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 E M T needs some woman advice...
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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I'll try to keep this a short story. I've been interested in this girl in one of my classes all semester. As far as I'm concerned she's perfect. We have the same major, she's smart, gorgeous, funny, and she's even a cheerleader at my unviversity. The only problem is she has a boyfriend who's a huge offensive lineman that probably outweighs me by alomost 100lbs. She's been with him for a month now and she says how he treats her like shit. Anyway, she came into my work last friday with a friend and asked me to hang out with them that night. Her friend pulled me aside and said she had to meet the guy her friend had been talking about so much (that's me). So, I went out with them that night and she ended up making a move on me, and we made out until 5am. Then we went out again on saturday, and she jumped my bones again and we did everything but sleep together. I was shocked because I thought she was such a good girl and she even told me I was the second guy she's ever gone down on. The problem is I got all moushy that night and I told her how I've had a crush on her all semester and that I really liked her. I think I might have scared her off. Later I asked her what she was going to do about her boyfriend, and her exact words were, "I don't know." Well, this week in class we acted as if nothing happened. We still talked and flirted around the same as usual. Then on Thursday I put a cute note on her car(nothing moushy) after class, and when I saw her driving home she had the biggest smile on her face. My question is, what should I do to get her away from her fat-ass boyfriend? Should I keep letting her know how much I like her? Get tough, and tell her to dump the fat-ass? Or, should I play it off that I don't care and let her know about the other girls I'm seeing right now? I know that last option usally always works, but this girl has been dicked over by a lot of guys, and I don't want her to think I would be the type to cheat on her. Thanks bros, I think my first cycle caused me less confusion than this girl has. LATER     | ||
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Moderator 
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EMT, This seems simple, but keep doing what you're doing. Don't put pressure on her - girls can't handle the thought of actually having to make a decision. That's why they have friends. See what happens. Let it evolve. If after a few weeks, she won't dump the shit-ass, let her go. You're in school - there are plenty more. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 331 |
I second the skywalker. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1147 |
If ya want her get in w/ her friends. All girls' friends make the decisions of who each other go out with. Win their approval and you're golden. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 185 |
Yeah dude definately keep it mellow.....be mysterious....act like your not that interested anymore.....she'll be like "WTF???" and come to you.... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 145 |
I'm telling you dude, keep doing what you're doing, but keep cool about it. Don't write her page long love letters about how her eyes captivate you and shit like that... every single failure I've had with girls (i.e. every single attempt I've had at a girl) was because I let them know that I liked them. Women make no sense like that... trust me. Such traumatic experiences have caused me to refuse to tell a girl that I like her until she's already my girlfriend. -Warik | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Elite Bodybuilder
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I think we're all in agreement on this one... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 326 |
Thanks for the advice, bros. I've got one more question though. You think I should keep messing around with her, or tell her I don't feel right doing it since she's got a boyfriend? THANKS, later. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 312 |
BRO, I WOULDNT TELL HER TO LOSE HER BF. SHE KNOWS THAT SHE ISNT BEING TREATED RIGHT AND THAT HER CURRENT BF ISNT RIGHT FOR HER. SHE MAY JUST BE SCARED TO LEAVE HIM OR SCARED WHAT HE MIGHT DO OR SAY. JUST KEEP BEING YOURSELF AND DONT MAKE HER DECIDE ON ANYTHING UNTIL SHE LETS YOU KNOW SHE IS READY TO....GOOD LUCK...ZEUS | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 497 |
Warik makes a good point here, just stay cool and don't get into that "you're the girl of my dreams" bullshit......I guarantee you it's all downhill after that bro. delts ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1461 |
You little piece of crap. Stay off my girl and I'm not over weight, I'm just big boned in more ways than one. Oh wait a second that was eight years ago! Guess it can not be my girl friend. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 485 |
As a female, I think you are doing the right thing. Just go kind of slow, don't show her too much attention, let her kind of wonder if you are interested! Let her make some of the moves. It makes a girl feel good to feel like she is in control!! HAHA Don't be around all the time!! Just like I said before let her wonder where you are. I think if she has it too easy with you she will loose interest! I wouldn't worry about her boyfriend! I think she likes you or she wouldn't be talking to you!! Good Luck!! Just have fun!! |
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