Well, I started working out at a health club about a year ago. I was pretty overweight when I first started. I asked the personal trainer what would be good for putting on muscle. The skinny personal trainer told me that I would need to do just cardio and go very light on the weights. He told me that if I did heavy weights it would put too much on me. Well, the other day he comes up to me and tells me that I should have listened to him. I guess he was right. Now instead of looking tone and thin I've been suffereing with a side effect from heavy weights that causes me to look bigger and muscular. I can't stand to look in the mirror anymore. My arms and chest have grown so much that it is very hard to be around people without them staring at me in shame. Dammit, why did the weights do this to me? If I would have just listened to the 135 pounder now I look horrible!