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Here's my situation... I dated a boy back in my senior year of HS that was a bit of trouble. He was 2 years older than me abd had been in jail for four month when he was 17. We met when we were working in a deaprtment store and before we knew it we were dating and in love. He became another son to my mother and an older brother to my kid brother. Unfortunately, he wasn't a great boyfriend. He cheated on me 5 times with two different girls. And when I got to college I dumped him, but stayed friendly with him, as I try to do with all my exes. Its been two years and we have become very close again as friends. He has in the two years gotten a girl pregnant in Indiana and told me about a month ago about his coke use. Well, he called me late two nights ago telling me that he has been doing coke ever since before he met me, and sometimes while we were together. He wants to stop but will only do it on his own. He claims he can't go to Narco Anon because if probation finds out, he'll be thrown back into jail. I want to help him, but right now I am going through way to much to be strong for someone else!! I told him not to call me until he was clean or when he decided to get some help. An hour later he called again and said he would help himself and that he wished I would support him and his decision. I can't do that!! There are places where he can get help!! Am I being a terrible, selfish friend? I know that in times like these it means the world to have someone care, but I'm so afraid to trust him. Any input would be greatly appreciated!!
LiL
LiL
