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 Breaking up.... it hurts huh?
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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ya, ive never been involved with someone that i wanted to spend my life with before moving to nashville... well, it seems that the inevitable is happening. i find out i was mean to her and she wasnt completely happy... i had asked her to move in with me before i moved, she gave me a bullshit excuse about her dorm being paid for already... we all know she could have gotten that back... regardless... she visited last week and is now back in nashville, things are very bad... i am not big on remaining friends with people... especially considering thinking of that person with someone else... i cant do it without getting physically sick... and seeing how were 550 miles apart and she is 2 years from completing grad school at least, and i am not willing to EVER move to nashville or that entire area EVER again.... seems to be no other choice... it sucks, but most of you have been through it i am sure... i havent so its new to me... i think the thing that bugs me most is the future.. i have to know that the person i wanted is with someone else... i have to know that i have a "what if"......     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1471 |
IN THIS SITUATION THERE ARE TWO THINGS YOU CAN DO......SMILE BECAUSE YOU HAD AN INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCE,WHICH WAS BASED ON LOVE.SECOND,MOVE ON AND REMEMBER THAT GIRL FOR WHAT SHE WAS.GOOD LUCK BRO. ------------------
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 764 |
ya, i could do that... but for some reason i am not... its getting bad... were not talking well, were actually talking angrily... all i can think of is she can do whatever she wants with whoever she wants... not necessarily sexually, but regardless... i have a lot of frustration going on right now... she will read this, and to her i say DO NOT REPLY HERE!!! THIS IS MINE. THIS IS WHERE I GO TO TALK ABOUT WHATEVER I WANT. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1471 |
WHO BROKE UP WITH WHOM AND WHY? ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 205 |
It does hurt, just remember there is always other fish in the sea?? dont bum your self out about it. It only made me feel worse than I had to. | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2733 |
I always stayed friends with my x's if I could, meaning the wanted to. You get alot of x-sex that way. Tis true. | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1566 |
quote: That is also the best way to get you x's friends in the sack too! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 192 |
On the flipside it is also the best way for you to get hurt and bring up past emotions again. I think it all depends on how serious you were with the woman. Every woman I have dated i would be willing to hand to my friend on a silver platter and it would not bother me a bit... Except one,, and that is the one that i am not friends with! It's Crazy that the one I most cared about is the one that I can't have a decent friendship with! Love is tough! I try not to understand it just accept it! Bootyshaker Bootyshaker | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2650 |
Mad I was gonna reply with a smartass remark to make you smile, but you made me sad  ...I've been where you are my little fellow. My first and only love I broke up with after 3 plus years. Although it was my decision it hurt like hell...mostly I had problems dealing with he wan't going to be in my life anymore, and that scared the hell outta me. Everything was so different, going to sleep alone, waking up alone, not having him there when I needed him, not having him there when i wanted him....just not having him there period. To be completely honest ....it took me about 6-8 months before I was comfortable again...and a year before I was happy being alone and without him. Although, I can't lie and say I never think of him, and never get depressed over not being able to have those feelings I felt with him in the begining, or fightened that I may never feel that way with another person, or just missing him...but during those weak moments I just try to think with my mind and heart to recall the reasons why we are not together...then I snap out of it. Bottom line...its hard...it sucks...it lasts along time...but be strong...think throughly and DO NOT doing anything on emotions that you feel at the moment...and you will get through it. And I truelly believe you will be happier alone, or happier when you strengths provide you with the opportunity to meet someone who can be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Ok..now for the smartass comment...hows you little doggy..still shitting all over the house? Stop whinning and go by a pooper scooper and clean..clean... clean | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 764 |
geez shags, make me feel bad! damn... the dog is doing great... the only time she shit or pee'd in the house was when i was visiting djane and getting the rest of my shit from nashville... the mom let the dog run free in here, so no supervision meant stinky floor... i got back and she pee'd maybe 2 times since (over 2 weeks)... she is doing well, and is HUGE!!!!!!!! steel, i dont think either one of us broke up with the other, i think it was just a forgone conclusion... not sure though... actually, i know nothing... i just know its not possible for us to continue dating if their is no chance of us being together in the future. so where does that leave us? broken up i guess... the last few nights we have talked but its been bad... bitter actually. all i can think of is her calling me up one day (if we remain friends) and telling me how she met this soccer fag or hillbilly fucker... then i know whats next... i couldnt handle that. hell, i have a hard time dealing with her being with anyone before me, being with someone after me would kill me. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2650 |
mad...real life is not all football, beer, and roses.... ...why...I don't know... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 764 |
well, i could do without the beer and roses... but football and sex would be a pretty fulfilling life, dont ya think? |
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