Why is it that people with kids

[AztecWarrior]

why is it okay for husbands to act this way?

They just want the women to take care of the kids. Sucks I know.

 

[cindylou]

They just want the women to take care of the kids. Sucks I know.

thats awful. My guy better not even try to pull that shit on me when we have kids.

 

[AztecWarrior]

thats awful. My guy better not even try to pull that shit on me when we have kids.

Hope not.

 

[all the whey]

None of my friends ever had kids

But maybe she's trying to find excuses not to go out. Maybe she really just wants to be with her family?

Yep. It is the ultimate excuse. They use it to get out of work to.

If you say something to them about it you are a uncaring bastard.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I believe that children are our future,.....You " have" to put children and family first....And alot of women know that their husbands will just let the kids eat whatever they want and stay up late and that just throws off moms schedule....Kids need to stay on a schedule..( I`m told that at least once a week)

WERD to the nth degree. I can't tell you how much I had to suffer before I went out and after I came back *just* to get a few hours of adult time with my female friends who did NOT have kids. And it just was not worth it. No affront to my female friends but I didnt live with them. I lived with my family. And yea, my ex was a jerk to the nth degree (He would pick fights even before we had kids to make sure I wouldn't go out without him and you'd better believe that when I got home I got SUCH an interrogation from him and then the whole kids' schedule being off thing was just the cherry atop that nightmare) that I simply stopped socializing with females who did not have children. Hell, I stopped even TRYING to go out without him. When I tried to go back to work super part-time modeling it was the beginning of the end... what a PUTZ! He would leave our kids with my sister even though he was home hours earlier as it was just easier for her to feed them, help with homework, change diapers, etc... And she had 3 kids of her own younger than mine!

My bro-in-law is a GOOD man, excellent husband and great dad but he lets the kids get away with an unbelievable amount of shit for one reason or another so much so that my sister REALLY reams him a new one when she gets home! LOL You would think after 14 years he would learn!

 

[cindylou]

Allright then women have got to understand the deal then.

They cant get pissy at you because you have dropped out of their lives slightly because they chose to start a family.

this was the deal with this girl. She was super pissy because she thought because she had kids that I didnt want to be her friend anymore.

of course that wasnt the truth, but after time after time of stuff like this, I start to move on and hang out with other people, and we finally reconciled and then she pulls the shit again. lol.

i understand, but she's got to understand too, that you know, people are going to think you are flaky

 

[Bikini Mod]

Allright then women have got to understand the deal then.

They cant get pissy at you because you have dropped out of their lives slightly because they chose to start a family.

this was the deal with this girl. She was super pissy because she thought because she had kids that I didnt want to be her friend anymore.

of course that wasnt the truth, but after time after time of stuff like this, I start to move on and hang out with other people, and we finally reconciled and then she pulls the shit again. lol.

i understand, but she's got to understand too, that you know, people are going to think you are flaky

You are correct in that she can't have it both ways. If she wants your understanding then she had better be prepared to give hers to you. <--- that has nothing to do with kids or no kids. That is all about common courtesy, mature behavior and being a good friend.

 

[miplank]

Okay...I'm a dad, and I don't like being generalized that "all dads" act that way.

I give my son his baths, dress him in the mornings, brush his teeth, work with him on potty training, etc etc...


Now...My wife does all of these things as well, but the point is...Not all dads just sit on the couch with a beer watching football while mommy takes care of the kids.

Just sayin'

 

[cindylou]

Okay...I'm a dad, and I don't like being generalized that "all dads" act that way.

I give him his baths, dress him in the mornings, brush his teeth, work with him on potty training, etc etc...


Now...My wife does all of these things as well, but the point is...Not all dads just sit on the couch with a beer watching football while mommy takes care of the kids.

Just sayin'

Mine wont either. The first thing I thought when she told me that the sitter couldnt make it was....where's your man? whats he doing?

 

[digger]

It's about priorities. Doesn't matter if you're BFF, if the babysitter flakes Mommy is stuck. (Unless she's Superwoman and always has a Plan B lined up....)

Nothing is more important than your kids. Nuthin' no-how, no-way. Deal with it.