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 what do you guys do to keep from shooting your wad too soon?
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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My girl says 5-10 minutes is not long enough. Even after a bunch of foreplay. I told her next time she can give me a hand job to release some of the pressure, come back an hour later, pop a viagra and go to town. How's that for stategy? Anyone have any better suggestions?     | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2360 |
Think of Heather Darling. ------------------ "I'm reaching a height which you said cannot be, I'm bringing the light which you said you can't see" | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 381 |
WELL I MUST BE BLESSED OR SOMETHING BC I NORMALLY NEVER GO LESS THAN ABOUT 45 MINUTES OR SO. IM NOT SURE EXACTLY WHAT IT IS THAT GIVES ME THE ABILITY TO GO THAT LONG AND NOT SHOOT. I TRY TO CHANGE SPEEDS, POSITIONS EVERY 15-20 MINUTES THAT WAY I HAVE A CHANCE TO SLOW DOWN OR TAKE A BREAK. TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT NOT SHOOTING. THE MORE YOU THINK ABOUT IT THE QUICKER IT HAPPENS. I TRY TO JUST ENJOY WHATS GOIN ON...ZEUS13 | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1203 |
Find a girl who appreciates the effort put into a 30 second nut. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 840 |
believe it or not, I can shoot at will, whether it is 2 minutes or two hours into the act, it makes no difference to me, you just tighten the muscle between your scrotum and 0-ring and the endorphins flood you and SPLURT!!! You could try a cock ring I guess. About ten dollars, I don't know if it would help. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 891 |
not sure I can give ya an answere here bud. I just do, when I feel it cum'n I just slow down a bit and take it easy. I kinda like Jae there. If my girl is in the mood for a quickie then I can go quickly. but I can also hold back for a good long while. the thing is if I hold back 2 to 3 orgasms then I get real sensative I may need to take about a 5 min break and then Im ready to go again. other times it gets harder for me to cum if I hold back that many. practice I guess, when ya feel it cum'n on, just slow down, take it easy, pull out if ya have to. eventually youll get to where you can control it. laters. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 80 |
It's always like this, you feel like your gonna blow, and hold it back then I seem to go forever. I really have to concentrate hard to cum. Thats when I know Im with the wrong girl. Sex sometimes is a pain in the ass. She is wondering why Im not coming, and I am tired of fucking by that point. Geez, I guess there is no happy meduim. Nick | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1071 |
When you masterbate stop short when you almost orgasm. Then build it up again then stop. Do this for 15-30 minutes a day (time permitting) and it will give you better control of your orgasm. This technique has been proven in study after study and is recommended by doctors. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 840 |
Don't Practice Mr. T's advice at work you hear? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1467 |
Damn jae wish you had posted that EARLIER!! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 262 |
Had that problem when I was younger. Learnt 'control' later. Now I'm the same, depends on what my girl is in the mood for. I can be quick or make it last. Then again I did get as much practice as possible in the intervening years. Gotta keep in training even when you've mastered it! | ||
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Novice 
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What can also work if you are super sensitive like myself, (I can blast 3 or 4 times a session), is to put on a condom. They block the sensation just enough that you can go longer. Then when you are ready to let loose, take it off and go to town! Works great for me. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 662 |
try to relax your breathing during sex, and try a bit of meditation, seems to work for me | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 305 |
"WELL I MUST BE BLESSED OR SOMETHING BC I NORMALLY NEVER GO LESS THAN ABOUT 45 MINUTES OR SO. IM NOT SURE EXACTLY WHAT IT IS THAT GIVES ME THE ABILITY TO GO THAT LONG AND NOT SHOOT. I TRY TO CHANGE SPEEDS, POSITIONS EVERY 15-20 MINUTES THAT WAY I HAVE A CHANCE TO SLOW DOWN OR TAKE A BREAK. TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT NOT SHOOTING. THE MORE YOU THINK ABOUT IT THE QUICKER IT HAPPENS. I TRY TO JUST ENJOY WHATS GOIN ON...ZEUS13" this is the way to do it. If you are going to cum, and can't control it. get on top, or in a position of power. pump slower, pull out and rub your cock on her clit, etc. etc. just start working the foreplay. then pump away. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 161 |
When I feel like I'm going to climax too soon I pull out and change up positions. Also squeezing the base of the penis fairly hard helps quiet things down a little. Oh yeah and clenching the muscle that you use during urination helps some also. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 189 |
I think of a trunk full of dead bunny rabits with there heads cut off. It works everytime. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 154 |
Anyone ever try that desensitizing gel?? I've never tried it, but was curious if it worked. Mr.T. is right though..... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 174 |
have her start off on top. spread your legs while your pumping. do not tense your legs or pelvic region. just a few ideas to help a brother out!! ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1115 |
