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Puc

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posted November 21, 2000 02:02 PM

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Most of you know I had a tummy tuck done recently.

Well, it is two weeks (to the minute, actually) since I had it and I am officially loosing my mind.

I can't lift (my salvation)
I can't dance (my social life)
I can't screw (which would be okay, except I usually involve myself in "open" relationships. This is easy when you have self-confidence, but I have none because I am so impared)

When I bend over my abdomen fills with air and I look fatter than ever before because my navel isn't closed yet. I am fucking leacking puss out of that same navel. My doctor sees me for 5 minutes a week and says nothing but "oh, thats normal." I swear if I came in with gang green he would tell me it was part of the normal recovery process.

My best friends are are so knee deep in there signifigant others right now that I HAVE NO ONE TO TALK TO. I Hate my parents and siblings. some of the fluid moved down to my dick so it looks like I have a fucking tumor.

And, the worst part is, I can't even tell the results of the surgery yet. still have the stiches in, still look like frankenstrin. All fucking pain, no fucking gain.

I hate my fucking life.

I am starting a new job on monday (i am a consultant, so this is normal).

I am getting a big ass from not exercising.

shoot me in the fucking head.

Puc

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WODIN

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posted November 21, 2000 02:06 PM

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Puc, chill out you got four more weeks of healing to do! Minimum! This will pass dude.

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Captain_insano

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posted November 21, 2000 02:10 PM

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Why did you need a tummy tuck? Were you obese once?

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MP5

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posted November 21, 2000 02:10 PM

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You are a guy and you call it a "tummy tuck?" If I ever said I had a tummy my friends would stomp my ass. Come up with something a bit more creative. Take it easy, it was surgery for christ's sake, let it heal.


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Thick dawg

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posted November 21, 2000 02:11 PM

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Yeah it's still early, A guy at my gym had that done and we did'nt see him for a month. When he came back it took some time to get his strength back. HI sabs finally came in after about 2 months after all the swelling and scarring had subsided.


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madbomber31

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posted November 21, 2000 02:17 PM

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WELL GEE, TWO MONTHS??? I THINK YOU COULD SEE ABS NO WITHOUT A TUCK AFTER TWO MONTHS..


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Puc

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posted November 21, 2000 02:43 PM

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okayokay

"Abdomnoplasty"

and, madbomber, I could see my abs before -- under a big saggy hanging mass of skin.

I am fucking impatient.

Puc


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madbomber31

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posted November 21, 2000 02:47 PM

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AH, SO YOU HAD LOST A TON OF WEIGHT THEN? MY BUDDY WAS 340 AND LOST 120LBS, HE WAS GOING TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT BUT GUESS WHAT? HIS FAT ASS GAINED IT ALL BACK AND THEN SOME... CUZ HE WENT BACK TO SCHOOL AND DRANK LIKE A FAT FUCKING FISH!!!


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Puc

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posted November 21, 2000 02:56 PM

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5'8 250(40%BF) down to 165 before I started BBing.

I went up to 180-185 (mostly muscle gain) in the past year since I found this sight (which I found when at my lowest).

So, I figured, why wait... Do it now...

Now I hate my life. I hope it is all worth it in the end...

Puc


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d1734

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posted November 21, 2000 03:12 PM

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you think 2 weeks is bad? try several years and see how you feel. that included a period of time when my back was so bad i could not even walk for over a week. throw in a blown out arm, chronic bad knee, rotator cuff problems, severe acne from hell (words won't do it justice), and not being in school. oh well...thank god for Ultima Online for helping me keep my sanity.


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Puc

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posted November 21, 2000 03:19 PM

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I began getting treated for an anxiety disorder recently (the severity of which I blame on ephedrine).

So, for the first time in a year, I crave social contact, and I am limited. That is the most frustrating part for me, I think.

still, though, this thread is placating me.

d1734 - I now understand a little bit more why you despise depression so...

Puc

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d1734

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posted November 21, 2000 03:23 PM

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yea that's why. there's more but i don't like to complain for the most part. things are beginning to go my way and i am just thankful to have the oppurtunity to succeed in life and to live in this country.

and since you didn't snap at me (which alot of people do when you try to make light of their problems) i honestly hope you can start feeling better and lifting again. not being able to lift truly fucks your mind up i can understand where you are coming from. good luck man.


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JayeLynn

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posted November 21, 2000 04:23 PM

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Hey Puc, drop BikiniMom a line. She had that one done I'm sure and can give you some insights into the recovery process. She might even be able to lift your spirits some. Hang in there. I had lipo on my hips and I swear it took a year for everything to come together (well maybe not quite that long, but it sure felt that way). What you did is more extreme than what I did and will require more healing time. Freaking out wont do you any favors.

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Puc

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posted November 21, 2000 05:34 PM

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Already there Jay... bmom and i have emailed.

I also actually (crazy luck) met a girl at a club a month ago, and we have been emailing since. Turns out, she had a tummy tuck and a boob job at the same time just a few months ago.

Puc


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Si|vio

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posted November 21, 2000 10:29 PM

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man, you're firends are too caught up with their girlfriends to see their pal needs some fucking support, that's low.

bros before hoes right?

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