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 Why can't you be happy with your body the way it is?
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| Author | Topic: Why can't you be happy with your body the way it is? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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This is what I've heard from all the women I've been with since I got divorced. Including my current lady. "You look so damn good, why do you want to be bigger?" I guess the truth is that we BB's really are an elite group in the fact that we are always striving to improve physically. Actually, other than being a good father to my children, weight training and the safe and effective use of AS is all I really care about anymore. I can't imagine what I'd be doing if I couldn't work out, my desire to live would be minimal. Just a thought for you bros to ponder. delts ------------------     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 179 |
Yes it is a very good and effective outlet, i still rank sex higher then it though! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Good point Layhoe......and in essence, the training and AS makes the sex even better don't you agree? LOL delts ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 292 |
I have a disorder in that way I believe. I'm not kidding when I say that I've only NOT worn a jacket to school 3 times this year. And I'm I the only one who does pushups in the bathroom in between classes? MUST GET BIGGER MUST GET BIGGER MUST GET BIGGER MUST GET BIGGER MUST GET BIGGER | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 152 |
Are you running for president?
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Yes, you've got the disease even at your youthful age......but it's wonderful isn't it? Even at forty, I don't see myself "getting old" any time soon. delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
No, he couldn't be running for president.....there wasn't any "mudslinging" here! LOL Can't be president that way. delts ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 74 |
BIG O REXIA BABY!!!!!!!!there is always room for improvement!! whenever i look in the mirror and am never happy and i never will..i mean i am coming along very nicely but i am so critical of myself..some girl in my grade was like your size is perfect now..i am like what?!?!?! i am 140..wait till im 215!!! peace guys ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Well, I'm at 200lbs w/12%bf and I'm happy to some degree with the growth from my first cycle.......but ohhhhhh......235 w/9%, I hope to get there before I die! delts ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 1513 |
Hate to be the "other guy" but I don't want to get any bigger. I'm all about maintenance now. (6-1, 263lbs.) My body is fucking sick of carrying this weight. I'm 10.6% bodyfat, which is low, so it's not like I'm carrying shit weight. I want to get down to about 250. Bigger? Maybe later. Matt | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Impressive stats Matt! I doubt I will ever approach that size, but I'll always keep tryin'. delts | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 292 |
Damn. You're a pretty big mofo matt. What does your bulking diet look like? | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1513 |
Frack, My diet is pretty much a food invasion. I was eating like 6,000 cals a day for a while, but I got absolutely sick of food, and had to back it down a little. I pretty much get all the protein I need (300-350g daily) from tuna, steaks, burgers, chicken, a shake here and there,...as you can see I don't really worry too much about carbs and if there's some fat in ther eI don't woprry too much. My body responds really well to cardio to stay lean. If you want more info you can email me, but basically my diet rule is to make sure I eat enough of what I need, and if I get some extra shit in there it's Ok - I'll burn it off. I don't go nuts with weighing all my food and counting grams. Matt | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Counting calories is a hassle for sure, I stick with the "fist-size" portions and it seems to work for me. But Frackal is correct, Matt you are huge bro! delts ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1513 |
Delts, In fewer words: Eat until you shit. Then eat more. Squat until you temporarily get disoriented. Deadlift until you are dissociated from reality due to insufficient blood to the brain. Use AS with common sense and reasonable doses to make and keep gains. Matt | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Sound advice Matt, growing is not easy.....there is alot of discomfort associated with success in this game. Thanks for the response brother. delts ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 159 |
my signature says it all ------------------  | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Bump! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 266 |
...because I am FAT. Well, I am not where I want to be anyway. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
That's the beauty of this pastime Sight 1......you have the ability to change that if you choose to do so brother! All of the resources you need are present on this board. Go for it! delts ------------------ | ||
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Guru
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you know what they say.. Size DOES matter ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 289 |
I am so glad to see that not only women are unsatisfied with there bodies. As a child I was very fat, and got teased alot. When I grew up and learned how to change my body through working out and eating right, I saw the changes and I was hooked. The longer I do this, the more changes I see, that makes me want to continue. I WILL NEVER QUIT. I always see things that can be improved!!! Oh yes it does make Sex more enjoyable! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 464 |
Delts. I love working out, Period! The weights, the smell of the gym, plus in my life time the addition of hotties walking around in hoochie pants! (jk). Seriously if it were not for this outlet, I would be a crack whore like shagwell... sad, but true. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Well, I have to say I'm pretty satisfied w/ the way I look. I just came out of a fitness competition about two weeks ago. I lost 24 lbs. and got down to 8% bodyfat. I've put about 10 lbs. back on and want to stay where I'm at now. I don't think we could ever be 100% satisfied w/ our bodies. If we were, we wouldn't need gyms and fitness centers. Sometimes I think the media can give a very false sense of what "being happy with your body" can really mean. i.e. Ally McBeal is not attractive to me as she looks sickly and frail. On the other hand, Monica Brant and Kelly Ryan look amazing to me as they look very athletic and fit, yet still they maintain their feminine qualities. Just my opinion. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 164 |
