I cheated on my wife last night, need advice...

There is this girl I met at the rock climbing gym a few months ago (we will call her “Jen”). Hot as all hell, and a really great attitude. We climb together often and really get along. There is definitely an attraction between us, but I’m married so it never goes beyond flirting. My wife works long hours and to be honest I don’t see much of her, hell we haven’t had sex in weeks now (she has a headache, too tired, etc). To the point, I don’t get a lot of sex anymore, and it bothers me.

Jen and I have gone out for something to eat a few times after climbing, but last night we had a few drinks too. Long story shortened, we ended up in the back of my Cherokee in the parking lot and had sex several times last night. She came on to me, and in that split second I weighed the pros and cons and decided to go for it. This post is simply a lie to see how many people actually read the whole thread or just skim it and post responses. The sex was fantastic, now I’m faced with the decision of whether or not to make this a habit. I have to admit, I want it again. It was such a rush to be with someone new and different, but more importantly it just felt nice to have someone show some interest in me sexually again.

So what does everyone think? Should I tell her that it will never happen again? Should I tell my wife what happened and why? Should I keep getting it on the side as long as I can? What would you do?

Too bad the post is a lie.. Id say bang her as often as possible if it really happened.

If your wife is finding excuses to not have szex with you .. go somewhere else... life is WAY too short to be missing out on great sex.

but like you said.. the post is a lie so the point is moot.

Liar

I'd hit it. like a "whackamole" machine.

I always said that the only reason to cheat is when they neglect you sexually.

And you put the fact that you lied at a pivotal point in the story, mask it better next time.

TC2 said:

I'd hit it. like a "whackamole" machine.

I always said that the only reason to cheat is when they neglect you sexually.

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Victim #1

I know this post is a lie and everything. But aren't wives asking to be cheated on if they don't put out for their husbands? I mean even the Bible tells wives not to withhold sex from their husbands.

Make it a habit!! LOL!!!

havoc said:

Victim #1

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shit.. I was half asleep.

curling said:

I know this post is a lie and everything. But aren't wives asking to be cheated on if they don't put out for their husbands? I mean even the Bible tells wives not to withhold sex from their husbands.

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no