How do you guys deal with SWV friends?

[HS Lifter]

you know...

The bro who you havent seen in weeks just because he got a g/f.

The bro who doesn't seem to have the sense of humor he used to.

When you finally get a chance to hangout with said bro, his g/f calls every hour.

ETC ETC

On one hand, you think "I will not tolerate a SWV friend, and promtly ditch him." Then you think that might be too harsh.

What do you guys think?

 

[theoak01]

I have a buddy who we see on weekends when his girlfriend goes away to school,but if she comes home for the weekend,christmas or the summer we dont hear from him at all and he doesnt answer his phone,then comes to hang out with us as soon as she leaves.

actually most of my friends are bitches like this when they get s/o's

I say fuck them

 

[GoldenDelicious]

laugh at him, usually

 

[HS Lifter]

I have a buddy who we see on weekends when his girlfriend goes away to school,but if she comes home for the weekend,christmas or the summer we dont hear from him at all and he doesnt answer his phone,then comes to hang out with us as soon as she leaves.

actually most of my friends are bitches like this when they get s/o's

I say fuck them

lol You got it right. The above dude actually still has friends??

I don't understand the whole "I have a g/f now, I must now ditch my friends who I have known for YEARS" mindset.

Wanna hear some funny shit? I didn't talk to a few friends for about six months due to the fact that we never hungout or talked, so I figured "whats the point"? And apparently they agreed that I ditched them simply because they got g/f's. Funny shit.

 

[theoak01]

lol they seem pretty high and mighty on themselves bro,fuck them.
and ya dude still has friends,he is a great guy when her nutty ass isnt around, and he trys to resist and hang with us when she first comes back,but because most of us are single she doesnt trust him out with us and he caves to her bullshit

 

[HS Lifter]

lol they seem pretty high and mighty on themselves bro,fuck them.
and ya dude still has friends,he is a great guy when her nutty ass isnt around, and he trys to resist and hang with us when she first comes back,but because most of us are single she doesnt trust him out with us and he caves to her bullshit

Haha... Your friends and my friends seem awefully alike.

 

[theoak01]

Im guessing you and your buddies are in the 20-23 age range? if so I think its pretty common,most of these guys meet a girl,and turn into SWV's will do anything for her like shes all that matters neglect guys who have been there for them time and time again and come crawling back when they get their heart broke.

then there are guys like you and me who have our fricken head on straight,but that seems pretty rare

 

[HS Lifter]

Im guessing you and your buddies are in the 20-23 age range? if so I think its pretty common,most of these guys meet a girl,and turn into SWV's will do anything for her like shes all that matters neglect guys who have been there for them time and time again and come crawling back when they get their heart broke.

then there are guys like you and me who have our fricken head on straight,but that seems pretty rare

Agreed. You got it right, same age group.


"and come crawling back when they get their heart broke."

Almost makes you want to turn your back when that happens....

 

[theoak01]

almost but then your no better then they are

 

[HS Lifter]

almost but then your no better then they are

Not really. Just means you have one less SWV friend. lol