He is not even a gay guy. Nor just in the gay community. He has an honest to God foot fetish and just loves to rub and squeeze and (if you let him) lick them for hours. He will tell you up front that there is to be no nudity of anykind. He is married and when he came over here, he actually called and left a voice message to his wife about where he was, location, etc.. just in case he encountered a bad person.
But he is a very good looking guy, and think about it... I am home, a good looking guy comes over that NO ONE in the social circle has seen before... stays a couple of hours and leaves. What goes through people's minds... IT'S A TRICK.