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The_Blond_Myth
Pro Bodybuilder
(Total posts: 157)
posted April 13, 2000 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The_Blond_Myth   Click Here to Email The_Blond_Myth     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, I'll make a long story short. Me and an ex-friend were kinda in a friendly dispute between each other, now his girlfriend got involved, and destroyed some stuff on my door. I called police and safety on her, and the agreement is that we don't come in contact with each other, or talk about one another. She is telling everyone I do steroids. Now this is my problem, say I go to student affairs and tell them that she is saying this stuff about me. Now when they talk to her she will say "yeah I said it because its true" and will probably say she saw my needles or some kind of lie. Now would that give them reason to drug test me or search my room? I can nail her by telling student affairs that she is talking shit on me, but what if it backfires in my face? I am worried, I am clean now, but I got needles in my room along with B-12 which is legal, but will still put me on the suspecious list. What would you do?

LP

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kosfer
Amateur Bodybuilder
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posted April 13, 2000 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kosfer   Click Here to Email kosfer     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 38044958
I feel for ya bro you're in a difficult situtation. If I was you I would try not to have a lot of stuff in my room right now just in case. You never know and better be safe than sorry. Try to talk to her nice and easy (since chocking that bitch is out of the question)and try to explain her that what ever happened between you guys happened and that she is acting like a 5yo. Take her for a nice dinner or something whatever it takes to shut her up and give it some time so everyone will forget about it. I would go nicely though as my first approach and if that didn't work maybe try a more persuasive way. Hope I helped...

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RaginAsian
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posted April 13, 2000 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RaginAsian   Click Here to Email RaginAsian     Edit/Delete Message
You should turn the tables on this chick. I've had similar experiences with some fucked up ladies, so I can relate. Here's the plan:

Universities are hypersensitive about sexual harassment. USE THIS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. Look in your yellow pages and find a general practice lawyer. Once you come up with a good story, about being sexually harassed by this chick + the fallout of bad rumors and such, bring it to the attention of the student affairs. Drop this lawyer's name. Say that you are aware of your rights, and that if something is not done to remedy this situation you will be forced to take this to court.

Your school will be responsive. They don't want a lawsuit. You can bet your pants, she's outta' there before you can say lickity dickity taint. This is kind of messed up, but it should get the job done.

Some women do this, why shouldn't you?

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young1
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posted April 13, 2000 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for young1   Click Here to Email young1     Edit/Delete Message
You guys are vicious!!!

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Karate guy
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posted April 13, 2000 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Karate guy   Click Here to Email Karate guy     Edit/Delete Message
OK dude, anything you could get screwed for in your room, go hide it in a locker in another part of the school or hide shit somewhere not in your room. That way even if they search, they find zip and it makes her look like a liar.

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TEXASLFTR
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posted April 13, 2000 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TEXASLFTR   Click Here to Email TEXASLFTR     Edit/Delete Message
I guess that I have to be the voice of reason among you young, pumped, ready-to-smash-a-head-in guys, huh.

Listen, a stupid bitch talking shit is just that....stupid. Let her talk all she wants.
By doing nothing, you negate her ignorance and come out of the situation "the better man".

Think with a clear head. When you start using the past situation ( what she did to your door) as a reason for maliciousness you are going to only screw yourself over in the end.
you said
a) "I am clean now." ---therefore her comments to people that you do steroids is false, right?
b)"suspicious list"?? ---is there such a thing, and if so, who gives a shit. The school year is almost over. You are moving out next semester I am assuming?
c) If you are that concerned about the needles, then get them out of your room and keep them in your car, gym bag, whatever. Additionally, how many guys do you know that have been busted for "using" steroids? They bust the sellers generally, not the users.

Anyway, I am not flaming you at all bro. Just think smart. You are grown-ups. Rumors are ignorance. If you want the truth, she probably wants your cock. She probably likes the idea of being fought over. Young girls do dumb shit like that sometimes. Eventually they grow up, Thank God. (read that as "some" do this and "some" grow up.)

Remember one thing on top of this. If things escalate, or you can't get over this, REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD.

sdw

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100acrewoods
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posted April 13, 2000 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 100acrewoods   Click Here to Email 100acrewoods     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 30177303
Hey, really want to get her back?/ Place an ad in one of those adult rags that she provides "sevices" for a fee.

24/7 incall/outcall. You will be satisfied. Go in person and pay cash for the ad so there is no paper trail.

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Blood4Blood
Amateur Bodybuilder
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posted April 13, 2000 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blood4Blood     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Texas. Use your head, stay calm and think things through. Don't let worring about rumors, possible room searches etc make you get all goofy and really screw things up. When you let your emotions interfere with your rational, your gunna make a mistake, and you'll have no one to blame but yourself. Try and get her by herself and have a quiet conversation with her, and kiss her ass, but don't let her think she has an inkling of power over you. If that doesn't work (and it prolly won't) Just tell everyone with a shrug that she is mad because she tried to hop on you and didn't let her. Then forget about it. She can't do anything "real" to you.

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The_Blond_Myth
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posted April 13, 2000 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The_Blond_Myth   Click Here to Email The_Blond_Myth     Edit/Delete Message
Basically I am not allowed to talk or look at her and she is not allowed to talk to me, There is an ordinance on the both of us. If I were to say "hi" to her, I could get into real deep shit. This sucks, everyone fucking knows now, they all look at me like they are afraid, but I am trying to counteract the situation by being extra nice to everyone. I have another year, but she will not be here after this semester, so I only have to deal with it for a few more weeks. I'll show people what juice can do, I will come back next year freaky huge, that is a promise to all my brothers!!

LP

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