Bebe, I apologize too. It seems a lot of us got off on the wrong foot here, and I for one am not somebody who is generally a mean person. If you will accept my apology please.
due to your interest in teh fashion and grooming forum, I have to accept one of three possibilities:
a. you are gay male
b. you are tiger, jerkbox, or any of the other style grooming forum regulars.
c. you really are a girl.
Ima go with c here... but i'll keep looking for clues.