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 Girlfriend unsure about "us". Steroids the cause
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 66 |
We had a agreement before I started juicin. She said it was ok that I was going to do it. However, after she gave me injection #1, she didnt talk to me for 3 days (until today). She finally called. ( i didnt know what the hell was going on cause we always talk everyday). She came over tonight and was crying. We talked for a few hours. I think she wants to put things on hold for a while, as other problems in her life are coming into play (friends, etc.) However, we both LOVE each other, and I dont think deep down this is what she wants. Can anyone give me a little advice? It would be much appriciated. Thank You     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 485 |
sounds like steroids are not the cause bro | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 1593 |
NutriMuscle, Don't you have more respect for OUR time here than to post such crap? Dump her, and stop being such a jellyfish about it. [This message has been edited by MattTheSkywalker (edited October 08, 2000).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 54 |
don't dunmp the gear thats all. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 264 |
Suck it up and do your injections yourself. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 160 |
Bumping for Matt... Women come and go, but you gotta live with YOURSELF every f--king day dude! It wasn't the AS. Get over it! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
No, the AS is the main reason. I know that for a fact. You'll have to believe me. If I would have given myself the first inj, everything would be ok. I gave myself the second one. It was easy. I should have never got her involved in this. Yes, women come and go. Ive had many of them. However, until you find true love, losing a girl will NEVER hurt you as bad. I dumped girls at the drop of a hat cause i didnt care. Now, I found the girl I want to be with forever and its all falling apart. I just dont know what to do. =( | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 72 |
i know what ur talkin about bro...ive dumped girls before and could care less but when u find one u care about its diff..tjhats whats happeing wiht me now...its not the AS..its just freinds and school stuff...butu just have to relax instead of panicing cuz that will make it worse...just relax and everything will beok | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Thanks for the encouragement. I feel better just talking about this. Im glad you understand how Im feeling right now. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 371 |
We have a saying around here;... "throw her in the gutter and go get another." ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Its weird cause at the same time if she told me to stop using the AS or lose me...I would pick the AS. This is a big investment and im not going to mess it up. Im sure a lot of you brothers know how I feel in that sense too. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 393 |
My wife is giving me shit about juicin' I just tell her not to worry and do my best for her not to see what I'm up to (injections). If she does then oh well, I really don't give a fuck. Why don't you just inject yourself. It's not hard at all. Might save you some grief.. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
I like the gutter thing  I think women should always be a side show and not the main attraction. Keep your mind on your goals and friendships and use women to fill your spare time and thoughts. If you don't devote your life to them then its no big thing when there gone and you can just "get another". Just my .02 on the issue at this time. -Gord | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Gord. This is how I think about it... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
A few things I forgot to mention. She said, "I dont understand why you cant do this naturally". Well, ive had that discussion with her many times. I think she is freaking out cause im her Boyfried and she shot me up. She shoots her roomate up all the time. She said it was different when she did it to me. She didnt like it at all. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
I think its just chemicals in the brain man. I remember thinking I wanted to marry this girl I had been seing for a long time. One day I found out she might be pregnant and all the sudden I was in defense mode. I was ready to move to mexico for the next ten years and come back with another name and start a new life! Things seem great until you realize that "this is it, I'll be stuck with her indefinitly"I am happy with myself and very secure. I don't think I have to be attached to soemone to be happy but I think a lot of guys are insecure and think they do have to have someone and be attached. It gives them that security that the don't already have in life. Everyone has the same needs but different people fullfill those needs in different ways. just a couple more cents on the subject -Gord | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Yes, I can see your point Thanks for the input. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 214 |
I don't know if this will help but look up my post on "Please help me convince my G/F that steroids are a good thing" Lots of replies, and if she has concerns, have her email my GF. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 339 |
BRO, NEVER LET EM SEE YOU INJECT!! THEY SEE IT DIFFERENLTY THEN, IT TRAUMATIZES THEM. THAT IS THE PROB. MOST ARE SUPERFICIAL ANYWAY. GET A NEW ONE... AND DON'T LET HER SEE IT THIS TIME. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Pauly, What ever happened with your situation anyway? Does she understand? | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 883 |
If you care about a woman's point of view, this is my .02: Adressing her question, "Can't you do this naturally?" Please define THIS. I'm glad to see that you are not 17. But what are your goals? and how educated is your girl about steroids? I do not condone nor condemn their use by educated adults. I believe the key is EDUCATION. If you truly care for this woman (which from your thread it seems you do) then you MUST talk this out. NEVER, EVER hide something as important as use from someone who you think might someday end up your partner in life. If you are using, then obviously the weights are a big part of your life. If you would choose to simply leave out such a "miniscule detail" then what other details would you leave out? How much of your relationship would be based on lies of omission?.....see where I am headed w/this? If she simply can not understand or tolerate your goals, then you, my brotha, must make a decision. And to you, Brotha Gord, do you TRULY feel that women should be a side show, something to fill a man's free time? WTF?!.....I'm going to ask you to explain yourself before I go off. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
it wouldn't bother me to see Monster inject.....needles or blood don't bother me at all | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 371 |
Mabye you can help out then... I just cant inject those rear delts alone... You arent sticking anything in my glutes though, so forget it. Im afraid you might get some ideas about revenge for what I stick in your glutes... if you folow me...  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
I will inject wherever you tell me too.....I got no probs with that.... I won't look for revenge by sticking anything in your glutes...that is, as long as you continue to stick "it" in my glutes when need be.......if you don't oblige, I will have to take action upon your glites!! Won't be pretty.....it'd be cute, but, not pretty ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
BikiniMom. She has done a little research on anabolics. I have done a lot of research. I believe am I well educated. I would never dive into anything without researching it first, and talking to a lot of people. She doesnt have that extensive of knowledge of it; however, i think she understands its relatively safe if used responsibly. My choice is already made, bikinimom, i dont want to lose her. She told me she was ok with this, but after she injected me she didnt talk to me for a few days. She didnt know what to say, or how to bring this up. I keep telling her I would stand by her in any decision she made, in fact, i would help her along the way. Wednesday is D-Day. She is taking me out to eat, and supposedly telling me what her decision is. She just needs to think for a few days. I understand that! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
Sorry guys, but I cant agree with the fact that many of you like to shit on women. Im feeling how they feel when you do this to them. Its not fun... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
Bikinimom, Yes, I do believe a man shouldn't let a woman become the main focus in life. A woman shouldn't let a man become the main focus in her life either. If you were married or both planning on spending the rest of your lives together then I can see how it might be different. I'm not saying you should go sleep around either. I just mean that unless you have both decided to spend the rest of your lives together it should be a side show. This will only make the realtionship and both partners minds healthier. -Gord | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 160 |
This is starting to grow some hair on it... I'm starting to smell a rat. Too complex of a thread. Why hasn't Matt been back??!! Damn... | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 883 |
You intrigue me, Brotha Gord. And seeing as how you bore so easily, I won't press you for any further explanation. Would you indulge me? How old are you? ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 883 |
....and good luck to you Brotha NMuscle. Whatever you decide, I'm sure it will all work out in the end. You seem like a pretty decent bro. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
your answer is posted as a new topic Bikinimom. -Gord | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 133 |
doesnt really seem like juice is the problem. it actually sounds like uice is a scapegoat for something else. god luck bro. |
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