I wouldn't say that is molding...I would say that is simply asking your girlfriend to wear a skirt. There isn't anything wrong with that.
flexygrl: I don't understand your question. I went to Clemson University which is located in Clemson (a serious college town).
Effort yes, but years of molding? I do disagree with that. You don't get into a relationship to mold someone. You either accept/appreicate/love their differences or move on!
I went to college, and not all girls are there to party and screw. Don't get me wrong...I did my share of partying, but I was/am really into my major and pretty nerdy.
Now, a lot of my friends partied a lot too...but they were there to find their husband. They weren't there because they...
gwl9dta4:
I could possibly agree with your first paragraph if I knew that is the way BBF was. I won't flame you for the second one, but I think younger girls can bring in way more immaturities than BBF wants to deal with.
A person has to find happiness for his or her self. You can't depend on someone else to make you happy. If you are saying you would rather die than be alone you might need to get into some therapy.
Not all girls are like the ones you speak of. I promise.