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 I NEED A WOMEN'S ADVICE FAST!!!!!!!
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 51 |
I have been dating this girl for 4 months. when we first started dating it was during football season, so I was unable to see a lot of her. She would call me a lot and at the time it seemed like she could not get enough of me. Because I did like her and like being around her I took full advantage of her agressiveness and went out of my way to see her more, like I thought she wanted, but suprisingly the exact opposite happened. I began to be the one chasing her and her intrest began to die and she gained the momentum in the relationship. We are still dating and I don't want to loose this one. To be honest I am just one of those guys that really enjoys trying to satisfy a woman, I now realize that I tried to hard, to fast. How can I again make her see me as a challange, and have her chasing me, instesd of me chasing her?    | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 51 |
Come on can't anyone give me some advice? | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 2431 |
Hi dude....ummmm, back off and get a life (I'm not flaming you, just being blunt). There is nothing worse than a "needy guy"...except maybe a "needy chick". Anything else you want to know? ------------------  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 245 |
Maybe post on chat..you'll get more response | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 51 |
thanks for info Bikinimom. I have decided that I still need to be nice when I see her, but for the next week or two I am not going to go out of my way see or talk to her and I am going to try to apear to busy to associate with her outside of school and make her think that I don't care that I am seeing less of her(this might make her feel that I am loosing intrest). from what I have gathered from the boards, this should drive her crazy and get her seriously worried about loosing me, if she likes me. If this starts to work and in two weeks she is calling me more than I am calling her, how will I know when to heat things back up, let my guard down and be myself again? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1226 |
Too much game playing...time to back out and let what happens happen. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 23 |
Games suck , b-mom wow you are blunt , cool  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 71 |
Don't play games, this is childish and willnot lead to a healthy relationship. Just be honest with her. Ask her what's going on, and elaborate a little as to How you are feeling. She may be going through a particular situation and you are just reading it wrong. If she says nothing is going on, or won't address the issue then just back off, stop calling her, seeing her. No need to mean or nasty. If she is interested she will call to find out what happened and again tell her the truth. If she doesn't call you then you are better off, she was just not worth the effort. We are usually our worst enemies. We see the signs and refuse to recognize them or just simply ignore them because we want, what we want. Be careful what you wish for you just might get it. Best of luck to you. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 205 |
don't ask why but girls love guys who are assholes. when a guy gets all nice the fun is kinda gone, unless you are in love. for example, my boyfriend use to be such a jerk. he would always tell me he only wanted to only be my friend, said he just wasen't sure about it, never be home when he said to come over, or he would be home just sleeping while i was knocking, etc... finally i decided to tell him to fuck off and he suddenly changed. looking back on it i really loved the asshole, but now that our relationship is at another level, i would rather have the real sweet, kind man he is. my advice...don't chase her. if it is meant to be then it will be. if she wants to go out then go out, but don't act like she is the only one. go out and have fun. you aren't married! i am no professional so don't rely on my suggestion, but make the most out of life and make yourself happy. maybe all it would take is a talk with her so you know what she wants and the game playing can be over. good luck dirtyratt p.s-bikinimom....do you think being that blunt is really necessary. this guy is looking for advice, not to be called pathetic or whatever it was you decided to refer to him as. not all people can be as wonderful as you! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 120 |
Relax Take your time, let things happen. Things will fall into place and you can not force them any other way so midas well not stress about it. Women do not like to be smothered or a man that is not doing his own thing. Trying to hard and pushing things will 9 times out of 10 push her away. Sit back, relax and see what happens |
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