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Anti-social behavior towards your boyfriend/girlfriend's friends

slick635235

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My girlfriend claims I am anti-social towards her friends and I keep telling her that it's not that I don't like them, it's that I can't totally be myself around them because of some of the habits they do that I don't like. For example, her stock-broker friends do a lot of coke and drugs which I am against. They are cool and funny guys, but in the aspect of them doing coke often, they lose respect from me. Basically, I talk to them, but once they start talking about drugs and shit to that nature, I distance myself. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
 
When you tell her all her friends, especially the males are losers and fuckin lame, it gives you totally the upper hand! puts you on a whole other echelon
 
Useless without pics of the girl, so that we may all be able to view them and take the matter under advisement , prior to giving our views of the subject>
 
I have very few friends left because most turned to drugs or became video game addicted alcholics. There's only one or two people I can hang out with without being intoxicated or in a place for the purpose of being intoxicated. I really don't care about moderation, but rarely are drugs and alcohol used in moderation.



:cow:
 
If your girl's social circle consists of stockbroker dudes who bang rails left and right and you are, well...you - yeah, they are all probably running on a train on her in the back room at Nobu right now.
 
slick635235 said:
My girlfriend claims I am anti-social towards her friends and I keep telling her that it's not that I don't like them, it's that I can't totally be myself around them because of some of the habits they do that I don't like. For example, her stock-broker friends do a lot of coke and drugs which I am against. They are cool and funny guys, but in the aspect of them doing coke often, they lose respect from me. Basically, I talk to them, but once they start talking about drugs and shit to that nature, I distance myself. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
No. It's not wrong to not be interested in particpating in certain discussions that make you uncomfortable.
 
KillahBee said:
If your girl's social circle consists of stockbroker dudes who bang rails left and right and you are, well...you - yeah, they are all probably running on a train on her in the back room at Nobu right now.
i agreed i called it first,

dude its true, theyv either all fucked her in the past, or still do, or shes just gotten really coked out and fucked,

either way the key point here, is that they all banged her
 
Yup.

She lets them all use her in ways she wouldn't let you touch her on your best day....

They give her some coke, and all of a sudden she's daddy's whore... anything goes...

You... you could take her on a trip to Tahiti... 5 start the whole way and you'd still be religated to a normal 'night at the jones' of some ho-hom vaginal pentration... AT BEST...
 
JH1 said:
Yup.

She lets them all use her in ways she wouldn't let you touch her on your best day....

They give her some coke, and all of a sudden she's daddy's whore... anything goes...

You... you could take her on a trip to Tahiti... 5 start the whole way and you'd still be religated to a normal 'night at the jones' of some ho-hom vaginal pentration... AT BEST...
it sucks cause ud think the better a boyufriend u are the better shed wanan sexually please u but its not the case, sluts
 
SublimeZM said:
it sucks cause ud think the better a boyufriend u are the better shed wanan sexually please u but its not the case, sluts


They're trying to tell you how they want to be treated. I think it's pretty clear.
 
its up to you to tend your relationship. the tactic of becoming distant with her accepted social circle is only going to cause social friction, undermine both of your comfort levels in social situations and inevitably lead to resentment from your girl.

a smart man would try his best to gel with her social group, raising his value in their eyes as well as those of his girl, while engineering his relationship/social life to minimise contact with that particular social group.

what youre doing is going to cause you problems.

repeat 1000 times: "i am a middle eastern diplomat. i am too smart to do such dumb shit. i will use my left hand to do *this* while my right hand does *that*."

also, if my girl had a bunch of stock broker buddies who liked coke and even admits *trying* coke with them, the deal is instantly broken.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
its up to you to tend your relationship. the tactic of becoming distant with her accepted social circle is only going to cause social friction, undermine both of your comfort levels in social situations and inevitably lead to resentment from your girl.

a smart man would try his best to gel with her social group, raising his value in their eyes as well as those of his girl, while engineering his relationship/social life to minimise contact with that particular social group.

what youre doing is going to cause you problems.

repeat 1000 times: "i am a middle eastern diplomat. i am too smart to do such dumb shit. i will use my left hand to do *this* while my right hand does *that*."

also, if my girl had a bunch of stock broker buddies who liked coke and even admits *trying* coke with them, the deal is instantly broken.


you're a fuckin genius and I'm coming to you for advice from now on.
 
slick635235 said:
My girlfriend claims I am anti-social towards her friends and I keep telling her that it's not that I don't like them, it's that I can't totally be myself around them because of some of the habits they do that I don't like. For example, her stock-broker friends do a lot of coke and drugs which I am against. They are cool and funny guys, but in the aspect of them doing coke often, they lose respect from me. Basically, I talk to them, but once they start talking about drugs and shit to that nature, I distance myself. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

I'm glad that my gf doesn't have many friends and that we're old and don't hang out with people, cause I'm pretty much anti-social myself.
 
biteme said:
I'm glad that my gf doesn't have many friends and that we're old and don't hang out with people, cause I'm pretty much anti-social myself.


I'm young but I do make my girl that way. I can tell sometimes she does'nt like it but I make up for it by going out every now and again...
 
this is the same girl you want to 'confront' because she has cellulite, yes?

let her go find someone better.

i mean, better suited for her. you know.
 
If she hangs out with a bunch of coke heads, chances are is or will be too. Most non-druggies don't hang out with a bunch of coke heads.

Just sayin.
 
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