NEVER HAD A "MEAN" BREAKUP (I.E. HUGE ARGUMENTS, OR CHEATING, OR STUFF LIKE THAT). IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN PRETTY AMIABLE. HOWEVER, AS I GREW OLDER I REALIZED I DID NOT LIKE THE WHOLE DATING SCENE. SURE, I HAD FUN WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS, BUT NOT ENOUGH TO JUSTIFY THE EXPENSE (IN TERMS OF TIME). TO TELL THE TRUTH I DO NOT EVEN LIKE THE EMOTION OF LOVE, SIMPLY BECAUSE I VERY MUCH DISLIKE DEPENDING ON PEOPLE. A SHRINK MIGHT CALL THIS AN ILLNESS. WHO KNOWS. I HATE TO DEPEND ON PEOPLE (HATE CARING ABOUT SOMEONE, HATE HAVING DEBTS, HATE HAVING TO TAKE SOMETHING FROM SOMEONE, ETC).

AND THE ODD THING IS I HAVE NEVER REALLY BEEN HURT BY A PERSON I CARED ABOUT, OR DEPENDED ON. IT IS MORE OF, IF I CARE ABOUT SOMEONE OR OWE SOMEONE SOMETHING, IT RESTRICTS MY FREEDOM. AND I LIKE MY FREEDOM...

In my life, I have come to believe in one philosophy of my own creation:

"In life, there is only one rule that has no exceptions--all rules have exceptions."

Although a broad statement may apply to many people or situations, it doesn't ever apply tall all people/situations. With that said, I won't argue with you. I'll just say, good luck and congrats. In a way, however, I can't help feeling sorry for you. For all the hurt that women have put me through, they've also allowed me to experience the most happiest times of my life. Also, with any luck, there will be more to come, like children and marriage.

 

[polarpixie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: An observation about us guys

NO, I'VE JUST CONSIDERED BOTH COURSES OF ACTION AND TAKEN THE ONE I CURRENTLY THINK MOST APPROPRIATE.

I HAVE ACTUALLY HAD GOOD LUCK WITH RELATIONSHIPS. I HAVE NEVER HAD A "MEAN" BREAKUP (I.E. HUGE ARGUMENTS, OR CHEATING, OR STUFF LIKE THAT). IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN PRETTY AMIABLE. HOWEVER, AS I GREW OLDER I REALIZED I DID NOT LIKE THE WHOLE DATING SCENE. SURE, I HAD FUN WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS, BUT NOT ENOUGH TO JUSTIFY THE EXPENSE (IN TERMS OF TIME). TO TELL THE TRUTH I DO NOT EVEN LIKE THE EMOTION OF LOVE, SIMPLY BECAUSE I VERY MUCH DISLIKE DEPENDING ON PEOPLE. A SHRINK MIGHT CALL THIS AN ILLNESS. WHO KNOWS. I HATE TO DEPEND ON PEOPLE (HATE CARING ABOUT SOMEONE, HATE HAVING DEBTS, HATE HAVING TO TAKE SOMETHING FROM SOMEONE, ETC).

AND THE ODD THING IS I HAVE NEVER REALLY BEEN HURT BY A PERSON I CARED ABOUT, OR DEPENDED ON. IT IS MORE OF, IF I CARE ABOUT SOMEONE OR OWE SOMEONE SOMETHING, IT RESTRICTS MY FREEDOM. AND I LIKE MY FREEDOM...

I can relate to what youre sayin. I also dislike dating. I also hate to depend on people (by that I mean, depend on them to live a full life), I also hate debts. But I haven't shut out the idea of love or ever say 'screw men' or 'screw love'. I love my freedom. I don't expect or want that to be taken away from me when and if I end up in love again. Ideally, I fully expect that I will continue to live my own life, and he will have his own friends and his own interests. Our lives will not revolve around the other 24/7. If I ever get married, I fully expect to have separate bank accounts and I will never share a credit card.

 

[2 ton hoss]

I SEE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING PPIX, BUT I TAKE IT A STEP FURTHER - IF I CARE ABOUT SOMEONE, IT MEANS SEVERAL THINGS. FIRST, MY EMOTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIRS (THEY ARE VERY SAD, I BECOME SAD, THEY ARE HAPPY, I BECOME HAPPY). SECOND, MY EMOTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIR WELL BEING (THEY GET INJURED, I BECOME SCARED/SAD). THIRD, MY ACTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIR EMOTIONS (I DO NOT WANT TO DO SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE THEM SAD). ALL THIS ADDS UP TO A TERRIFYINGLY CLOSE INTERDEPENDENCE ON ANOTHER PERSON. TO ME, ANYWAY.

2 TON HOSS

 

[polarpixie]

Hey, I said I won't flirt online, but you're welcome to swing by Jersey and I can work my mojo in person. Shall we say dinner and drinks at 9pm?

Schweeeeeet! If I leave now, I may be able to make it by Saturday night!
(oh, I am your #2 fan since pink was the first to respond. )

 

[rippedtrojan]

i feel your pain too

 

[polarpixie]

I SEE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING PPIX, BUT I TAKE IT A STEP FURTHER - IF I CARE ABOUT SOMEONE, IT MEANS SEVERAL THINGS. FIRST, MY EMOTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIRS (THEY ARE VERY SAD, I BECOME SAD, THEY ARE HAPPY, I BECOME HAPPY). SECOND, MY EMOTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIR WELL BEING (THEY GET INJURED, I BECOME SCARED/SAD). THIRD, MY ACTIONS ARE TIED TO THEIR EMOTIONS (I DO NOT WANT TO DO SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE THEM SAD). ALL THIS ADDS UP TO A TERRIFYINGLY CLOSE INTERDEPENDENCE ON ANOTHER PERSON. TO ME, ANYWAY.

2 TON HOSS

Oh...so you are 2 TON WUSS?? LOL. JK.
hell, you just described my relationship with my best friend. What you just described is unavoidable unless you do not love even your best friends or family...

 

[smallmovesal]

hiya boach from your #1 fan

 

[polarpixie]

knock

 

[smallmovesal]

yello?