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Hey buddy. That was NOT MY BOYFRIEND!!!!!!! ok, let me explain. A few
days ago my co-worker was replying back an e- mail to this girl and I was
joking arround and wrote this girl and told her I was his girlfriend and to
stay the fuck away from him. We were joking so when I wrote you he did the
same thing and I told him you would be pissed and that you were a muscle
builder and really strong so that's why he tried to act like he was the
shit. Actually he's about 5 foot 6 inches and really overwieght. I apologize
for anything he said. It was a joke and no, I do NOT have a boyfriend.
Please don't think that he was serious ok!!! I apologize!!! forgive me? well
write back as soon as you get this e-mail. "
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Slopain

Be sincere, be yourself, but just keep this slant with you sometimes when your deciding how to act on something. I don't think any of the girls I have been with would say I play 'games' but we all act in ways to get what we want. If I had a choice between getting what I want using my brain.. or missing out b/c I refuse to play the roles..Ill choose the first.

As you move on in the relationship with her, you become even more sincere and genuine (dropping the facade). This is great, you both are "GROWING" in a relationship sense, and that will make you both feel good and happy about the relationship and where its going.

call it sandbagging.

Slopain

She said:

quote:

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Hey buddy. That was NOT MY BOYFRIEND!!!!!!! ok, let me explain. A few
days ago my co-worker was replying back an e- mail to this girl and I was
joking arround and wrote this girl and told her I was his girlfriend and to
stay the fuck away from him. We were joking so when I wrote you he did the
same thing and I told him you would be pissed and that you were a muscle
builder and really strong so that's why he tried to act like he was the
shit. Actually he's about 5 foot 6 inches and really overwieght. I apologize
for anything he said. It was a joke and no, I do NOT have a boyfriend.
Please don't think that he was serious ok!!! I apologize!!! forgive me? well
write back as soon as you get this e-mail. "

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Id wait a couple days or so (if she asks just say you have been very busy) if she say doing what you don't give her a straight answer, deflect with a joke.

You:
Don't worry about it, not a big deal. You were pretending to be his girlfriend, and now he was playing like he was your boyfriend, wierd... but at least you all get along well! I forgive you but theres no reason to be sorry right? You don't have a boyfriend you say, a flirtatious buddy but no boyfriend right? hehe its all good - You don't need to apologize for him. I gotta run now, get back at me whenever you can (or when your boy isn't looking! j/k)

Frackal
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Sharps

I know you'll do the right thing her.

Now go make us proud.