Would you let your girl go to a male strip club?

[Warik]

ANAL why are you being so mean to Warik?



Warik is pretty cool....why all the spite?

It could be attributed to a number of things, OMEGA.

Humans usually exhibit irrational, illogical, uncivilized poor attitude to those different from them. They seem to assume that if someone does not accept each and every one of their beliefs, then that person must be strange and deserve ridicule.

Besides, "I figured out LONG ago that the [homos] who don't like [straight guys] are the ones with the insecurity in their ownselves."

I will not exhibit the same behavior, though. Just because someone is different from me or inferior in some way does not mean that I should be mean to him or her. I should treat him or her with the same respect I'd treat any other sentient lifeform, hence the reason I still hope Mr. AssPlorer and I can be friends some day. Won't you be my friend, AA?

-Warik

 

[AAP]

This thread has been pretty much talked out, but I just thought I would throw in. Male strip clubs that cater to females are ridiculously tame...it's just a bunch of chicks giggling and looking through their hands, maybe a little wasted, maybe braving sticking a dollar in a dude's pants. A large majority of the strippers are usually gay, and even then they're all kind of silly anyway.

When you say a girl is "not allowed" to be in this kind of environment (which, IMO, is decidedly upperclass compared to female strip clubs), you are telling her that she can't go somewhere where you fear she might get turned on by somebody else. You're not worried about drugs, or booze (I've never even seen one where you can drink), or sex (yeah, right), you're just worried about what's going on between her legs, something that becomes your property when you say where it can and can't go.

I'm 21 myself, and I'm living it up, so if a dude ever plays this daddy shit with me, I go running hard and fast in the opposite direction. I've played the complacent thing before, and it absolutely destroyed my relationships and a lot of how I felt about myself. You are playing a dangerous game here with this girl.

All I can say is, lighten up, if she loves you she loves you, if she doesn't she doesn't and that's life. No guy in a sailor's outfit is going to change that.

There you go. Preach it sista.

 

[AAP]

ANAL why are you being so mean to Warik?

Mean? No. Truthful? Yes. If you read the entire thread, you will see that the general consensus is that he is over reacting to the situation. I am just digging deeper and explaining why.

 

[musclebrains]

ANAL why are you being so mean to Warik?



Warik is pretty cool....why all the spite?

Granted that Anal teased Warik, but -- in classic ad hominem style -- Warik introduced an irrelevancy, Anal's sexuality, into the discussion to try to invalidate everything Anal said. I hardly think Anal's reponse is "mean." It was, if anything, charitable in resorting mainly to humor rather than the same kind of total dismissal of his person.

Anyway, I'm glad things worked out for Warik.

 

[OMEGA]

so am I

 

[musclebrains]

so am I

How does your girlfriend feel about you going to male strip shows, Omega?

 

[AAP]

It could be attributed to a number of things, OMEGA.

Sure could be.... let's name them.....

Humans usually exhibit irrational, illogical, uncivilized poor attitude to those different from them.

Different? You and I? Hardly. It seems that each of us has fantasies that involve muscular, blonde, suggestively clad men. Oh sure..... go ahead and say that He Man had Teela, but they never really dated did they? Not after 7 months. BTW... the only reason he had Teela for a friend was because she was a lesbian.

They seem to assume that if someone does not accept each and every one of their beliefs, then that person must be strange and deserve ridicule.

Really? So because your girlfriend didn't accept your belief about the strip club? Are you dating a "strange" person? Is it ok to ridicule her? I mean, you seem to expect to do all the thinking for her anyway........

Besides, "I figured out LONG ago that the [homos] who don't like [straight guys] are the ones with the insecurity in their ownselves."

Dude... we LOVE straight guys. Man that is where most of our sex comes from. From the straight population. I am not insecure in myself at all. Why would I be? As a homosexual, I have both men and women lining up to have sex with me. Know why? Because just like the Negro race, the Gay race is well hung. We have to be. It is a known fact that in a vagina, only the first couple of inches have enough nerve endings to acknowledge stimulation and pleasure. So all straight men have this covered, no matter how inadequately they are endowed. On the other hand, the prostate is a good five inches upwards with a curve. You got to be packing some serious meat to touch that. Not only can I touch it, I can knock it out the box.

I will not exhibit the same behavior, though. Just because someone is different from me or inferior in some way does not mean that I should be mean to him or her.

If you think I am inferior to you in ANY way, then you better add STUPID to your list of personal traits. I dare you to find any way that you are superior to me. Whether it is physical, financial, or with a GPA average. I don't brag often, but when I do, you can take it to the bank. The day that some little insecure cartoon watching dweeb living in Little Havana is superior to me is a day hell freezes over.

I should treat him or her with the same respect I'd treat any other sentient lifeform, hence the reason I still hope Mr. AssPlorer and I can be friends some day. Won't you be my friend, AA?

We can be friends, we can even be "special" friends. But don't expect me to watch cartoons and I won't expect you to suck my cock.

 

[AAP]

Granted that Anal teased Warik, but -- in classic ad hominem style -- Warik introduced an irrelevancy, Anal's sexuality, into the discussion to try to invalidate everything Anal said. I hardly think Anal's reponse is "mean." It was, if anything, charitable in resorting mainly to humor rather than the same kind of total dismissal of his person.

Anyway, I'm glad things worked out for Warik.

Exactly. Rather than saying I was wrong, he just assumed that bringing out the homo card would justify everything. Notice he did not go back and say anything to the other people who were saying the same thing. Know why?


Because it was THE TRUTH!!!!



DUH!!

 

[musclebrains]

*runs for firehose*

 

[AAP]

*runs for firehose*

And you may want to contact Red Cross, maybe they can drive down and help him salvage some of his dignity.