Thanks guys. Sometimes i can go for awhile and sometimes I don't practice technique. My girl will thank you too  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 633 |
put it in her butt. wait, that makes me cum too fast. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 176 |
spank the monkey twice and pop some aspirin to thin out your blood, and then wear a condom. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2079 |
quote: That's like fucking torturing yourself. | ||
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Novice
Posts: 10 |
Maybe this isn't my place to answer. BUT there is something you can get called "pleasure balm" by KUMA SUTRA. It numbs ya', only put it on the tip, and don't use too much, or you may get stuck like that forever. Its also good for the girl. In canada its about $30 for a little tub of it. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1295 |
A trunk full of dead rabbits http://www.elitefitness.com/ubb/Archives/Forum10/06-2000/000764.html | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 981 |
quote: I know why you're doing it, but that just strikes me as funny. Fucking with a condom on the whole time and then taking it off to bust a nut....kinda backwards eh? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 126 |
This is kina weird but I flex my chest or arms or whatever during sex, the chicks don't really know what your up to, they like the muscle anyway. It takes your mind off what you are up to if things get too hot, it's also a damn good workout in itself. | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 11 |
start to think about something or someone repulsive. On sometimes sports. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1180 |
Hey, I was a virgin on my wedding night, but I've been told by one female friend in particular....they dated a kid who would think about repulsive things (as a coupla brothas mentioned before me) like starving Ethiopian babies w/flies buzzing around their heads and such and this would keep him from coming too soon (ie - b4 she got off). At first, she was taken back a bit by this revelation....I mean, who wants to hear that their bf is thinking about nasty shit while in the throws of passion. However, after considering the facts more carefully, she was quite flattered to realize that he was that turned on by her. As for my hubby, I have to say that I don't have a singular complaint in this department....I like to think of sex as cardio so anything less than 20/30 minutes (and NO, this DOES NOT include foreplay) is just not enough....unless, of course, I just want to fuck his brains out sos I can get off, then that's a different story. hehe And if on the rare occasion that we just click WAY TO WELL and he just can't hold out...it's all good, 'cause then I just hurry up and get where I'm going a little sooner. Know what I mean? .....that's my story and I'm stickin' to it. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 979 |
"I just think about baseball" --naked gun ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 17 |
I just start going thru the jets starting line up.. player by palyer.. I guess anything that takes your mind off of shooting will work. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 34 |
I HAVE THE SURE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION AND MAKE SURE YOU READ THIS.
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 118 |
Here's a website full of things you can take a look at. Think upon these things and you'll not cum, http://www.blackplague.org/snuff/ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 369 |
I started taking effexor time released for ADD. and now I can't come my new girlfreind just loves me.I fuck her all night and easily into the morning up until I have to go to work. she does my laundry and my dishes cleans my house.I think i'll ask her to start washing my car also. The funny thing is I have only known her 10 days. I met her in the gym she is beautiful and the perfect body. I can't beleive this shit give a gal 6 orgasisms everytime you have sex and you OWN her. fuck the flowers and candy I now know what women really want | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 59 |
Start some deep breathing it works well. Also think of some old women then if that does not work think of some old man bending over that will do it! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 118 |
Margaret Thatcher on a cold day, Margaret Thatcher on a cold day! - Austin Powers ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1115 |
Ooops, hey everybody, my girl just e-mailed me and said she read my post (I told her about this discussion board a while back, usually does not surf this area) whew! she's not pissed for taking our business to the streets. We kinda laughed about it on the phone last night. Does'nt a lot of it have to do with getting used to a person? We both just met like three weeks ago. Anyway, thanks people. Thank b-mom, for the female point of veiw. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 221 |
If you take viagra you should be able to stay hard even after you cum. If you loose interest, just let her get on top. Also there is a dermatoligical cream (prescription needed) called "Emla" that deadens/desensitized skin bigtime. Doesnt hurt or anything you just go numb for a while where you rub it on---but of course you'd have to wash all of it off thouroughly before putting it in or it will numb her twat & maybe cause an infection to boot. |
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posted November 06, 2000 07:36 AM
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