I agree with you Fitness1, nobody is a 100% satisfied with his/her body. One day I realized that I was always looking the top chicks as I call (lean, cute, etc..) and I looked myself in the mirror and was like "Dawn ! I have to do something with my body ! So I began training 5 years ago and still until I become 225 pounds at 7-9% fat. I always drop a smile when I hear male teens who drools in front of nice women. I'd like to tell them : "Hey boy ! If you want her, you better workout ! People like us who train hard don't want to be with some lazy potatoes... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
"life is a journey not a destination" ....if you stop trying to achieve more you remain stagnant...dead........eveyone needs goals in life (physical,mental).....otherwise whats the point of being here....................GOT YA>>>THERE IS NO POINT  So just shag like a minx baby | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Dark Stalker - I think that's cute when young guys drool at nice looking women, too. Actually, it's sort of flattering to the women I think. I know I've had younger guys flirt w/ me, and I usually just give them a nice smile or say, "Thanks, but I'm taken"  ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Yes Pamela, As was stated earlier, being fit make sex so much more enjoyable! And congrats continuously achieving your goals of looking better. Wodin......don't be so hard on Shagwell....lol. Fitnes1.....I'm sure you had to train with a dedication to get your bodyfat down that low, but what a feeling once you accomplished this huh? And Dark Stalker, I agree, since transforming my body, I require a great deal more of the women I choose to be with that's for sure. I'll always continue to strive for better as Shagwell has stated! Thanks for the replies brothers and sisters. delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Delts - Yes, you're so right! I trained w/ so much intensity and dedication it was probably sickening to some people around me i.e. people I work w/ & some relatives...the ones that don't live the same type lifestyle that I do. That doesn't bother me, though, I only wish they could understand the WONDERFUL FEELING of how I felt afterwards. I think they did see it in my eyes and how I "glowed" about accomplishing the goals I had placed on myself. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 164 |
Delts & Fitness1 : The feeling of exercising is fantastic, I feel it each time I workout. In our 2000 society, we don't work our body as we should I think. That would explain why a lot of people smoke and drink and don't exercise... Life is easy with all the computers, cellphones, electronics and on. I convinced my gf to train lately and I'm happy to see that she's not sitting for hours in front of the tv. (I hate that !) | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
Delts...lol...thanks for watching my back with Havoc big dog I like those that watch my 'back ' baby Can I watch yours now??? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Yeah Dark Stalker, I convinced my lady to start working out just three months ago, and the progress she's made has been startling. She is so into it now, and she's constantly thanking me for continuing to push her into this. Shagwell.......what part of Florida are you cryogenically frozen in? LOL delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
The hottest part baby OUCH! South, near Ft.Lauderdale | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
I've been to Florida a few times now, mainly the St. Pete area.....beautiful white sand beaches....and I partied at Cadillac Jacks most everynight! I've received job offers in Florida, may end up there someday. delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
I love it!!!! Grovviest state I've ever lived in....I've lived in alot...all 4 corners of the US (California, Washington, ALabama, and Pennsylvannia) | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Being landlocked here in Missouri....I really enjoyed the oceanfront in Florida. Far cry from Alabama huh? LOL delts | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Well, I've "veared" from the subj. now, but I was in Key West earlier this year. Gosh, was it hot! I liked it though! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
Damn skippy delt....Alabama, Huntsville to be exact, is like a different country...I was there when I was little and they did not even have school buses!! Ya know why??? THIS IS MESSED UP..they didn't want the whites and blacks riding together .....I ain't shitting you. We were the only catholic family there...all the Christians were trying to convert us...always had to address eveyone as yes mam or sir...that wasn't bad...kinda like that respect thing...but hard to rememebr being a kid | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
Never been to Key West, Fitnes1, but it sounds nice. Shag......so does everyone say Ya'll down there? LOL Kinda backwoods I guess, only been through there once. delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Delts - Key West is gorgeous w/ the sunsets! They're known for that!!! There are lots of "frieks & geeks" so to speak (that's what they call them) on the boardwalk esp. at sunset time. It's different, but it's neat. Of course, you have to go and have a "cheeseburger in paradise." They have good shopping. I love the powerboats there.....next, I want to visit South Beach some time! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 446 |
I'm sure the sunsets are awesome, and I think the best part of "hitting the beach" is showing off all you've worked so hard for! I'm sure you looked hot.....I assume you wear a 2-piece bikini right? delts | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 323 |
Fitness.....you got some go go boots? If so come on down to SOuth Beach I'm about a 30 minute drive away....its an "INCONCEVIABLE" place....INCONVECIABLE | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1549 |
because no matter what mirror I look into I still see a FAT girl! And I am down to a size 5 now, don't think I'll ever be happy! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 413 |
Delts - yes, I do wear a 2 piece. I hate one pieces! (ha-ha) Of course, you have to wear them in fitness competitions, so I usually dress mine up pretty good w/ flashy stuff. AGENT SHAGWELL - would you believe I don't have any go-go boots. I bet I need to get some though. I do have the 5 inch platform, clear shoes, though. Wow, you live that close to South Beach?! Cool! I've heard it's a wild place. A lot of playmates and celebrities go to restaurants & clubs there, correct? ------------------ |
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